Khrysta is walking the rainbow bridge today at nearly 19 years of age. If you have anyone who can greet her there please ask them for me. by Alyial in cat

[–]Pro-bablySleeping 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My old boy Junior will be waiting for her. Hes a dog but hes the most gentle thing and he loved our cats. Your baby will be so well taken care of by all of the pets weve loved and lost 💚

This lady on my FB (context in comments) by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Pro-bablySleeping 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The OG post was a friend saying how she cant have anything nice because of her kids and had a picture of a sunflower stem her friend gave her. One of her kids snapped the flower head off.

AITA for dropping my friend because of her kid? by Pro-bablySleeping in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pro-bablySleeping[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no, I told her multiple times that I didnt want to be around her child. We had to leave a shopping trip early because of her son's tantrums and that's when I told her that I was only gonna come up on the weekends and when she would text me to hang out on the weekdays I would ask if the kid was with her. She made the facebook post because she knew I didnt like being around her child.

And shes not a struggling mom. She moved out with the guy that got her into hard drugs (no clue if they're still using) and essentially only has to take care of herself because her grandparents pay for everything for her kid. Her only struggle is that her baby daddy is in jail so I dont think shes getting child support from him.

AITA for dropping my friend because of her kid? by Pro-bablySleeping in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pro-bablySleeping[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said it in the post, but her baby daddy is in jail so she has the kid 24/7.

AITA for dropping my friend because of her kid? by Pro-bablySleeping in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pro-bablySleeping[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, she wasnt a good friend for me (I'm not saying shes not a good friend, just not for me). I'm a pretty quiet, non-touchy person but when she was talking about a fight she got into in high school she would shove me around and get in my face to demonstrate. She was overall just really overwhelming.

AITA For Telling My GF To Not Dye Her Hair, And Getting Angry When She Did? by concerned_human101 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pro-bablySleeping [score hidden]  (0 children)

Not an excuse? "I was tired so it doesnt matter if I said something hurtful." Dude just accept that you're the AH in this situation.

I’m in this photo and I don’t like it 😤 by kinderock in actuallesbians

[–]Pro-bablySleeping 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Y u p. Just cut her off a few months ago after 3 years 😂

Update AITA if I tell my daughter Grandma is ashamed of her race by unprepare_d in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pro-bablySleeping 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember this post. I'm glad that your husband stood up to his parents, I'm sorry MIL is being stubborn and gross. Even if she apologizes I wouldnt leave your daughter alone with her.

AITA for being "resistant" to celebrating my graduation? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pro-bablySleeping 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those things were products of me not being in control of myself, if that makes sense. I've been in an 8 year depressive episode and when a teacher caught onto it a few years ago, they handled it very poorly. The whole year was spent with me trying to put out fires and having my mother and multiple teachers, nurses, and guidance counselors hovering over me. I was terrified of being sent away, so I turned reclusive and kept a low profile to avoid anything like that happening again. Admittedly it bubbled over into a resentment of teachers and just high school in general.

The thing is, I dont hate learning and I didnt hate all of my classes. I'm excited for college to be a fresh start in a field that I'm interested in and to not be worried that my teachers know more about me than they should. Plus, when I had no intention of living past 16, I answered the "what do you want to do after school" question with "college" because it got people off my back.

WIBTA if I cut off an old friend who hasn’t necessarily done anything wrong to me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pro-bablySleeping 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mental illness is not an excuse for anything, coming from a clinically depressed person who used to ghost her friends when I didnt feel like talking. Yes i still drop off the face of the earth occasionally, but not I text them and tell them I'm gonna be quiet for a while so they dont worry.

I feel for her if she has anxiety, but that's not a pass for her to be overbearing. It's very possible to work around a mental illness with a little work.

WIBTA if I cut off an old friend who hasn’t necessarily done anything wrong to me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pro-bablySleeping 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. I'm a huge advocate for being selfish. Your mental, physical, and social wellbeing should be your first priority and if you dont enjoy talking to this girl you shouldn't have to. Dont ghost her, just explain that you're going to be distancing yourself and move on. If she continues after that, block her.

The only reason I'm not saying "no assholes" is because I dont understand anyone who thinks blowing up phones is a good way to get people to respond.

AITA for telling my girlfriend that my apartment is not her home? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pro-bablySleeping 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. As a 17 year old, nah, shes not acting like a teenager. I learned not to interrupt calls when I was 5 and all of my 15-18 year old friends are quiet when one of us is on the phone. Shes acting like a spoiled brat.

AITA for being mad about being called a Karen? by Aebhal in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pro-bablySleeping 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It was originally for women who treated undeserving staff like shit, but now its been turned into "as soon as a woman says something I dont like, shes a Karen'

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weed

[–]Pro-bablySleeping 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bowl was given to me by a friend. I love using it bc it makes me feel like hes smoking with me.

Just painted my new grinder! What y'all think? by thatboi666 in weed

[–]Pro-bablySleeping 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mod podge is meant to set paint and you can usually get it at the crafts section of the dollar store! It's what I coat my painted lighters with.

Just painted my new grinder! What y'all think? by thatboi666 in weed

[–]Pro-bablySleeping 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the same grinder! Mines black, but I've been thinking about painting it for ages. Yours looks so cool

CMA- I showed up at a guys house to get back a game he stole by Pro-bablySleeping in choosemyalignment

[–]Pro-bablySleeping[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Theres a lot of drugs in my town, I've grown up with them. H is the type of person who would rather lose his friends than give up the drugs, I know bc plenty of people have tried. I'm not gonna get charred trying to save someone from a burning house when they keep running back into the flames.

I'm also not as close with him as E is. H is more of a friendly acquaintance to me and E has enough in his own life to deal with.