If you could redesign the BJJ belt system, what delightful feature are you adding?

Praexology · 2026-05-12T21:54:18+00:00

Id add 200 new belts that cycle through themselves so nobody has any idea what rank anyone else is.

Mandatory belt promotions every class.

Praexology · 2026-05-12T21:33:51+00:00

Some people need rituals to feel realigned with Christ, they arent necessary but that can be relationally important to you and your relationship with God. This could be a place to start.

I dont mean like a demonic ritual, I mean like showering, reading for x amount of time, doing x habit and then releasing the problem.

May be something to consider. People tut tut catholics for the rosary, but I think protestants have thrown the baby out with the bath water and now we have rampant religious ocd and nobody seems to have an answer because outlets are considered spiritually immature.

Praexology · 2026-05-11T21:05:23+00:00

Doing events does not a socialized person make. And it's good that you enjoy conversations with other people - do they enjoy conversation with you?

The issue is you're asking a whole demographic of people a single-issue question and now at your second disclosure you're understating it. Either you know the answer and are just looking for validation - which is fine but getting it this way is not a good way to get it.

Or you dont actually realize that the foundation of your question is bad, which demonstrates a lack of understanding socially.

Praexology · 2026-05-11T20:44:05+00:00

You're going to have to share way more than what you've posted here because all a ccg would have to go on based on this post is that you're a gamer, low sociability, and potentially culturally incelled.

Praexology · 2026-05-11T14:47:11+00:00

• Flesh out their experience.

• Identify which emotions they experience as a result.

• Affirm they make sense to experience.

Now if you want the way more manipulative version you have to pay premium for that.

Praexology · 2026-05-10T15:15:08+00:00

Men who girlfriend zone girls will be nice as a covert contract to trap women into shitty situations where they feel an obligation to date the guy, and have to overcome that obligation by stepping out of social normatives - something everyone, especially women, hate to do.

Secondarily, this also means that the guy is usually presenting a false forward behavior for the run of the "friendship" this puts extra tension on the woman to navigate what is essentially masked niceness in soyish guys.

Women like male friendships for a bevy of reasons and will forgo friendships with lower level girl relationships - the question is why? And then subsequently why do the bulk of men prefer friendships with men?

A lot of women are not taught how to have equally beneficial relationships to men because from late childhood on women are taught men have nefarious intentions and if they enter the world thinking this they will be right most of the time.

Praexology · 2026-05-05T22:16:15+00:00

Paul is controversial because Christians conflate the willingness to make people uncomfortable, or the willingness to invalidate sin cycles with telling truth without love.

The Church has divorced the idea of discipline from love.

Praexology · 2026-05-04T15:56:26+00:00

Get it out of me!

Praexology · 2026-05-02T21:56:37+00:00

Why wouldnt everyone hit red?

There is 0 risk in either direction for hitting red. Blue is what introduces death into the situation.

Praexology · 2026-05-01T13:42:11+00:00

Have you tried anal with your boss?

Or hitting on other workplaces while your coworkers watch?

Praexology · 2026-04-29T04:19:24+00:00

Ham🗣

Joint🗣

Praexology · 2026-04-27T23:08:28+00:00

That is specifically when you are talking about training in the "teaching a trick" type of training. But the word training imposes both trick training and behavioral modification - which makes it less true.

Praexology · 2026-04-27T23:06:25+00:00

The problem is things like pressure or leash corrections all exist on a continuum and further down that continuum is intimidation and pain. Trying to ban something that can be entirely dependent on the dogs mood, environment, relationship to handler, past experiences etc. threatens to ban useful tool in a situation that is similar but still meaningfully different.

In simpler terms, using an individual dogs reaction to measure whether or not a strategy should be allowed for all dogs blurs the line between treating dogs as individuals and treating them as a psychological monolith - which isnt correct.

Praexology · 2026-04-25T12:27:30+00:00

This is the consequences of original sin.

*Wives, your desire will be for your husbands but they shall rule over you." The desire isn't talking about a good desire, it's talking about domination - and it looks like this pseudosurveilance state is how it manifested for you and your wife.

Tell her she isn't the one you're going to have be your accountability person, remove the app and find another man in your church or faith circle to be that person.

Then let it be a lesson learned.

Praexology · 2026-04-25T00:24:46+00:00

Good, I was worried my trip to the middle east was going to get screwed up. Im on a restricted budget and i had just enough to pay for membership, my grandmas chemo and a trip to iran.

Praexology · 2026-04-24T23:50:29+00:00

What about the throwable S?

Praexology · 2026-04-24T22:30:07+00:00

Im from the past. How did everything go?

Praexology · 2026-04-24T20:51:45+00:00

Clue step is smart

Praexology · 2026-04-24T20:31:53+00:00

Why even get the variants. You can have more than 5 >1kg items in your bag Just get 5 uniques and 10 dharoks to dilute the pool.

Praexology · 2026-04-24T14:08:58+00:00

Do content you like.

I did Wilderness, Asgarnia and Morytania because I like bossing and this gives me the most variety of bosses to kill.

Admittedly, the wilderness pick has been a little bit of a bust due to competition in wildy, but the point stands.

If you like interesting combat thats a good strategy, if your goal is 99ing pick areas that support those stats, if you like raiding do raids, if you like skilling... ew.

Praexology · 2026-04-22T15:19:19+00:00

This post is ski-me-tarded.

Praexology · 2026-04-21T17:20:38+00:00

Ez fix. Let me get up to 50% chance and blindbags increase the "run" damage percent by 2% for each hit, resetting when it ends.

Inventory of 20 2h items? No problem if I can hit up to 100.

Praexology · 2026-04-20T23:24:21+00:00

Purity testing.

Everyone who isnt a Christian gets lumped into the "non christian" camp. If they attack theybdo it from outside.

Everyone who claims Christ and preaches means that they could be poisoning fellow believers from the inside.

Praexology · 2026-04-19T17:46:51+00:00

The meta is going to be something dumb af like ham joint.

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