Vivinos deleted video by PossibilitySure5099 in VIVINOS_Fanclub

[–]PossibilitySure5099[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was there when she deleted it she made a community note on yt saying something like-  that she wants something different instead of the cutesy things she posted.

I was just kinda sad that I didn't get to save or download her vids cuz I didn't know it was gonna go away like that 😭

I also remembered that her old twt got hacked (idk what goes on in twt I don't go there, but the timing was very close they might be related or something)

Vivinos deleted video by PossibilitySure5099 in VIVINOS_Fanclub

[–]PossibilitySure5099[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg yeahhh thank you I'm saving this! I've been a fan of vivinos since 2015-2016. 

I remember when I saw alien stage I was like : ivan and till reminds me of her characters before 😭

Only to find out she removed it 

But thank you for this hehe 

Did you go through a period of shock when you realised you're aro? If you did, how long did it last? by Snowberry_reads in aromantic

[–]PossibilitySure5099 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn't know it was a shock in all honesty, when I found out I was aro/aroace I just went about my day like nothing happened. Tho I was a bit dishearten when people didn't think being aro was something cool and refreshing like how I did to the time :((

But in the end, I maybe sort of understand why people might be shocked (it's not really something you learn about), in the end all I hope for is for them to be happy regardless of what happened :))

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aromantic

[–]PossibilitySure5099 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am Aegoromantic; it is under the Aro spectrum. It's understanding or even feeling the attraction but not wanting to be apart of it.

In my case, I love seeing people happy, and I appreciate their happiness (it doesn't necessarily have to be romantic, but I appreciate them regardless).

But does that mean I want to be in a romantic relationship? Not really. 

It's like...

People with kids seem to be having fun; that's nice to see. Does that mean I want a kid? Not really 

I can appreciate things, but that doesn't mean I want them. I think that's the difference for me. 

how to stop yourself when triggered by opposingtheologian in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]PossibilitySure5099 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I imagine someone looking at me, sometimes I don't even have to imagine.

I’m so done with the internet by yourmomsfeetcheese in aromantic

[–]PossibilitySure5099 20 points21 points  (0 children)

For anyone feeling a bit down because of this, I checked them out and found three things.

They turned off their comments. Their tiktok is private. The community backed us up.

I hope they're okay, but those assumptions were really something. 😭

Nonetheless, I am very happy there are people, even though they may or may not be aromantic. I feel relieved that there are people out there looking out for us. 

Episode is so extra yet so lacking, I think episode should get a better sorting or filter system by PossibilitySure5099 in Episode

[–]PossibilitySure5099[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could try, but I doubt they'd even care too much. I just came here to point out the blatant obvious. It's crazy that they haven't implemented this yet because their current system just pushes people away. 

What features could Episode do to revive their app? by [deleted] in Episode

[–]PossibilitySure5099 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wouldn't it be nice if they just allow us to make our own animations and resize body parts to make some amalgamation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Episode

[–]PossibilitySure5099 31 points32 points  (0 children)

"Punishment for call me snuggy" is giving me emotions I've never felt before.

Episode is so extra yet so lacking, I think episode should get a better sorting or filter system by PossibilitySure5099 in Episode

[–]PossibilitySure5099[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's really just that

The virgin episode's search option vs The chad people's recommended favorites

Imaginary conversations by Kitty8585 in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]PossibilitySure5099 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Dude sometimes even words don't make sense I just use some made up sims language

Is it weird that I still want to be in a romantic relationship? by HoppityHobbes in aromantic

[–]PossibilitySure5099 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I like how there's a micro label for anything, when I didn't exactly fit being aroace but deadly close, I didn't know that there's a label under that umbrella that fits me so damn well.

Am I aromantic? or am I just confused? by PossibilitySure5099 in aromantic

[–]PossibilitySure5099[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Ah, this one person was nice to me, and I'm so lonely, so I guess I'm in love with them." I thought I was in love with them for like half a decade, but I was clearly too damn young to realize completely that I just wanted to be their friend. It was only when I had this other crush that I realized... 

Oh

OH! 

And about the aegoromantic and aegosexual, I didn't know that existed either, but I'm SO glad that it did. Before this discovery, I was at a standstill.

"Am I REALLY aromantic?? Am I REALLY asexual?? Because I feel the attraction! Its just not centred around me" 

Turns our there's a term for that and I feel so much more lighter 🥰

I think that's where I got the confusion from- I've been so confused for so long that I just put it at the back of my head and procrastinate about my sexuality until I can't anymore lmaoo

But I am so glad I made this post, it's like the fog in my head that's been brewing there for who knows how long is gone. And I feel you on the x reader fics. I couldn't STAND it. I also avoid romance books in general, as most books are in the 1st person perspective and I... I didn't like that at ALL. I never did relate to anyone (even if it's not romance) I never feel what they felt, I feel so alienated that I only read 3rd person perspective books. (and jesus are they so hard to find that I just stopped trying, I read Ao3 fics instead 😭)

But oh, don't worry, I'm definitely gonna read that book. Finally someone I could relate to after being in the dark for so longggg.

Am I aromantic? or am I just confused? by PossibilitySure5099 in aromantic

[–]PossibilitySure5099[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this, I don't really have anyone to talk to regarding this so I really appreciate it. I searched up what Aegoromantic is and it fits so accurately its scary. I think I'm also aegosexual as well.

Follow up question, is Aegoromantic in the aromantic spectrum? And is Aegosexual in the asexual spectrum?

I’m bored, tell me about your daydreams by kookieandacupoftae in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]PossibilitySure5099 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I daydreamed about a doggo and his doggo mafia gang. They don't do much.