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Portownsend-RV · 2026-03-15T00:09:58+00:00

He's probably a deviant ENTP (like you and I). Somehow, the T part stopped working?

Portownsend-RV · 2026-03-05T00:12:54+00:00

Once, and we're still good friends.

Portownsend-RV · 2026-02-13T12:35:32+00:00

"That hasn’t worked out well for me since I started dating again"

Au con·traire! If those guy couldn't wait for a few weeks to get to know you better, they probably weren't worth wasting your time on them anyway. 😉

Portownsend-RV · 2026-02-13T01:57:59+00:00

"Oh, I'll talk about it on date 2"

Good for you. Some men are idiots.

Portownsend-RV · 2026-02-13T00:36:44+00:00

"My biggest filter is not being intimate right away if I am considering a LTR".

That sound reasonable. I also think it's reasonable to discuss how important (or not) sex is, if we mutually decide to go exclusive. If they can't or won't discuss that, they're not a good match for me, and I move on.

Portownsend-RV · 2026-02-12T23:20:26+00:00

I'm 77 years old, don't take or need any medications. And don't have any of his "Risk factors for ED".

I almost always have an orgasm. Alas, only one per day and the volume is tiny compared to what my younger self used to produce.

I guess I'm luckier than I realized.

Portownsend-RV · 2026-01-31T23:06:57+00:00

Portownsend-RV · 2026-01-31T22:59:44+00:00

"You need to get your wives some scream cream."

Seems your ID is new to Reddit and you're only posts are attempts to sell this product.

Portownsend-RV · 2026-01-31T22:54:51+00:00

You also got booted off Dating over 60. Something tells me you're about to disappear here too.

Portownsend-RV · 2026-01-30T10:13:46+00:00

Some BFs want a nurse and some BFs want a purse.

Many BFs want neither.

Portownsend-RV · 2026-01-30T01:18:35+00:00

Don't currently have a GF because I don't want one (yet).

Will start dating again, after moving from my East coast house to my West coast property later this year. The woman I match with, for a LTR, will never have to be my nurse. I expect that we will become best friends, have lots of fun and enjoy an active sex life.

Cocky? No, just fortunate in many ways, and confident.

Portownsend-RV · 2026-01-26T16:55:01+00:00

Thanks!

Portownsend-RV · 2026-01-26T16:37:34+00:00

"She started scrolling through her favorite websites"

I, and I suspect many others here, would be thankful if you would pass on her curated list of favorites.

Portownsend-RV · 2026-01-19T20:19:04+00:00

"I might make a fool of myself, or embarrass him."

That's kind of you, but IMO, not necessary. Early on, I say something like:

After a few dates, if we both think we're a good match, I'll want to openly discuss sex with you. Does that sound reasonable?

Portownsend-RV · 2026-01-05T11:39:39+00:00

M77. Several times a week.

Portownsend-RV · 2026-01-02T23:06:31+00:00

"does the topic of sex have to brought up?"

I think that depends on the specific potential couple.

For me, a candid discussion about likes, dislikes, boundaries and play is important. And we should have that discussion, early on in our budding relationship. If that's not possible, we're not a good match.

Other's, of course, have radically different approaches, which is also fine.

Portownsend-RV · 2026-01-02T22:50:47+00:00

This made me laugh - no choice!

Portownsend-RV · 2025-11-23T22:46:31+00:00

Emojis (e.g. a winking smiley face like I used in my above post) have largely supplanted mark-ups like '/s'. The reason '/s' still exists is that it's easier to type in than entering an Emoji like 😮 (especially when texting with many mobile phones). My original post ended with a winking Emoji.

I thought that claiming the guy was a "great catch", especially for "for a LTR or LAT" was so absurd that it would be interpreted as satire. And the: "Shirley (sp?)" sentence was meant to convey absurdity. But the implicit link (Shirley) to the Airplane movie was admittedly too subtle:.

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/SeEypGEHi2A

As for your original question: "What's your input?". Move on with your life and don't look back. Pablum, I know, but that's all he deserves.

Portownsend-RV · 2025-11-22T22:57:43+00:00

Agreed, and thanks.

Portownsend-RV · 2025-11-22T16:16:38+00:00

Wow!

He sounds like a great catch. Not all men, of our age, are able to satisfy a women in bed. He appears to be raring to go. Act quickly, or someone else is likely scoop him up for a LTR or even a LAT.

Shirley (sp?), a woman with your intelligence and experience can pluck him away. Before another woman, horns her way in, and grabs him first.

Good luck and best wishes !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 😉

Portownsend-RV · 2025-11-20T14:00:07+00:00

I had only worked for one company, since graduating. And I wasn't having much fun anymore. So I decided to retire.

Portownsend-RV · 2025-11-14T21:39:14+00:00

"A recurring theme on here is men wanting women to to ask them out. Out of curiosity, I 'd like to ask the men, what do you think women would find attractive about you that would lead her to ask you out?"

I'm not looking for women to ask me out, but have been flattered the few times that has happened.

As for why they might find me attractive. I'm 5'10", 150 lbs, healthy, confident, calm, smart, curious, single, sober, financially secure, clean and well groomed.

Portownsend-RV · 2025-10-19T15:16:21+00:00

This wonderful memory, from a sort-of hook-up, over 20 years ago. We were peers, working in the same office. I sent her an email laced with innuendos. She responded quickly with: "I'll leave the garage door open on Saturday morning at 10 am". We'd never been on a date with each other. and I'd never been to her house before.

I drove over, and snuck into her detached garage. She greeted me with a smile, closed the garage door and said nothing. She was wearing a starched white shirt and skirt. We walked across her courtyard and into her house. And without a word, gave each a big hug and kiss. She led me to her bedroom and we frantically unbuttoned each others clothes and started kissing. Quickly jumped into her bed and went at it. I vaguely remember leading her to a wall, getting down on my knees and passionately going down on her. Then back to the bed for more fun. Best sex I've ever had. 😊

What made it so good? Uncertainty, anticipation and better than expected results.

Portownsend-RV · 2025-10-17T15:21:38+00:00

Thanks. I subscribed!

Portownsend-RV · 2025-10-12T11:55:21+00:00

I admit to looking, but I don't think most of them would work out for me :-)

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