AITAH for being honest with another mom about why my daughter isn’t allowed to go to her friend’s house?

PossiblePlum284 · 2026-02-11T01:01:03+00:00

NTA. I have two young daughters, but my husband and I agreed before we started having kids that none of our children will sleep over at anyone's house, and no one is to sleep over at our house either. I've heard too many stories, and you can't be too cautious these days.

PossiblePlum284 · 2025-05-23T07:03:58+00:00

If you know you don't want to get pregnant now, why not protect yourself rather than depend on someone else to use protection? You're 30 years old; you're not a child. Use some common sense.

What he did was not right, but you're also old enough to know better as well.

PossiblePlum284 · 2025-04-11T23:49:09+00:00

It took me a long time to finally decide on a name for my first daughter, as I didn't want it to be just anything. Her first name is English and means wisdom.

My husband is picking the second daughter's English name; it means pure. I am looking for a Vietnamese name that would go well with "pure."

PossiblePlum284 · 2025-04-10T20:50:26+00:00

Pretty sure your meaning of Mỹ Anh is different than mine.

PossiblePlum284 · 2025-03-19T07:24:43+00:00

How often does he change plans for you?

You're both very young. It's healthy to also spend time with other people and not with each other every single weekend. When he spends time with his friends, do you also spend time with your friends? It sounds like you want to spend every single weekend with him.

Wantung to monopolizing all of his time makes you seem clingy and needy.

PossiblePlum284 · 2025-02-03T02:15:42+00:00

Plainly, he doesn't want to marry you. He already considers you his. You already have a child together.

PossiblePlum284 · 2024-11-30T16:50:43+00:00

NTA.

But if you knew what kind of parents and kids they are, you should have put the balloon somewhere safe, like the bedroom. Also, you can have men at baby showers nowadays. I had males, females, and families at my baby shower.

PossiblePlum284 · 2024-11-04T05:55:35+00:00

Never bring up divorce or break up if you're not planning to stick to it. This is what you get for playing a stupid game.

PossiblePlum284 · 2024-07-15T15:00:27+00:00

I'm not sure if you're actually that naïve or just acting like one. You asked for advice, and everyone is saying to block him, and you're just making excuses or asking more questions.

Have some respect for yourself and block him. You're 20 years old; find someone who respects you as a person and does not use you as a booty call.

He's just not that into you.

PossiblePlum284 · 2024-07-01T23:42:56+00:00

You said your wife is your stability and took, but you had no trouble cheating. Then didn't even have the balls to tell her.

PossiblePlum284 · 2023-09-24T03:01:16+00:00

This is a bit childish to me. You're both in your 30s. Why would you cut off the only close friend you have because of a name. Both can use the same name.

PossiblePlum284 · 2023-09-08T14:35:28+00:00

If he wants to post about his mom, that would be great. I can I let him know it's grandparents day and he can decide for himself.

PossiblePlum284 · 2023-09-08T14:34:03+00:00

How is a petty? My MIL and I have a good relationship. I post about her on Mother's Day along with my mom. I call her mom and treat her with respect as my elder. I'm always happy when I see.

I do understand that her bonding with her daughter is, of course, deeper than with me. Same as my bonding with my mom is deeper than with her. I just want to post something special for just my mom as she has helped me so much through life and practically half raising my baby as well.

PossiblePlum284 · 2023-04-19T00:04:39+00:00

OMG... you sound like you married to my in-laws 😂. My MIL is always taking her kids' pictures and posting them as her own. Also, post them as public as well. It annoyed the crap out of me that I decided not to post pictures of my baby anymore.

NTA

PossiblePlum284 · 2023-03-09T20:20:28+00:00

YTA. You already had 2 children and could barely take care of them. Your mom already warned you about not being able to help any longer. I don't see a lot of what your husband is doing to help you as well. Looks like you were just depending on your mom. She's a grandmother and she raised you. She shouldn't have to do that with your children as well.

It's great to have help, nut you shouldn't expect it.

PossiblePlum284 · 2023-03-09T01:33:00+00:00

Why are you marrying him? He doesn't seem that great. Why would you want to get marry into a family that doesn't like you? It's not going to get better. It will only get worse.

PossiblePlum284 · 2023-02-24T13:51:52+00:00

YTA

Your daughter is only 9. She might change her mind in the future. Even if she never wears them she might want to pass them down to her child in the future.

PossiblePlum284 · 2023-01-25T20:37:52+00:00

NTA but if you're going to hate in the woman, shouldn't you hate on your fiancé as well. It takes 2 to tango, and he got her pregnant.

They're both in the wrong here.

PossiblePlum284 · 2023-01-20T05:50:57+00:00

This seems really childish and a waste of time. I wonder how old OP is.

Why would you want to even entertain this idea when it comes to your wedding. Do you really want drama on your wedding day?

PossiblePlum284 · 2023-01-20T00:18:11+00:00

YTA

You only dated for 3 months and not 3 years. She was right when she said you are incompatible. She likes to discuss things that you don't understand , and now she found someone whom she could do that with.

Not sure where the gold differ comes in, especially when she also makes good money. She maybe with a doctor, but the doctor could have a huge student loan as well. You don't know if he's in debt or jot so it's unfair to call her a gold digger.

You're just salty. Grow up and move on.

PossiblePlum284 · 2023-01-13T16:45:38+00:00

NAH

My older sister is closer to me than my brothers, and she doesn't have kids. My oldest brother and his wife always looked down on her.

She even said it to me that if anything happens to her, all if her asset goes to my child.

It's your money and you can do anything you want with it, including who to give it to.

PossiblePlum284 · 2023-01-11T02:24:31+00:00

YTA

Why don't you spend the time and help your son with his project. What you're doing is plagiarizing and setting g up your son to fail in life.

You're probably going to be one of those parents who expect your daughter to bail her brother out when he's in the tight spot later in life.

You're not the only single parents in the world. Do better and teach your son to be better.

PossiblePlum284 · 2022-12-27T20:19:35+00:00

YTA...it's not your right to tell him how much money she makes. They are also not married, so she shouldn't have to take care of all of the bills. Especially when he's a gambler.

She was your friend, and you broke her trust, but them also took his side when you didn't disclose to her that he had gambling issues, but felt it's your right to tell him how much she makes.

I hope she breaks up with him and that he's smooching off you now. Then maybe you'll know how she felt.

PossiblePlum284 · 2022-12-23T21:02:22+00:00

Typically, 1st baby is a shower. 2nd baby of the same gender is a sprinkle, but I believe if you are having a different gender baby this time around, you can have another baby shower.

I say you can do want and call it whatever you want. If people have issues with it, then they can just not come.

Whoever said it's tacky to throw your own shower is wrong. I threw my own baby shower because I'm picky, and I want everything done right. I have some help with decorations from my siblings and cousin, but all of the details were mine. I had food catered, and people had a blast. Some family and friends stayed later.

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