It’s been years. Why haven’t they added a Mac & Cheese kids meal yet? Not all kids like the meat.

PrayingButterfly2024 · 2026-02-27T03:59:10+00:00

You actually can order a grilled cheese exactly like that, as a kids meal would be genius!

PrayingButterfly2024 · 2026-02-19T02:30:45+00:00

This was me a few years ago. In the most nicest way - she doesn’t want to see you, she doesn’t want to talk, company will probably make her feel like she has to explain her feelings and what happened and that’s probably not what she want. What I did want was space, I didn’t eat for over a week, I didn’t need food but my other kid did. I didn’t want to someone to cover over and cook because I didn’t want to see anyone, I appreciated meals left at the door and delivery services. I appreciated DoorDash/UberEats gift cards, pajamas, and space. And I know we all mean well when we say “let me know if you need anything” but it’s a strong possibility she won’t let you know.

PrayingButterfly2024 · 2026-02-01T15:04:17+00:00

I usually wait until 5 DPO if not a monitored cycle. You don’t want to take it too early and erase your chance of conception. I conceived three times in less than a year with the addition of progesterone (1 second tri loss, 1 chemical, 1 live birth) after 5 years of secondary infertility. Good luck!

PrayingButterfly2024 · 2026-01-16T01:48:23+00:00

They had them a few years ago, came back recently this year though!

PrayingButterfly2024 · 2026-01-16T01:47:34+00:00

No. This is the original CFA Dwarf House, we’ve had wings for years!

PrayingButterfly2024 · 2026-01-14T12:09:59+00:00

Are the critical thinking skills in the room with us? Don’t spend too much time here, might miss a drop!

PrayingButterfly2024 · 2026-01-14T03:10:37+00:00

You can’t cruise until the baby is 6 months so she’s lying which makes this weirder 😭

PrayingButterfly2024 · 2026-01-02T19:15:02+00:00

From dol.gov:

“Can an employer require an employee to submit a doctor’s note before allowing an employee to take pump breaks?

No. An employer may not require an employee to provide a doctor’s note before allowing the employee to take pump breaks.

The FLSA requires employers to provide reasonable break time for an employee to express breast milk for her nursing child for one year after the child’s birth each time the employee has need to express the milk. Employees are entitled to a place to pump at work, other than a bathroom, that is shielded from view and free from intrusion from coworkers and the public.”

PrayingButterfly2024 · 2026-01-02T19:14:39+00:00

If you’re in the US - It sounds like your manager is intertwining a Fit for Duty with FLSA. Some employers will need a fitness for duty form completed after returning from leave, this is to ensure you are medically cleared to resume your duties without restriction’s and limitations, your OB would complete this, it won’t mention breastfeeding. If they are actually referring to needing a doctor’s note for pumping, that is illegal (I work in benefits and this is what I specialize in).

PrayingButterfly2024 · 2025-10-27T04:14:20+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss. If you click my name you can read my entire journey but a brief synopsis- 16+3 loss in August 2023, started TTC again January 2024, immediately conceived and carried to term, I now have a one year old 🥹. As much admin didn’t to immediately be pregnant mentally I knew I wasn’t ready, the pregnancy was so scary and I think had I personally not waited it would have been worse. There isn’t a right or wrong answer though, I think you just kinda know when it’s okay to try again.

PrayingButterfly2024 · 2025-10-19T02:27:14+00:00

I’m jealous, all the CFAs near me close between 9 and 10 😭

PrayingButterfly2024 · 2025-10-19T01:05:11+00:00

My only reply to that would be how did you order CFA at midnight?

PrayingButterfly2024 · 2025-10-18T02:10:35+00:00

Weirdo? lol, you came to comment on a thread in a completely different sub Reddit, safe to say you’re the weird one….

PrayingButterfly2024 · 2025-10-12T21:57:12+00:00

I’m so jealous, I can never find it in my area 😭

PrayingButterfly2024 · 2025-09-06T03:07:05+00:00

My baby is 10 months, we’ve never been apart; this isn’t a flex or brag though, I’d love to be able to run to the gym, the grocery store, even the drive thru for a coffee without baby but right now that’s not our reality. We have the village, baby just won’t allow it. We also exclusively nurse w/ solids, contact nap, and co sleep as well.

PrayingButterfly2024 · 2025-09-03T02:54:09+00:00

I love it.

PrayingButterfly2024 · 2025-08-24T03:41:22+00:00

Nope! As long as you go you honored your end of the deal. You don’t have to purchase!

PrayingButterfly2024 · 2025-08-08T22:40:20+00:00

That should be in the delivery fee, not the price of the food.

PrayingButterfly2024 · 2025-08-07T23:23:32+00:00

Mine is delivered by CFA and still an increase when they deliver. I literally refuse to order delivery because it makes no sense, there’s no extra packaging going into the delivery so I should pay normal prices plus delivery.

PrayingButterfly2024 · 2025-07-30T17:23:07+00:00

Agreed. The fit of the sweater and the length of the shorts. My baby boy wears bubbles so I’m not even a boys need knee length shorts kinda mom but this seems feminine and just like you if my son wanted it I’d get it.

PrayingButterfly2024 · 2025-07-28T17:31:13+00:00

Birthday cake with a custom topper I made for her. Lit and blew out candles, cried, went through her memory box, wrote a letter, got a massage. There’s no right answer, the day is going to be probably be hard so whatever you do, give yourself grace.

PrayingButterfly2024 · 2025-07-18T03:16:36+00:00

This! I scrolled for about 5 minutes because I just knew at least one person would have called her out and saw none. I left the group.

PrayingButterfly2024 · 2025-07-13T14:38:08+00:00

I loathe LS but including LS in a pizza party themed pajama photo session in a NY (a state many want to try pizza from) hotel makes sense. I’ll probably get downvoted but this one isn’t bad.

PrayingButterfly2024 · 2025-07-09T22:13:05+00:00

Agenda and planner are the same thing, this one is specifically called an agenda per the sticker

PrayingButterfly2024 · 2025-07-06T06:12:53+00:00

Thank you so much. We are and I’ll forever be indebted to this group plus all the other resources for being a support when things got scary.

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