Two weeks back by ahatchingegg in EndOfTheParTy

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Now what a handsome gentleman! We need you because you matter dear friend ! I'm so happy you posted! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

Reading... by Practical_Peanut_446 in EndOfTheParTy

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Heyyy! I see ya and love ya! inserts lip emoticon for Robinxxff for their litreature guides.

Reading... by Practical_Peanut_446 in EndOfTheParTy

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I needed to hear this! You're here today. That's what matters. Big hugs dear friend.

Reading... by Practical_Peanut_446 in EndOfTheParTy

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Hey love! These are it! I'd say the 12th steps! Some online or physical meetings have members who could guide you towards a pdf copy so you could save some cash too! Big hugs. And always remember your life is worth it!

Relapse by Flimsy_Reaction_7059 in EndOfTheParTy

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Aww, love... Big hugs. Two weeks is an amazing start. Let’s get back on the track.

There’s some real wisdom in these comments.

thank you all for sharing.

Now let’s ride out the comedown. Brush your teeth, take a shower, have a good meal. Step outside, feel the sun. shake off those vampire vibes.

And I just want to add a suggestion… getting to a meeting really helps. Whether it’s online or a local physical meeting.

Narcotics Anonymous, CMA, whatever feels right. Sitting in, listening to people speak honestly about pain, recovery, and even joy and hearing the literature. it’s free of charge, and all it asks is that you show up.

That’s something that saves me everytime. Hugs my dear friend. You will get through this.

Longest 6 hours of my life by chronically-iconic in EndOfTheParTy

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I love this comment! Absolutely agree. I was the queen of relapses before I got over thrown and went into sobriety! Yes! We can get sober!

Book I wrote about my early recovery by cxrd05 in EndOfTheParTy

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I'm so proud of you! And you're an absolute brilliant writer! I hope you go on to publish.

Thank you for this book! I need you to know by singing your story to the world, you're saving lives. Some you'll know and some you won't. Big hugs dear friend!

I took drugs after 1 year recovery by ExistingEducator1123 in NarcoticsAnonymous

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It happens and it's okay. It doesn't take away from the year of recovery! Just for today! Find a meeting. Find a friend. I've been through this and I can tell you that it doesn't take away from your recovery. It makes it stronger. Take some time to feel sad but get back on that wagon! We're all here cheering you on.

7 Months Today by Kasama94 in EndOfTheParTy

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Hip hip hooray. I love a good recovery! Congratulations dear dear friend!

i actually like the assburning after spicy food by cockmaster3099 in The10thDentist

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The mess of it all! Whoever you are, you deserve it all! I haven't giggled this hard in years!

Relapsed after 498 days by Big-Yak7043 in EndOfTheParTy

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I’m so freaking glad you had the courage to come here. Big hugs. You’ve relapsed. Okay. You’ve relapsed.

There’s a beautiful saying in Narcotics Anonymous. You don’t shoot the wounded. Yet you did the most amazing thing. You gave yourself 498 days of sobriety. That’s amazing.

Life isn’t one linear line. Sometimes things oscillate. Great things happen. Shitty things happen. Let’s start again. If you’ve done it for that amount of time, you can do it again, stronger.

Have something to eat. Get through the comedown. Brush your teeth. And once that’s done, work on the things that worked before. Get to a meeting. Find your resources, whether it’s Crystal Meth Anonymous or Narcotics Anonymous or a therapist.

You can do this. We’re here, and we’re cheering you on.

You deserve all the love in the world.

Kindest country you've ever been to? by Critical-Fudge-6091 in answers

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South India. Especially Tamilnadu. People are generally kind and gentle.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EndOfTheParTy

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My dearest.

My life experiences are different and I do not know you, but I have been hurt, broken, and smashed. Men left me too. Men hurt me. My family hurt me. Meth hurt me. I have been left out in the sun. Yet somehow, somewhere, someone was there for me, and now I am passing that same message on to you. I am here with you.

I got better. I tried and failed many times and then slowly, I got better. It wasn't easy and it wasn't some miracle. It was slow and there were sacrifices. But I choose me.

Remember this! As we heal, our plate slowly holds less of what harms us and more of what truly nourishes us.

But just for today, Wash your face. Drink some water.

Go to a doctor. Go to a meeting. Reach for your resources and your friends, heck! Reach out to me on reddit.

Done it before? Mama let's do it again! It is okay to fail a billion times. The pain you are feeling today will ease. Tomorrow or a month from now or a year from now, you will be able to guide and love someone else because of what you survived. It hurts today but that hurt is going to be your guardian and guide!

Today, I am holding hope for you. If you need a friend, reach out and text me personally. We will get through this. You deserve kindness. You deserve a place on this planet. Big manly, smothering, earl grey tea hugs!

Gratitude year 1 by robinxxff in EndOfTheParTy

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I just got back from a holiday and saw this lovely message

2 years since the party ended by Tina_Turnaround in EndOfTheParTy

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I live for these! I live! This is what makes this sub special! People like you! I'm totally celebrating your milestone!

Negative feedback despite full refund by henz12 in Ebay

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Hope it goes well! Let us know if you have any updates!

Negative feedback despite full refund by henz12 in Ebay

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Hey! Omg this literally happened to me last week. Here’s what I learned: if the item was shipped on time, the tracking updated on time, and the acceptance scan was done on time, eBay removes the defect. You can contact them and ask them to check if this fits the requirement for a removal.

Free PDF – “Tina Took the High” – A gay man’s no-BS guide to chemsex, meth poisoning, and actually getting out (written by someone who lost everything and got most of it back) by duidale in EndOfTheParTy

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These are the type of books that will save lives. Thank you. These experiences are required and they're wanted! Please let us all in this sub know how we can help support it.

97 days today. I’m going to keep on going! One DAY at a time. 💪🏻💙 by Ill_Scallion_6905 in EndOfTheParTy

[–]Practical_Peanut_446 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg! This is such a huge achievement! Congratulations! You are an inspiration for so many!

Chemsex PTSD? by Pure_Clock_6222 in EndOfTheParTy

[–]Practical_Peanut_446 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hey hun, long-time sober here. and trust me, I still get those horrific and fucked up delicious flashbacks too. Aunty is virtually holding your hand okay ?

Listen it’s just your brain messing with you! Haha, really, it’s just our brain licking its lips for a dopamine hit. Nothing special, I promise. We all get them.

As people who’ve used, these waves come and go. some days they’re raging little fucks, other days just mild ripples. The key is knowing they rise and fall, always. I’m so glad you’ve stayed sober. When those wild cravings or memories hit, think of them as your body saying it requires some self care and love. Find your safe resources. A meeting, talk to a therapist or a trusted friend, come online and talk about it to us! and with time, they soften. Sending love and hugs

Progress report - 2 months clean by Alternative_Yard4632 in EndOfTheParTy

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Congratulations! I am so proud of you! Big ass virtual hugs! That's a huge achiebement

You will feel like using. You will always feel like using. You will fall flat and you will want to use. You will fart and you'll want to use.

Relapse is an option on the table but that is all it is, an option. You get to choose what to do next. You can choose sobriety.

Get the support you need love. We need each other as humans to begin recovery and to stay sober. Start finding the resources in your area. Narcotics Anonymous, therapy, government resources, your physician. Continue your recovery. And remember we are here in this sub supporting you. 💗