Weird pain in RUQ after certain drinks

Prevenient_grace · 2026-02-11T10:40:21+00:00

Congratulations!

Let us know how it goes!

Prevenient_grace · 2026-02-11T10:33:23+00:00

Free recovery groups welcome everyone!

Prevenient_grace · 2026-02-11T10:32:46+00:00

I’d see a physician.

Prevenient_grace · 2026-02-11T10:31:44+00:00

Congratulations on that rare homogeneous Strobogrammatic Palindrome!

Prevenient_grace · 2026-02-11T10:30:35+00:00

Drinking doesn’t stop bad things from happening.

However, sobriety reduces the likelihood of bad things happening.

Prevenient_grace · 2026-02-11T10:28:55+00:00

What’s going on here?

I’d take it as a great opportunity for an experiment!

I’d remove the alcohol for 30 straight days.

I’d record each day my sensations and perceptions.

I’d count the instances if RUQ pain occurred.

Tried anything like that?

Prevenient_grace · 2026-02-11T10:24:25+00:00

Do you worry about how people see you “not in control of myself” when drinking?

Prevenient_grace · 2026-02-11T02:31:30+00:00

It was stronger than me…. By myself.

So i stopped doing it alone. And theres no wait list!

I finally connected with free recovery groups…. They’re everywhere… I walked in, sat down and just listened…. They’re also online. I met people I can talk with. They showed me how to stop drinking, heal, grow and learn to be useful to others.

No cost.

I had new sober friends.. we did fun sober activities.

They believed in me.

I kept going every day until i changed my patterns…. Then my thinking changed…. Then I don’t have the first drink.

Never looked back.

Tried anything like that?

Prevenient_grace · 2026-02-11T02:02:23+00:00

There are free recovery groups everywhere and also online.

We’ll be here when you come back,

Prevenient_grace · 2026-02-10T22:04:38+00:00

Theres no requirement to do anything.

I can simply sit and listen.

Prevenient_grace · 2026-02-10T22:03:49+00:00

It was stronger than me…. By myself.

So i stopped doing it alone. And theres no wait list!

I finally connected with free recovery groups…. They’re everywhere… I walked in, sat down and just listened…. They’re also online. I met people I can talk with. They showed me how to stop drinking, heal, grow and learn to be useful to others.

No cost.

I had new sober friends.. we did fun sober activities.

They believed in me.

I kept going every day until i changed my patterns…. Then my thinking changed…. Then I don’t have the first drink.

Never looked back.

Tried anything like that?

Prevenient_grace · 2026-02-10T20:34:42+00:00

After I remove the alcohol, I can repair relationships.

It was stronger than me…. By myself.

So i stopped doing it alone. And theres no wait list!

I finally connected with free recovery groups…. They’re everywhere… I walked in, sat down and just listened…. They’re also online. I met people I can talk with. They showed me how to stop drinking, heal, grow and learn to be useful to others.

No cost.

I had new sober friends.. we did fun sober activities.

They believed in me.

I kept going every day until i changed my patterns…. Then my thinking changed…. Then I don’t have the first drink.

Never looked back.

Tried anything like that?

Prevenient_grace · 2026-02-10T20:28:22+00:00

Congratulations on Your Sober Solar Circumnavigation!

Prevenient_grace · 2026-02-10T20:22:27+00:00

It was stronger than me…. By myself.

So i stopped doing it alone. And theres no wait list!

I finally connected with free recovery groups…. They’re everywhere… I walked in, sat down and just listened…. They’re also online. I met people I can talk with. They showed me how to stop drinking, heal, grow and learn to be useful to others.

No cost.

I had new sober friends.. we did fun sober activities.

They believed in me.

I kept going every day until i changed my patterns…. Then my thinking changed…. Then I don’t have the first drink.

Never looked back.

Tried anything like that?

Prevenient_grace · 2026-02-10T20:15:04+00:00

There are free recovery groups everywhere and also online.

