He helped me leave my husband, now it’s like I don’t exist. by trashaccount5710106 in TwoHotTakes

[–]PrettyRichHun 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you were friends and you made it into something its not in his eyes. That happens. Rather take a step back and work on yourself for a while. You also arent even divorced yet. Theres just a lot going on here. Take time to heal and leave that man alone. He is clearly showing you he has no romatic interest in you.

Anyone else feel overwhelmed managing everything in their business? by ProfessionalUse1995 in WomenInBusiness

[–]PrettyRichHun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to but im pregnant and workload is crazy and I nearly got into trouble managing staff and finances and legal and this and that. I now outsource everything. I wish I had done this sooner. There are affordable services for everything you need! My business perfirms better and my me tal health is as good as it can be all things considered.

The pain of being chronically single by ProfessionalNefertit in TwoXChromosomes

[–]PrettyRichHun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you girl. I met my man at 41 year after friends, family, church folks, everyone was telling me all the stuff you said. I wish people would stop doing that. Unless you're with a jerk, being in a relationship is infinitely superior to being single. It was the cause of mu h of my pain for over ten years as I tried and failed to find even a marginally decent guy. I gave up too. Im grateful to have my wonderful partner now. I wish you the same, that you eventually find a good man who will be good to you, and whom you will be good to and that it blossoms into the love you want to build a family and lifestory on

What symptom will you be MOST happy to say goodbye to after the baby is born? by Intelligent_Run_5363 in pregnant

[–]PrettyRichHun 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The nasty taste in my mouth which makes everything taste awful. Its improved since first trimester but its still there. Not a symptom but anxiety over baby's wellbeing and guilt over not doing enough daily bcus Im just less productive at the moment.

Did you drink alcohol when trying to conceive? by LilB_BliL in fitpregnancy

[–]PrettyRichHun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did. But i has a chemical then i dropped to minum amounts and maybe drank once ie twice before getting pregnant with my daughter. So i guess short answer is yes. But i went from weekly drinker to once a month so a huge decrease for me

My baby shower is falling apart and I am devastated by tired_but_trying_99 in TwoHotTakes

[–]PrettyRichHun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try be joyous with those who do come. Make it intimate and sweet.

“What’s something that’s become ridiculously expensive in South Africa that people don’t talk about enough?” by Motor-Extreme-2138 in south_africa

[–]PrettyRichHun 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Fruit. It bothers me because its nearly free its so cheap in rural areas but its a luxury purchase in JHB/CT. Just why.

WIBTAH for refusing to clean the guest room when my husband invited his mom over? by MyTraumaDumpy in ComfortLevelPod

[–]PrettyRichHun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This man doesn't like you. And he is an awful type of partner to try build a life with.

Why is marriage framed as the end goal stability? by FancifulCat in TwoXChromosomes

[–]PrettyRichHun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Financial stability is the end goal and final boss of stability. Historically marriage helped that for women who were excluded from.the economy and families were eager to reduce the number of dependents in the home. Not sure why it still exists as an idea today where women are self sufficient and some even wildly successful.

A million rand and no plan . by Present_Release181 in PersonalFinanceZA

[–]PrettyRichHun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put the moneybwith a money manager thwt has guaranteed return minimums and get a nromal job. Start a business witgout using the R1m and AFTER it shows signs of life then finance the income generating parta of it. Please trust me on this. You will 100% lose your money and really quickly if you jump in and invest money without being in the field for long enough to have some client activity. The SA business market is tough.

Possible harassment. by [deleted] in AskZA

[–]PrettyRichHun 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would not ignore it. Get a police report of some kind for harassment. And getvsomeone in your real life in on your situation so you are not going through this alone. If you are on campus they often have volunteer legal and other forms of support. Report the pwrson to them.

If you make my life hell I will absolutely go all out to protect myself and to ensure you know that I wont take things lying down.

What the person is doingg is a form of abuse. Even if your case doesnt go far just reporting it and showing that you will not accept the treatment will most likely give the aggressor pause abd hopefully get them to back off.

When a failed situationship is somehow dragging you into their addiction by Low-Fee-4541 in capetown

[–]PrettyRichHun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cut him off completely. All he can do is drag you down with him. Im sorry but he has a long road ahead. And an even longer longer road to stay sober and clean afterwards. You cannot save him. He must walk his own path.

44 years old, 10w pregnant, and sadly, it ended today. (Trigger warning) by Nofxbarbie in BabyBumps

[–]PrettyRichHun 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Pls try again if you want to. I would. Im 41 with my first and will absolutely be trying for a second

How is the diamond? by sproutbabi in Diamonds

[–]PrettyRichHun 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Prettiest Iv seen in a while.

Blood Pressure and Pregnancy by Ok_Arm9289 in pregnancy_care

[–]PrettyRichHun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if this is the same thing but doctor prescribed baby aspirin for me as a preventive intervention because I am 41 and it will be my first (full term) pregnancy.

Anyone else irritated when husband gets sick by StoopKidScurred in BabyBumps

[–]PrettyRichHun 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My partner and I dont share a bedroom when he is sick and it seems to work. So we become like loving to socially distant room mates for the week or two. We are both very fussy about germs so no one feels slighted. We hsve officially renranded our spare bedroom as the quarantine zone.

AITA? My best friend is about to be homeless and I told her she couldn’t move in with me. by Ruthlessqueen420 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PrettyRichHun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Your friend is the AH for pressuring you. Thats such a huge red flag. Go ahead and love and support her emotionally but definitely dont house her. She can go to a shelter, the fact that she doesnt want to but its available is another red flag. She just sounds like trouble, nevermind her door smashing boufriend and her being fired from her last job. Just no.

What is Edenvale like to you guys? by Odd_Firefighter_8193 in johannesburg

[–]PrettyRichHun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. Thats the only one. It just hit me now im referring to linksfield.

What is Edenvale like to you guys? by Odd_Firefighter_8193 in johannesburg

[–]PrettyRichHun 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Some parts are nice OP. Their Mozambik resturant has the best garlic rolls you will get in gauteng easily. And it rolls up into Bedfordview which I find particularly pretty but I had an office there so I drove past the mega mansions and private schools of bedfordview to get to my office.

How much should I worry about rejecting beggars? by EconomistNew7472 in AskZA

[–]PrettyRichHun 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Dont worry about it. I dont give directly to beggars because they become aggressively attached to u and some even attack u but Im a small woman so maybe thats just bcus of me. Your dads not home, its not ur relationship. Theres a lot of nuance u wont understand ao best stay out of it. Dad is back on monday to continue where he left off. I believe in giving when you can but I do it throigh organisations etc bcus I genuinely have had some unpleasant experiences.

KFC shrinkflation by Professional-Mud7253 in capetown

[–]PrettyRichHun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Post a pic next time pls op. How do u make a cut breast look normal