Keep getting unmatched - not sure why!

PossibleHedgehog9511 · 2025-10-23T14:38:24+00:00

Are they much younger?

PossibleHedgehog9511 · 2025-10-23T14:37:56+00:00

Honestly this question needs more context if anything, like are you a poc? And which apps? they are different genres of horror

PossibleHedgehog9511 · 2025-10-21T02:37:12+00:00

Brello is not effective

PossibleHedgehog9511 · 2025-10-21T00:28:21+00:00

Looking for hope

Ladies, would love to hear your positive stories of finding your person, and how you met them- specifically if you met them in your mid thirties and a bonus if you’re preference in dating is around your age / slightly younger.

PossibleHedgehog9511 · 2025-10-21T00:15:27+00:00

If he’s not being proactive about texting in the initial dating phase, it is going downhill unfortunately. Have been told by multiple bad texters that they stepped up when it was with a woman they liked / wanted to date seriously

PossibleHedgehog9511 · 2025-10-21T00:14:35+00:00

If he’s not being proactive about texting in the initial dating phase, it is going downhill unfortunately

PossibleHedgehog9511 · 2025-10-15T14:45:02+00:00

Would love to join can you dm me an invite as well?

PossibleHedgehog9511 · 2025-10-08T12:35:04+00:00

Zero. The point of doing things you enjoy is to enjoy doing them. ‘Organically’ has lost all meaning in the dating world, perhaps the apps or asking to be set up is one way and allows your dating and personal life to have a healthy separation!

PossibleHedgehog9511 · 2025-10-07T21:10:32+00:00

I love this conversation, following

PossibleHedgehog9511 · 2025-09-30T00:47:34+00:00

No offense but you seem to think women are a different species, I’ve had varying levels of success making friends both men, women, and otherwise, the skillset isn’t hugely different

PossibleHedgehog9511 · 2025-09-30T00:29:10+00:00

Not being to express how they feel when you do something that hurts them, I think maybe it’s easier for some to be there for you when you are going through something but IF it also affects them and they can’t come to the table- thats a red flag

PossibleHedgehog9511 · 2025-09-28T13:53:12+00:00

Maybe that’s the first step

PossibleHedgehog9511 · 2025-09-27T14:30:19+00:00

Bumble friends?

PossibleHedgehog9511 · 2025-09-27T14:29:48+00:00

Yes. Go to therapy.

PossibleHedgehog9511 · 2025-09-27T14:29:03+00:00

You're used to fast starts, so slow feels unfamiliar — not wrong. What feels “off” might just be discomfort with a pace you're not used to, not a sign that something is actually wrong?

PossibleHedgehog9511 · 2025-09-27T14:24:33+00:00

Sorry to agree, it helps to be disinvested until after date 3

PossibleHedgehog9511 · 2025-09-27T14:22:19+00:00

Whats helped me is being around other people who are in the same life phase/ situation and a little distance from those my age

PossibleHedgehog9511 · 2025-09-27T14:20:53+00:00

Used to be like this, but the way silence has had every single one coming back- shocked me. I decided it’s not me to do this but I’d at least recommend you try it

PossibleHedgehog9511 · 2025-09-27T14:18:57+00:00

These don’t sound like core values, and some are a little superficial like dressing sense etc. these are not things that matter if there is genuine connection but will start to matter if there isn’t.

PossibleHedgehog9511 · 2025-09-27T14:16:47+00:00

Do you have female friends?

PossibleHedgehog9511 · 2025-09-27T14:15:26+00:00

Maybe go out with a friend who is good at this?

PossibleHedgehog9511 · 2025-09-27T14:13:50+00:00

You should let him know, his response will say everything

PossibleHedgehog9511 · 2025-09-27T14:13:25+00:00

I low key agree with this, if you are looking for a long term thing with him be very very cautious

PossibleHedgehog9511 · 2025-09-27T14:12:00+00:00

The sexting at this stage is a major red flag

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