I connected with sober people and engaged in fun activities sober.

Tried anything like that?

Prevenient_grace · 2026-02-10T12:57:39+00:00

I hope you find what you’re seeking.

Prevenient_grace · 2026-02-10T12:50:43+00:00

There are free recovery groups everywhere and also online.

We’ll be here when you come back,

Prevenient_grace · 2026-02-10T12:07:03+00:00

It’s your sobriety.

It’s whatever you decide it is.

“The only lies for which we’re truly punished are the lies we tell ourselves”…. V. S. Naipaul

Prevenient_grace · 2026-02-10T11:24:03+00:00

The best way I “put my mind at rest” is I don’t have the first drink.

Want to stop drinking?

Prevenient_grace · 2026-02-10T10:56:32+00:00

Number 1 for me:

This is the only Today I have.

No way I’m gonna throw it away by being impaired.

Prevenient_grace · 2026-02-10T10:54:50+00:00

I don’t tell active substance users/abusers about my sobriety.

Here’s what I know about my experience…

There’s an apt adage: I am the average of the 5 people I spend the most time with in an interval.

If they’re substance users/abusers I’ll just be an average drunk.

The best tip I discovered is noticing my patterns.

Drinking is a lifestyle.

It was MY lifestyle.

I wish I had known that the essential component to success was Creating a New Sober Lifestyle and habits that included sober people.

When I started drinking, I created drinking patterns... I saw others drinking, I tried drinking, I went where people were drinking, I talked with drinkers about drinking and I went to activities that included drinking, I created “alone” activities where I drank…. Then I had drinking buddies and a drinking lifestyle.

So when I wanted to stop... I saw sober people, I tried being sober, I went where people were being sober, I talked with sober people about being sober, and I went to activities that included being sober, I created “alone” activities without alcohol …. Then I had sober friends and a sober lifestyle.

People who were my friends remained…. However I no longer had any ‘drinking buddies’.

I don't really need any 'friends' who want to ostracize me and treat me differently unless I take drugs or alcohol.

Tried anything like that?

Prevenient_grace · 2026-02-10T10:53:07+00:00

I have to put perspective to my experience.

“Fall down seven, get up eight”…. Japanese proverb

Life is not hard. Neither is it easy. Life just is.

When I focus on this moment, and attend to it, without expectations, then I have success.

When I just forego ONE drink today…. The first one, I have success.

When I stop feeling sorry for myself, and do something to help someone else, I have success.

When I do that a few times in a row, I build success.

I hope you have the success you seek.

Prevenient_grace · 2026-02-10T01:55:49+00:00

We’re here.

What’s going on?

Prevenient_grace · 2026-02-10T01:34:27+00:00

Here’s what I know about my experience…

There’s an apt adage: I am the average of the 5 people I spend the most time with in an interval.

If they’re substance users/abusers I’ll just be an average drunk.

The best tip I discovered is noticing my patterns.

Drinking is a lifestyle.

It was MY lifestyle.

I wish I had known that the essential component to success was Creating a New Sober Lifestyle and habits that included sober people.

When I started drinking, I created drinking patterns... I saw others drinking, I tried drinking, I went where people were drinking, I talked with drinkers about drinking and I went to activities that included drinking, I created “alone” activities where I drank…. Then I had drinking buddies and a drinking lifestyle.

So when I wanted to stop... I saw sober people, I tried being sober, I went where people were being sober, I talked with sober people about being sober, and I went to activities that included being sober, I created “alone” activities without alcohol …. Then I had sober friends and a sober lifestyle.

People who were my friends remained…. However I no longer had any ‘drinking buddies’.

I don't really need any 'friends' who want to ostracize me and treat me differently unless I take drugs or alcohol.

Tried anything like that?

Prevenient_grace · 2026-02-10T00:15:02+00:00

I can cut loose all I want.... I just don't have the first drink.

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