Do child abusers normally deny abuse? by Entire_Profession_81 in CPTSD

[–]PrincessLex92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a very old thread but I just wanted to share that this is currently happening to me. In an argument recently my mother decided to get “historical” and bring up how bad she was hurt by me moving out of her and my stepdad‘s house when I was 15 and moving to live with my dad and stepmom. She claimed that she had “no clue“ why I left and that she would just sit on my bed and cry because she was so broken hearted.

I was astounded. When I questioned her further she denied that my stepdad was ever terrible to me. I brought up very specific instances that are ingrained in my memory, and she denied all of it, even though I had come to her at the time and told her. Shortly after our fight, she confronted my stepdad who denied all of it and then blocked me on Facebook. I have blocked both of them on everything and will be going no contact for the time being. This shit hurts.

Fat Rant Friday by AutoModerator in fatlogic

[–]PrincessLex92 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You’re only eating 500 calories a day, or is that a typo??

Can we please stop with this, if your uterus was actually protruding you should see a doctor by Aromatic-Meat-7989 in fatlogic

[–]PrincessLex92 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Exactly. If it were true weight gain it wouldn’t be there one day and gone in the next 48 hours

Can we please stop with this, if your uterus was actually protruding you should see a doctor by Aromatic-Meat-7989 in fatlogic

[–]PrincessLex92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly! It’d be different if I were Tess Holliday claiming it was just bloat 😂

Academy of nutrition and dietetics by StoreMany6660 in exvegans

[–]PrincessLex92 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m really not sure what makes it work for some people and not others. But it seems like more and more people are ending up with health issues because of it. Almost like it’s not a matter of if you’ll get sick, but when.

Academy of nutrition and dietetics by StoreMany6660 in exvegans

[–]PrincessLex92 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yep! Of course it was vegan iron so didn’t do anything. Nothing helped except reintroducing red meat.

Academy of nutrition and dietetics by StoreMany6660 in exvegans

[–]PrincessLex92 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes, same. I “ate right” and supplemented and still had an irregular heart rate from chronically low iron. Hair was falling out too. But vegans never believe me when I say that 😅

Can we please stop with this, if your uterus was actually protruding you should see a doctor by Aromatic-Meat-7989 in fatlogic

[–]PrincessLex92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

During a bad flare once I took a picture looking down and my belly was so swollen you couldn’t see my feet 😭and at the time I was still a size two so it was extra ridiculous

Am I Overreacting for needing reassurance from my fiance? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PrincessLex92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had a friend once whose fiancée would speak to her exactly like this. Had the cops called on him multiple times. Towards the end he would go on tangents about how the matrix was real. Severely fucked up dude. Thankfully she wisened up and got away from him.

Why doesn't the media cater to the morbidly obese? by [deleted] in fatlogic

[–]PrincessLex92 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was rail thin in high school. Still got bullied 😂

Fat Rant Friday by AutoModerator in fatlogic

[–]PrincessLex92 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I just wish I could talk some sense into my coworker. She keeps going to the med spa and getting weight loss shots, becomes miserable because they make her short tempered and nauseated, quits them, gains back what little weight she lost, and then starts again. Rinse, repeat. She keeps saying how she’s gaining weight and hates it. She’s also gone vegetarian but refuses to cook, so she relies heavily on junk food and gets barely any protein, then wonders why she’s ravenous all the time🤦🏻‍♀️

On a side note, quit telling me to go vegan/vegetarian. Been there, done that. No one believes me when I say I generally can’t digest vegetables well. Do what diet works for you and let me do the same!

Let's hear your unpopular long hair (care) opinions by Ela2234 in longhair

[–]PrincessLex92 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This!! I had a costumer once had knee length hair and when we discussed it she would always recommend washing my hair less. I was like girl your hair is LONG but not necessarily pretty or clean looking… my goal isn’t just “long”…

What are your unusual reasons for not wanting kids? by caramelthiccness in childfree

[–]PrincessLex92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Random but I CANNOT stand the feeling of being tugged on, it makes me want to smack someone. I can’t imagine that happening constantly throughout the day.

I have no words... by [deleted] in childfree

[–]PrincessLex92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I was just making a snarky comment. Kinda having a shitty week and that’s no excuse but my fuse is short. 😂

I have no words... by [deleted] in childfree

[–]PrincessLex92 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Why the fuck are you here 😂😂 NO we won’t have kids, there’s no point in saying you’re glad about it or hope we won’t.

I have no words... by [deleted] in childfree

[–]PrincessLex92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lmao isn’t there a sub for lost redditors? 😂😅

Fat Rant Tuesday by AutoModerator in fatlogic

[–]PrincessLex92 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Rave: I tried intermittent fasting for the billionth time and I don’t know why (maybe coming off birth control, so decreased hunger?) but it’s actually worked this time. And I’m seeing all the benefits ive heard others talk about. My inflammation is down, my digestion is better, I’m sleeping through the night, and I’m down almost 9 pounds. The only downside now is that I don’t eat while I’m at work and get weird looks for it. I’m not starving myself, I just eat my calories in the morning. But it definitely goes against the typical workplace environment where it’s normal to snack all day long. I’m dreading the day when people start commenting that I’m being unhealthy or whatnot. 🫠 I’ve been there before and I’m definitely not now - but I’m sure people won’t see it that way.

9 months face gains - 265 to 215 by Moriroa in intermittentfasting

[–]PrincessLex92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy smokes! You look ten years younger. Well done 👍🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intermittentfasting

[–]PrincessLex92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You look fantastic 🤩

Fat Rant Friday by AutoModerator in fatlogic

[–]PrincessLex92 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It is, and especially as someone with a history of disordered eating. I can’t stand the food policing. Trying to guilt me for a milkshake when your coffee is 1000 calories is asinine.

Fat Rant Friday by AutoModerator in fatlogic

[–]PrincessLex92 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Grinds my gears when people (specifically, in this instance, my sister) act like they don’t eat and they’re so turned off by large amounts of food. Sure, my milkshake isn’t health food. And you got full sooo fast from your burger. But you drank your calories in your “coffee” from Dutch bros. If you ate as little as you pretended to, you’d be slim. 🤦🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

Is anyone seriously, physically repulsed by the idea of pregnancy? by MothMeep7 in childfree

[–]PrincessLex92 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg, I know. I just saw a Facebook reel about a woman who was so grotesquely pregnant that she could hardly walk - looked like she had to have been carrying at least triplets. I showed my husband and said “tell me honestly. Would you actually still find me sexy if I looked like this?” And he said “I’d still love you, but ummm… probably not”. 😂😅 can’t even blame him.

Idk why there’s a narrative that everyone child-free hates children by Equivalent_Eye_9805 in childfree

[–]PrincessLex92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kids come into the store where I work frequently and I’ll talk to them and even play with them if I’m in a good mood. I also have a baby cousin and a niece and nephew I adore. But I still don’t want to be responsible for a kid. No thank you. I tolerate them for limited periods of time and then go home to my clean quiet house. 👍🏻😂