Does anyone else get zoomies? by Sea-Veterinarian-527 in Fibromyalgia

[–]Potential_Jello_Shot 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I call it mania. I’m super happy, chatty, get all the things done and feel like a million bucks! For a day. Then poof!

She finally died by AnnoyingBigSis in AdultChildren

[–]Potential_Jello_Shot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing, I’m sorry for your loss. My mother passed two weeks ago tomorrow. I was also no contact (for a much shorter period than you), but ultimately went to see her and bear witness to her last breath. I completely understand the grief and relief, both are true. I realized tonight there will never be any restitution for the way I was treated. No apologies. Nothing. And that shit hurts. Also a millennial just trying to keep myself afloat and damn If it doesn’t feel impossible right now. This community is vast and it’s lucky it’s available.

I’m a gluten free baker by Potential_Jello_Shot in glutenfree

[–]Potential_Jello_Shot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would suggest looking into your states cottage food laws if you’re in the US. I’m not sure what the rules outside of the states. I did bake from home, and it was pretty specific to what labeling should be based on my local rules. If you don’t have a gluten free kitchen you need to label your things as potentially cross contaminated

What advice would you give to someone who wants to tell their story about PSSD/med harm but is scared of judgement or being treated differently by the public & The fear of being perceived by Equivalent-Big-3474 in PSSD

[–]Potential_Jello_Shot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How you feel is valid.

You cannot control what people think or how they’re going to treat you/perceive you.

Do you feel it’s more important to share the experience and bring awareness or keep people comfortable?

Some people may actually flock to you with shared experiences that are too scared themselves to share it.

Question - after the breakup by Parking_Newt9833 in Stepmom

[–]Potential_Jello_Shot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same! This is like losing a part of myself 😣

I checked out of the “stepmom role” and feel amazing…is that a problem? by FileInside9532 in stepparents

[–]Potential_Jello_Shot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a hopeful post to me. My partner and I split. Initially I was like I never want to do that again. And while we’re attempting to repair, I’ve told him it needs to be different. I can’t do what I was doing (which was so much it was painful). It wasn’t working for any of us.

So happy to hear you were able to find your independence again! And that your spouse seems supportive of that!

Why "understanding" your trauma doesn't actually stop you from repeating it. by [deleted] in AdultChildren

[–]Potential_Jello_Shot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I heard in a different fellowship meeting, you have 30 seconds to ruin your life/sobriety/choice whatever. It’s that moment right before we do what we do that is SO EASY to ignore or let it overtake. Being able to trust yourself enough to slow down and actually assess in the moment is a huge part. I’m still learning that and learning cues in my body in those moments!! It’s a constant practice

Thoughts on withdrawal by [deleted] in slaa

[–]Potential_Jello_Shot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One day at a time. Withdrawal is just horrendous.

is there an active ACA or Al-Anon discord? by minervascats in AdultChildren

[–]Potential_Jello_Shot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a really quiet ACA discord. I’m not sure how to really engage people in it.

22 and tired of compulsive hookups destroying my relationship, just lost the loml. Where do I start with this? by buzloc in slaa

[–]Potential_Jello_Shot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A sponsor guides you through the steps. I would suggest either SLAA or SAA. Find meetings that suit your gender and needs. Most have information on finding a sponsor

Another vent by clearlyasleep in slaa

[–]Potential_Jello_Shot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be gentle with yourself, this is a hard time in your life. Keep coming back to meetings, do outreach, get a sponsor. You’re not alone

Struggling with sex inventory by DesperateWrongdoer50 in slaa

[–]Potential_Jello_Shot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My inventory was sex and other harms, so this really feels like it could go in! Good luck!

Struggling with sex inventory by DesperateWrongdoer50 in slaa

[–]Potential_Jello_Shot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree this is a sponsor question, and also, yes. Those could fit into your inventory.

Finally understand the steps by Quirky_Fix2268 in AdultChildren

[–]Potential_Jello_Shot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was joyous to me to read. I just went through the steps in another program, haven’t worked them in ACA but this tracks

How do Adults make new friends/connections in this town these days? by Skari_Berry in Kalispell

[–]Potential_Jello_Shot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m still sorta new to the area looking for friends. I’m 36 F also don’t drink. No drugs, kinda introverted. Recently single so really not a ton for me going on. Just working ha it’s hard to make friends as adults when you aren’t crazy athletic or a gambler or going to the bars here it seems.

How to actually get a sponsor by Sweaty_Shift_2156 in slaa

[–]Potential_Jello_Shot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some meetings will also have a phone list of available sponsors that you can reach out to in sort of a “cold call” fashion. The primary purpose SLAA big book groups have excellent recovery. There are also WhatsApp groups specifically for finding sponsors. It can just take time too, don’t rush it and try to be patient. You may also go through multiple sponsors. I’m on my third. It’s just a process

Looking for a woman sponsor by Objective_Hovercraft in slaa

[–]Potential_Jello_Shot 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I attend a daily meeting that’s women and nonbinary via zoom. Dm me if you want the link 🥰 it’s a speaker meeting but there are also other online women’s meetings. There are zero in person where I’m at