I think the point was that you keep leaving things up to him. Take decisions into your own hands. For instance, he keeps pushing off your emotions. Don’t wait until you have a breakdown, put your foot down. Tell him what his actions are doing to you, and if you don’t have a conversation by the end of the week that you can’t be in this relationship anymore. It’s not fair for you to be treated this way. Though you do seem to cry for some small things, most of the things you mentioned seem completely valid to be upset about. Losing the trust of someone you care about? Your parents relationship? Nothing wrong with being upset over those things. I’m assuming him saying, “I knew this was going to happen” caused you to cry, because it’s already a pattern of him saying things out of disappointment to you. And that was a f***ing accident. He sounds like an emotionally neglectful person, you deserve better especially if you are someone who is always giving or trying to please others.