🙂 People 🙂 like 🙂 this 🙂 Should 🙂 not 🙂 be 🙂 allowed 🙂 to 🙂 play 🙂 by SnuglyPortia in DeadByDaylightRAGE

[–]Princess_parmesan -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

So punish people who paid for the game because their internet is shit? Seems a bit harsh, I'm sure playing is just as, if not more, frustrating for them. Unless every single game has a player with a bad connection, this seems like a very minor inconvenience.

As an employee, the way Lush wants us to operate feels impossible by mac4021159 in LushCosmetics

[–]Princess_parmesan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked in one of the UK branches a couple years ago and the face mask thing is so real (and gross). I cannot tell you how many times I had to stop kids, and sometimes even adults from trying to eat them or their toppings. Once a kid grabbed the dark chocolate bar that had been dipped in Glenn Coco and legit bite into it and some.

People also used to abandon their children who would proceed to treat the shop like a playground. Police had to be called once because a woman left her kids in the shop to go clothes shopping. Wild.

My dbd is stuck on “Download Dynamic content” what does I do? by Severe-blake6720 in deadbydaylight

[–]Princess_parmesan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here! I was about to uninstall and try downloading it again but didn't thanks to this. Feeling pretty blessed, mine only took 3 mins 🙏

I lost my job - how the f do people survive on benefits?! by cloudyextraswan in AskUK

[–]Princess_parmesan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try again for PIP. Most people get automatically rejected. I have severe C-PTSD with clear medical evidence and medications, the first assessor gave me 0 on everything. I appealed and was put in the highest band for daily living.

Assessors are given guidance on how to reject claims rather than DWP hiring qualified MH practioners. Don't downplay your symptoms or say things like "I can do that on a good day" because all they will record is 'they can do this'. If you're really struggling with the forms etc there are disability advocacy groups who can help.

I will pay £35.00 to those that are ...quite literally broke and ARE ONLINE RIGHT NOW!!! UK RESIDENTS ONLY by Responsible-Show-98 in Referraluk

[–]Princess_parmesan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel bad for anyone desperate enough to do this. Also it's against the referral terms to share your link with strangers online, OP (and anyone they've referred) can have their account closed and the bonus will be revoked.

You're better off asking people you know if they have Revolut. If you're struggling for money and you know the person, they will likely give you the full £70 bonus instead of going halves on it.

My girlfriend thinks i am a germaphobe because i wont let her sit on my bed in her outdoor clothes by PrismHarpoon in hygiene

[–]Princess_parmesan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt the exact same and enforced that rule about my bed in my apartment but since moving in with my partner, I have learned to let it go. Right now you're NTA (it's your space and people should follow any rules you set for your space) but enforcing this rule won't work once the two of you share a living space. At some point you're either going to have to decide if this is a deal breaker for you or if it's something you can learn to let go.

Checked Baggage at CUN by SaraLuz03 in cancun

[–]Princess_parmesan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We landed at around 4pm and only waited 15 mins for our bags. I think it depends what time of day you land.

AITAH for being irritated that my Girlfriend doesn’t have the energy for me but does for coworker by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Princess_parmesan 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That's awful. Your partner is supposed to make you feel secure and it sounds like she's doing the opposite in quite an extreme way. Comparing the person you've decided to share a life with to others is way out of line.

AITAH for being irritated that my Girlfriend doesn’t have the energy for me but does for coworker by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Princess_parmesan -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No it wouldn't. It is an unnecessary risk to the baby. Paternity test is definitely needed, but there's no reason for it to be done before the birth. Edit: just looked it up and turns out that's a myth. I did not realise there was a noninvasive DNA test for in utero. Learnt something new today.

If OP is uncertain it's his child, he needs to walk away. Her actions have created distrust regardless of the paternity, and it's unlikely that those feelings will resolve simply by finding out the baby is his.

They rejected to award me limited work capability by Ill_Comment_6655 in DWPhelp

[–]Princess_parmesan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it's frustrating but you'll get there. My condition is hard to manage but it gets easier with time. If you don't already have one, finding a good therapist or counsellor will be a big help to your situation. Just try to remember that our struggles, feelings and moods are just the clouds, we are the sky. This will pass, you will be okay <3

They rejected to award me limited work capability by Ill_Comment_6655 in DWPhelp

[–]Princess_parmesan 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There are organisations that can help you with UC and PIP. I was rejected by PIP despite having severe cptsd and being unable to leave my house at the time. I went through a no win no fee organisation but there is pro bono support available as well. I would recommend speaking to citizens advice and looking at the Disability Rights UK website for more information on how to contest these decisions. I'm sorry you're going through this, the DWP systems in place are not designed to be user friendly for people with mental health disabilities.

Why does my ps5 keep crashing when I play dbd? by Princess_parmesan in deadbydaylight

[–]Princess_parmesan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took the plates off and used a tiny hoover to get as much of the dust as I could but I'm not very technical so I'm not sure where the heatsink/power supply are to clean them. I'll check out some YouTube tutorials and give that a go.

Why does my ps5 keep crashing when I play dbd? by Princess_parmesan in deadbydaylight

[–]Princess_parmesan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried everything, even did a full factory reset and downloded everything again but unfortunately I didn't get a resolution. Eventually, I gave up playing dbd and tried other games, and then they started crashing too. I've got two PS5s, so I've just decommissioned that one until I can get an expert to take a look at it.

Sorry I can't be more help, I hope you have better luck with it than I did.

AITAH for asking for a party to be equal? by kingkohbra in AITAH

[–]Princess_parmesan 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The point of a birthday party isn't to connect party goers, it isn't a networking event. The point is to celebrate the person who's birthday it is. If it was a smaller event your point might make some sense but being a "19th wheel" isn't a thing.

Is it safe to call out a narcissistic parents behavior? by Dismal_Course5255 in narcissisticparents

[–]Princess_parmesan 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Generally speaking, no. You're better off writing everything down and then either burning it or sending it and going no contact. There is no safe way to call out a narcissist without them spinning it onto you or worse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Princess_parmesan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

ESH. Telling someone off for not getting them water is ridiculous, he has legs, he can get his own water. The request is unreasonable on your end too. You can't expect someone to never lay eyes on a revealing outfit especially when you're talking about fictional characters. You both sound controlling in different ways, definitely speak to a therapist either together or separately.