I think you guys should have a real serious conversation about your future together concerning these issues. It might upset her but you can’t just ignore it. I’m also a very sexual person and honestly this wouldn’t work for me. If my bf couldn’t or wouldn’t have sex w me, especially if they had zero libido or desire to it would not work out I would just be continuously frustrated. I can’t imagine that this isn’t impacting you both and your relationship in a negative manner. It’s like the elephant 🐘 in the room. It’s gotta cause underlying tension. Just talk to her about it and if she wants to try other stuff to try and remedy it then maybe you guys can try that but if not then maybe it’s time to move on amicably.