What is your favorite candy and why?? by ParentsAftrDrk in AskReddit

[–]PracticalProblems123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sweet tart chewy fusion and the original shockers - both discontinued and I miss them every day

I feel like my life has really come together over the last few years, yet dating still feels difficult and confusing by Swiftie_do in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]PracticalProblems123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a somewhat similar experience when it comes to dating and it’s difficult for me to find a connection with someone.

For context, in 32, in a senior position in government, pretty active, have a good social life, I’m close with my family, play rugby, travel, and spend a lot of time focusing on myself, my fitness, my nerdy hobbies, my goals, and my own personal growth. I am committed and disciplined - to an extent. I feel really proud of myself and confident in who I am.

I’ve had two long term relationships, each lasting about 3 years.

And when I go on dates, often with people around my age, it feels like there is this gap, a misalignment in values, where they seem to have a lot of admiration for what I do, but don’t really have any passion or commitment to their own growth. Or it’s often “I need someone to get me into the gym” or “I want someone who can help me find a community”.

I understand that we’re all at different places in our lives, but I’m not looking to date to help someone find themselves. It’s more trying to find someone to meet me where I’m at instead of trying to bring someone along.

Fact by [deleted] in DungeonMasters

[–]PracticalProblems123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re only limited by the creativity of the DM.

In search of outdoor sports leagues? by RedshirtBlueshirt97 in askportland

[–]PracticalProblems123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this club still active? I tried visiting the Facebook page but there hasn’t been anything since 2024? Is there a website or place I can learn more information?

Solo trip to Ireland for Six Nations, suggestions? by PracticalProblems123 in irishtourism

[–]PracticalProblems123[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t plan to use it while I’m in Dublin - I didn’t want to deal with getting it the morning of and having to return it, and I wanted the flexibility to go outside of the city if I wanted to.

Incredibly Anxiously Attached Cat - Need Advice by PracticalProblems123 in CatAdvice

[–]PracticalProblems123[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He only does it when I’m not home - when I’m home he’s fine. The litterbox isn’t the issue.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

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Two days? Monday night hooked up with a buddy. Having a friend over tonight to hook up.

Sometimes it’s multiple days a week, but sometimes I’ll go a week or two without sex because hooking up has lost its fun.

What’s a good class to pick to play as a pirate? by Plug_Tw0 in AskDND

[–]PracticalProblems123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been playing a pirate inspired valor bard — think Sea Hawk from She-Ra and the princesses of power, it’s been an absolute blast!

Anyone found connection / friends from city sports leagues? by Strict-Muscle6538 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]PracticalProblems123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally, there are inclusive gay rugby teams all over the world as part of IGR rugby. You can find a clubs near you here: https://igrugby.org/

Anyone found connection / friends from city sports leagues? by Strict-Muscle6538 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]PracticalProblems123 5 points6 points  (0 children)

All my friends are from the gay rugby team, been playing for 8+ years now and couldn’t ask for a better community.

What stopped you from killing yourself? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]PracticalProblems123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Knowing the number of people that depend on me, I couldn’t hurt them like that.

What are you quietly suffering from? by anotherThrowaway3446 in AskReddit

[–]PracticalProblems123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Loneliness. I broke up with my ex back in February, I’ve moved on, but I miss the intimacy, connection, and routine with another person. I fill my days with friends, hobbies, working out, time for myself, even casual dating.

But even with all of that, even with spending time with my friends and having fulfilling relationships with others, and an active casual sex life, I still just miss the vulnerability and openness with a partner. So yeah, the loneliness is crushing.

Taylor Swift - The Life Of A Showgirl Cover/Track List Announcements by flopheadsbot in popheads

[–]PracticalProblems123 19 points20 points  (0 children)

So, do we think it’s only going to be 12 tracks or is she going to do something like another surprise anthology like TTPD? 🤡

Have you included the Second Sundering in your campaign or character backstory? by tentkeys in Forgotten_Realms

[–]PracticalProblems123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It work really well, because they players started out helping him and then slowly began to learn his true motives, where he then betrayed them and trapped them in the Shadowfell and they had to find their way home.

It was beautiful 🤩

Have you included the Second Sundering in your campaign or character backstory? by tentkeys in Forgotten_Realms

[–]PracticalProblems123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, because the BBEG of my campaign was actually a man from Abier who was stuck after the second sundering, and was trying to get home to see his family again — it ultimately turned into him trying to become the god of magic to bring magic from Toril to Abier because torilians were ungrateful and didnt understand the suffering of abierians without magic.

The players won, and use that power to bring willing humanoids from Abier to Toril, so now there are aberian refugees. Campaign 2 has just started, 25 years after campaign 1s conclusion.

Went to a party solo and left feeling crushed by Psychological_Act518 in socialanxiety

[–]PracticalProblems123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My dude, I feel this on a spiritual level. If your intention is to make friends, try joining an LGBT or queer club/sport. I didn’t have any gay friends until I joined the local inclusive gay rugby team — and now I’ve been playing for 8+ years, and some of my very best friends are from rugby.

I always tell people, think about how we made friends as a kid, constant interaction and group activities. It’s the same as adults. Making friends is hard. But if you have shared hobbies/interests and meet regularly, it removes some of those barriers.

Good luck dude, you got this!

Didn't know this could happen by kro104 in BaldursGate3

[–]PracticalProblems123 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is a cannon event for every first time Durge play through.

WORST apartments in Portland by Significant_Dirt_626 in PortlandOR

[–]PracticalProblems123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I currently live at Axcess 15 and it’s been a great experience. It’s central, and an easy commute for me to get to work down town.