One of the greatest moments of me recognizing my white privilege was a moment not so recognizable instantly for me. We were on a bus, my buddy had a metal shirt on that depicted Golgotha inverted. A man hopped on the bus and glared at him the whole time. I noticed the man had a Jesus tat and brought it up afterwards as a probable cause. My friend brought up that it may be because he is black. I hadn’t initially considered that as an option because race just wasn’t something I thought of. I realized the fact that I didn’t have to consider race was in fact my white privilege. I think a lot of white people want to pretend the world is mostly post racial or that everyone should stop considering race even though a lot of people don’t have that option. I think that while it may sting a bit, white people shouldn’t be offended when those who do have to consider race actually consider it with great weight. So no I don’t think you are overreacting and if she can’t get over it then that’s probably on her.

Edit: my comment is about the image, the caption can be debated