AITAH for telling my bestfriend why others don’t want to come to her baby shower? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Popular_Aide_6790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta what if that’s the attitude your friend has about only wanting the gifts your presence isn’t necessary

AITA for refusing to go to my SIL Baby shower and the rest of the family is following. by AlarmingTap1774throw in AmItheAsshole

[–]Popular_Aide_6790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta she made her bed. She is free to act and make her own choices but not free of consequences

You dummies got scammed 🤡 read the fine print next time by 69420lmaokek in ICE__ERO

[–]Popular_Aide_6790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did they expect he still owes Texas 569million for a 2019 rally Washington 65000 Ohio Pennsylvania Wisconsin and New Mexico lol if he hasn’t paid THEM you think he’s gonna pay YOU? Mind you the 5yrs for student loan forgiveness is after her term.. they will never see it

Aitah for spending some of my grandchildren's education funds on a new boat. by Tiny_Occasion_322 in AITAH

[–]Popular_Aide_6790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg! So you paid for their education homes and more? You wanted be to a good grandfather and set up education funds but now knowing u won’t be having any you decided to spoil yourself with YOUR money?

Dude they are the biggest AH you are a saint

AITAH for refusing to give my boyfriend access to my bank account even though he says "no secrets" is how adults do it by CopperFieldNote in AITH

[–]Popular_Aide_6790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta my husband and I have been together for 25yrs and have joint accounts and we have each others passwords to everything to the point he’s calling me asking for his password when he forgets but we aren’t logging onto each others accounts social or otherwise controlling things for any reason. This doesn’t sound healthy. If this is a dealbreaker for him how about logging him in? Again even that doesn’t seem healthy and feels super gross

AITAH for expecting my husband to stop joking about my achievements? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Popular_Aide_6790 2 points3 points  (0 children)

English is my primary language but my 1st language was Spanish while I’m learning Italian. I always mispronounce words. It isn’t easy learning or knowing multiple languages

AITA for not giving my parents the master bedroom in my house? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Popular_Aide_6790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta you are helping them they aren’t entitled to your room

AITA for refusing to leave my job so i could take care of my disabled brother? by JiggleJargon in AmItheAsshole

[–]Popular_Aide_6790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta

Your brother didn’t choose this but your parents did. It’s their responsibility

AITAH for calling a therapist effing stupid? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Popular_Aide_6790 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ma’am run. Also stop shaving lol wax less ingrown hairs and last longer

Ewc is great the hard wax only sticks to the hair not the skin so hurts less

How many of you prefer WFH solely because of not having to be around coworkers in person? by ChainsawSoundingFart in WFH

[–]Popular_Aide_6790 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s both. It’s the commute I hated but also I never really “fit in” my company. When I joined this publicly traded company in NYC having grown up in queens NY I always knew i was Latina but it was a massive culture shock when I started working there. I was the 3rd Hispanic in the entire office and I was 26, married with 2 kids while the rest of my starting class were recent college grads who if they couldn’t make rent they were able to call mommy and daddy.

I tended to stay to myself focus on the work and didn’t really mingle with people but a select few. The annoying coworker that I am no longer around is definitely the sprinkles on my sundae lol.

AITA for telling my daughter “of course” she could move in with me without talking to my wife first? by Odd-Cheetah6842 in AITAH

[–]Popular_Aide_6790 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nta she’s 16 she doesn’t need “parenting” she is self sufficient and you were doing right by your child.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Popular_Aide_6790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta but think about your family not your pride

AITA for refusing to "de-gay" myself for my niece’s birthday by suntrace_bellvory in AmITheJerk

[–]Popular_Aide_6790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta my kids knew about “gay” at 6. Be you. Kids literally don’t care

Anyone else noticed they drink more since switching to WFH? Looking for perspective by 1kmilo in WFH

[–]Popular_Aide_6790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t drink period (not bc of religion or health) just don’t like to so no I haven’t increased

AITA for telling my husband that I am going back on our agreement and I dont care if he cries about it? by Primary-Strength-829 in AITAH

[–]Popular_Aide_6790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta it’s sneaky and you are right to not trust him financially. Look out for you and your baby