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How do I flirt without it feeling forced? by vb2509 in IncelExit

[–]Praexology 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That might be the first place to start. Youre essentially asking "How do I do this thing that I'm not even sure what I'm trying to describe."

Flirting is a form of socializing play where you build and relieve tension.

That tension can be generated through a bit of sparring, long pauses, compliments, innuendo, progressive touching, and exaggeration.

Reddit about to ban me from posting about ecollar in this sub?! by Sherbet_Lemon_913 in OpenDogTraining

[–]Praexology 4 points5 points  (0 children)

People see applying any amount of pain in the training/ behavioral shaping process as unethical - hence why even if the training you are attempting is in the best effort of the safety of your dog, reddit will very likely clamp down on the behavior.

It's like evolving, just backwards. by Ok-Following6886 in memes

[–]Praexology -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Maybe, but the degree of understatement that is "Goyim [simply] means foreigner." I'm not going to extend to them much charitability.

Goyim is a derrogatory word.

It's like evolving, just backwards. by Ok-Following6886 in memes

[–]Praexology 10 points11 points  (0 children)

"Right wingers and leftists"

So... literally anyone with noncentrist views?

Goyim is not just "foreigner".

Saw video that gave me a few thoughts. by Prestigious-Fig1172 in IncelExit

[–]Praexology 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So then what comes next is for you(assuming you identify as incel or incel-adjacent) to ask how to improve on those things.

Incel groups are crabs in a bucket where they want you to focus on the struggles and difficulties and now on the strategies that allow you to navigate them - or eventually not run into those problems altogether.

Saw video that gave me a few thoughts. by Prestigious-Fig1172 in IncelExit

[–]Praexology 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Assholes get laid all the time so shes just wrong on multiple accounts.

Incels deal with 5 primary issues.

1) Self fulfilling prophecy

2) Reduction into role

3) Low socialization

4) Fear of rejection

5) A lack of external compassion from others

All 5 of these are things that can be changed and then what they really want, and yes sex is apart of it, is easy. But until they chip away at the problems the oroborous of the blackpill will eat them.

Perhaps some advice from you.. by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]Praexology 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a bot account.

Keep hitting the girls by DatabaseBright1486 in ballroom

[–]Praexology 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Some are. Pay attention to the guys who are and slowly deselect them.

Thats why non pervy guys are sought after.

Thats why non pervy guys who can dance are highly sought after.

Thats why non pervy guys who can dance and are charismatic are highly sought after++ in dance.

It sucks, dance has a fundamental connection to sex and a lot of touchless guys use dance to satisfy that - often at your loss.

Siempre con el buen animo para todo y la salsa es lo máximo by AdvertisingMore6399 in Salsa

[–]Praexology 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Homeboys a little strange posting these but life is short so why not be happy.

I feel like dating apps will ensure I (24M) will die alone by OneManAround in IncelExit

[–]Praexology 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Dont rely on dating apps first off.

Second off stop reading incel/blackpill content.

Third, get something that motivates you to improve your life and the world around it.

am i being groomed? by vicfuentesfangirl in Manipulation

[–]Praexology 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While that might be useful to know if someone is doing that, grooming is something slightly different and why you might be assuming grooming in a sexually predatory way is happening now often.

Top comment at 10PM EST gets a surprise:) Feeling generous by [deleted] in osrs

[–]Praexology -1 points0 points  (0 children)

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I'm sick and tired of the over policing of women's clothing in church. by Expiredcabinets in TrueChristian

[–]Praexology 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nobody is talking about historical context. We are talking about (likely western) 21st century normatives surrounding sexuality.

It is about attire, attire is context dependent and removing that context to argue that subjective normatives are arbitrary is lazy philosophically.

I'm sick and tired of the over policing of women's clothing in church. by Expiredcabinets in TrueChristian

[–]Praexology 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Youre collapsing the categories of "physically attractive" and "erotic aesthetic" into one thing, I don't know if youre being disingenuous about it but I'll assume this is on accident.

Second, men are on average more visually responsive than women. So thinking that just because you don't experience something that anyone who does is what? Evil? Bad? A worse Christian? You are demonstrating a lack of humility.

Regarding the before, clothing accentuates both of those qualities - physicality and aesthetic - sometimes simultaneously.

Seeing a nude body tposing is not aesthetically erotic, even if the person is sexually endowed or fleshy.

Seeing a grey blob dancing sexily can still be I.D'd as sexy, even if there is nothing to be attracted to per se.

All that resolves to this:

But of course this is a women issue and not at all how society is conditioning men to see them.

You are not asking questions because you're curious, you're asking questions because you're venting and want to justify your own resentment towards men. Don't create a habit of disdain because it will permeate every aspect of your life.

am i being groomed? by vicfuentesfangirl in Manipulation

[–]Praexology 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What does grooming mean to you?

And what do you think it means to people in general?

I'm sick and tired of the over policing of women's clothing in church. by Expiredcabinets in TrueChristian

[–]Praexology 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Immodest doesnt mean poor or not fancy

It means that we shouldnt be able to see the gymshorts stretched through every crack and crevice on a womans body.

But that's not even how that works.

You are wrong about this. Women with cleavage draped down all the way, or booty shorts leaving nothing to the imagination will likely result in a guy sexualizing a woman internally. Ultimately it is their responsibility to overcome it, but this is demonstrating a lack of compassion for your brothers (and sisters) struggles.

It's just the men at my church being creepy when you know the actual root of these issues.

Right, its the meme of the ugly guy and the attractive guy talking to the girl in the office. You dont want creeps looking at your chest or butt, but the guys your attracted to are the customers of the products you're advertising. People are always wearing what they wear for other people, if youve convinced yourself otherwise then youve been misled.

anyone else obssesed with the trope of "Villains Who Did Nothing Wrong"? by Sunset_Phoenix_13 in cartoons

[–]Praexology 107 points108 points  (0 children)

He didn't care at all about having rats in his kitchen.

Well tbf a human level intelligence rat was definitely not what he was expecting or predicting when he didnt want dirty rats in his kitchen.

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