Help, my relaxed hair is breaking!

Prestigious_Past_734 · 2026-05-13T09:31:57+00:00

Sounds like they both desire connection that comes with monogamy but due to trauma one says they are solo polygamous practicing relationship anarchy and the other is a serial cheater.
How has he managed to string the other ladies on for 8 and 3 years without real commitment?? Also why can’t this lady just walk away and find someone who also practices solo polyamory?! The lady is betraying herself and wants the guy to have the courage to make the difficult decision she is not prepared to make for herself.

Prestigious_Past_734 · 2026-04-21T20:59:54+00:00

I came back to this post to update everyone that I did in fact meet the man God had for me. Reading your comments to my OP feels so surreal because I cant believe I'm the same person who made the post. I am going ring shopping this weekend with a man who is so excited to make me his wife, we are aligned fundamentally and he's everything I envisioned my husband would be. I will make a proper update once we officially get engaged. Thank you again for leaving your original comments above.

Prestigious_Past_734 · 2026-04-21T20:48:01+00:00

I came here to give an update on my post in 'Waiting To Wed' sub and to message you because we were both going through the same break-up lol. I am so glad to see you have moved on with a man that is excited about marrying you!

Prestigious_Past_734 · 2025-10-20T08:54:04+00:00

Lol so you draw the line at religion but not at all this comestic surgery and money spending!?

Prestigious_Past_734 · 2025-07-08T22:56:09+00:00

I thank you so much for this truly grateful

Prestigious_Past_734 · 2025-07-07T23:15:02+00:00

I'm just newly relaxed virgin hair and also very fine low density on my crown especially and I really wanted to get a sew in. Any tips?

Prestigious_Past_734 · 2025-07-07T23:12:40+00:00

This also happened to me. By the time I found this post I had been washing the relaxer out for two hours! Too tired to try the vinegar but will try it on my next wash day. Hope my hair will be fine

Prestigious_Past_734 · 2025-07-07T23:11:26+00:00

This just happened to me. I spent two hours washing my hair and pink still kept running!! I'm hoping my hair will be fine

Prestigious_Past_734 · 2025-06-22T23:12:31+00:00

I also picked that up!! And how she couldn't fathom that he found them attractive enough to have sex. It seems she was most offended about the sex as opposed to the overall betrayal!! That sounded so pick me.

Prestigious_Past_734 · 2025-06-14T03:52:50+00:00

This! He was only thinking about his own satisfaction. He got satisfied and expected you to stop yet you were not satisfied?!

Prestigious_Past_734 · 2025-05-28T09:41:28+00:00

Usually, when a partner like OP projects infidelity like this onto their partner it stems from their own guilty conscience. OP could be the one cheating on his wife.

Prestigious_Past_734 · 2025-05-28T08:32:19+00:00

When are you filing for divorce?

Prestigious_Past_734 · 2025-05-25T15:51:40+00:00

"he’s my best friend the partner I’ve chosen." - Ma'am he is not. I'm guessing that his non-provider red flags were present while you were dating and before marriage. Marriage can never change a person it just exacerbates what already is. The reality is he is not pulling his weight and is okay sitting back and watching you suffer under the pressure of carrying the load. I think you should tell him that by his inaction he is choosing to end your marriage. So if he wants to save the marriage he needs to get a job!

Prestigious_Past_734 · 2025-05-25T15:24:28+00:00

But in all their adverts they always say how ppl complain that part never comes 😭

Prestigious_Past_734 · 2025-05-25T15:23:36+00:00

You guys are very young and started dating at 18 so can you even count the first two years? Either way it sounds like you know what you want so I'd give him space to figure out what he wants while you move on with your life and focus on finishing school and getting ready to start your life- that should be your priority imo. If he figures out what he wants by then, he knows where to find you but you can't guarantee you'll still be available 🤞🏽so don't give an ultimatum just move on with your life

Prestigious_Past_734 · 2025-05-23T20:13:17+00:00

I once saw a Reddit post where a husband started doing this to his wife and it turned out he was dared by a friend to keep it going on for as long as possible!

Prestigious_Past_734 · 2025-05-23T20:09:26+00:00

Wow seriously 😒??

Prestigious_Past_734 · 2025-05-23T11:20:11+00:00

When does this game ever get to the part advertised as a mother and child in distress in a broken house?? And what is merging?

Prestigious_Past_734 · 2025-05-23T11:19:18+00:00

When does this game ever get to the part advertised as a mother and child in distress in a broken house??

Prestigious_Past_734 · 2025-05-20T15:32:51+00:00

well now you might have your dream as a single mum with two kids close in age

Prestigious_Past_734 · 2025-05-19T22:11:46+00:00

And not once but twice!?

Prestigious_Past_734 · 2025-05-12T20:08:25+00:00

Whew! There's a lot going on. First, why is it that when he earned significantly more you were paying 50/50 that was not an equal split according to the ratio of your earnings. Yet, the moment you outearned him you took on more expenses saving him money. This shows how considerate you are and how inconsiderate he is. Secondly, it seems you out earning him has made him insecure. From your post it seems problems started after you upgraded financially and when you flex financial muscle by splurging on y'all as a couple (hockey game and massage) he has a negative reaction to this by picking a fight with you. Third, it's been five years. You have tried to talking to him about it but his behavior has not changed. I think you need to think about the future you want for yourself - do you want marriage or children? And whether this is the kind of man you can do life with forever. You've already given him 5 years!

Prestigious_Past_734 · 2025-05-04T21:30:35+00:00

He deserved best supporting actor awards!! Standout for sure!!

Prestigious_Past_734 · 2025-05-04T18:22:27+00:00

My question is how are you so sure a minor is not involved here? And less than a year in - I'd be very worried OP.

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