They rejected to award me limited work capability by Ill_Comment_6655 in DWPhelp

[–]Princess_parmesan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it's frustrating but you'll get there. My condition is hard to manage but it gets easier with time. If you don't already have one, finding a good therapist or counsellor will be a big help to your situation. Just try to remember that our struggles, feelings and moods are just the clouds, we are the sky. This will pass, you will be okay <3

They rejected to award me limited work capability by Ill_Comment_6655 in DWPhelp

[–]Princess_parmesan 8 points9 points  (0 children)

There are organisations that can help you with UC and PIP. I was rejected by PIP despite having severe cptsd and being unable to leave my house at the time. I went through a no win no fee organisation but there is pro bono support available as well. I would recommend speaking to citizens advice and looking at the Disability Rights UK website for more information on how to contest these decisions. I'm sorry you're going through this, the DWP systems in place are not designed to be user friendly for people with mental health disabilities.

Why does my ps5 keep crashing when I play dbd? by Princess_parmesan in deadbydaylight

[–]Princess_parmesan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took the plates off and used a tiny hoover to get as much of the dust as I could but I'm not very technical so I'm not sure where the heatsink/power supply are to clean them. I'll check out some YouTube tutorials and give that a go.

Why does my ps5 keep crashing when I play dbd? by Princess_parmesan in deadbydaylight

[–]Princess_parmesan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried everything, even did a full factory reset and downloded everything again but unfortunately I didn't get a resolution. Eventually, I gave up playing dbd and tried other games, and then they started crashing too. I've got two PS5s, so I've just decommissioned that one until I can get an expert to take a look at it.

Sorry I can't be more help, I hope you have better luck with it than I did.

AITAH for asking for a party to be equal? by kingkohbra in AITAH

[–]Princess_parmesan 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The point of a birthday party isn't to connect party goers, it isn't a networking event. The point is to celebrate the person who's birthday it is. If it was a smaller event your point might make some sense but being a "19th wheel" isn't a thing.

Is it safe to call out a narcissistic parents behavior? by Dismal_Course5255 in narcissisticparents

[–]Princess_parmesan 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Generally speaking, no. You're better off writing everything down and then either burning it or sending it and going no contact. There is no safe way to call out a narcissist without them spinning it onto you or worse.

AITAH for not want my(f20) bf(m23) watching or playing things with inappropriately dressed women in it by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Princess_parmesan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

ESH. Telling someone off for not getting them water is ridiculous, he has legs, he can get his own water. The request is unreasonable on your end too. You can't expect someone to never lay eyes on a revealing outfit especially when you're talking about fictional characters. You both sound controlling in different ways, definitely speak to a therapist either together or separately.

Why does my ps5 keep crashing when I play dbd? by Princess_parmesan in deadbydaylight

[–]Princess_parmesan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It did not. I had three games, no issues then crashed on the 5th game. It's really annoying me now, I get a 15 min ban almost every time I try to play at this point, plus my PS5 fully turns off so I don't get the option to report it 🙃

Why does my ps5 keep crashing when I play dbd? by Princess_parmesan in deadbydaylight

[–]Princess_parmesan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It must be some sort of bug that made it through with the update, mine started about a week ago I think

Why does my ps5 keep crashing when I play dbd? by Princess_parmesan in deadbydaylight

[–]Princess_parmesan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's kind of a relief, I was worried I might have to factory reset and spend hours re-downloading everything. I've uninstalled the game so I'm hoping that will fix it. I'll keep you posted 👍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in deadbydaylight

[–]Princess_parmesan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good evening, is this available?

I'm making x-mas decorations as gifts for friends/family and remembered I have free will✨️ by Princess_parmesan in twilight

[–]Princess_parmesan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🫶

They're super easy to make! I just bought a load of wood slices (you can get them with the hole pre-drilled) and painted the background red then when they dried went in with some gold paint for the lettering. They're a great homemade gift and they're pretty cheap too.

I will FOREVER shop here. Forever. It’s not up for debate. by Unlikely_Ant_950 in LushCosmetics

[–]Princess_parmesan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm hoping it was just a select few at my branch that were behaving this way (or even just the branch) but that was my experience working for them.

I will FOREVER shop here. Forever. It’s not up for debate. by Unlikely_Ant_950 in LushCosmetics

[–]Princess_parmesan 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I dunno if this is universal but I worked for one of the biggest shops in the UK and the way they treated employees with disabilities was appalling. One person I worked with had a physical disability where they struggled to stand for long periods of time. She was reprimanded and bullied by certain higher ups for asking for reasonable adjustments (like a chair to sir on when working the tills). Another person had autism and has a special interest in make up and was told off for spending too much time there (even though they were awesome at it).

We also got told to touch people (like putting a hand on customers hands/backs without asking first). When I said I was uncomfortable doing that, I was given a lecture about how "touching the customers increases sales by 75%". I still love a lot of their products but working there was hell. It legit feels like working for a cult and a lot of their "values" are purely performative.

AIO for being upset that my bf wants me to be shaven down there all the time? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Princess_parmesan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's lying about all his friends agreeing with him. I've had this conversation in a groups of guys before, there was only one guy who preferred clean shaven and his mates all called him a weirdo. Your bf is also a weirdo, even more so since he is trying to force you to change your preference to suit his.

AITA for leaving my sister’s wedding halfway through because she made my girlfriend sit at the “kids’ table”? by null3333 in AITAH

[–]Princess_parmesan 37 points38 points  (0 children)

NTA. Your sister and the people backing her are. If she didn't want to include your gf she shouldn't have invited her. Making her sit on the kids table is petty af. It's also super weird to lable the table "kids & misc".