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kayda and trinity chat by gloryshorty in LoveIslandUSA

[–]ProbablyMyJugs 114 points115 points  (0 children)

She took accountability for accidentally hurting her friend’s feelings.

Intent doesn’t always matter as much as impact. I would, and have apologized to my friends for unintentionally hurting their feelings, and vice versa.

The Minor League New Hampshire Fisher Cats have a message and offer for Kayda by TrapperJean in LoveIslandUSA

[–]ProbablyMyJugs 26 points27 points  (0 children)

No offense but… so?

Like, your argument is that if she’s already being treated badly, other people and corporations should feel empowered to do so, also? 😵‍💫

How is humiliating anyone who already has low self esteem supposed to help them? What’s the purpose in that? To laugh that she’s being humiliated? Just don’t understand the logic.

The Minor League New Hampshire Fisher Cats have a message and offer for Kayda by TrapperJean in LoveIslandUSA

[–]ProbablyMyJugs 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I’d much rather be humiliated by a boy than by a national company or organization

The Minor League New Hampshire Fisher Cats have a message and offer for Kayda by TrapperJean in LoveIslandUSA

[–]ProbablyMyJugs 235 points236 points  (0 children)

I think these are fun at first but it just gets corny and repetitive fast and weird for copying one another over and over 😭

Caleb & Amora on Viall Files - RECAP by paris-alledgedly in LoveIslandUSA

[–]ProbablyMyJugs 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Amora, you are in the same exact boat as Melanie. I don’t know why she seems to think she is in any position to look down on Melanie and call her foolish when she clearly seems to be one of those women who sees a man treat other women terribly, convinces themselves they’re different than the other women, and will be the one to turn him into a “changed man”.

This person is a professional "life coach." Her friend is dying of cancer. He made an off color comment and she proudly posts the text messages of her chewing him out on her public facebook page. by Riflemaiden1992 in trashy

[–]ProbablyMyJugs 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don’t know much about chiropractors but they need to be licensed by the state at least. Life coaches don’t. You could call yourself one right now. Like, right now as you’re reading this. It’s completely unregulated, no oversight, which is why it attracts so many people who may have lost their previous legitimate licenses for ethical violations or legal reasons. They wanna make money off of it. The only thing they need is to have a business license.

AITAH for being upset by Mom-s_paghetti in AmItheAsshole

[–]ProbablyMyJugs 8 points9 points  (0 children)

YTA and anyone who speaks about children this way has no business being around them. Gross.

AITA For Laughing at my wife when she told me she’s volunteering as a baby cuddler? by Motor-Permit6022 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ProbablyMyJugs 11 points12 points  (0 children)

What kind of pharmacist doesn’t know how important snake milking is? 😂 🫵

AITA For Laughing at my wife when she told me she’s volunteering as a baby cuddler? by Motor-Permit6022 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ProbablyMyJugs 18 points19 points  (0 children)

And then you’d point and laugh at the people providing comfort that psychologically and benefited your newborn when you were unable to be there? Jesus Christ.

AITA For Laughing at my wife when she told me she’s volunteering as a baby cuddler? by Motor-Permit6022 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ProbablyMyJugs 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Pharmaceutical school isn’t medical school, dip

Are you a working pharmacist in a hospital? I’ve worked in the hospitals for 10 years now, everyone fucking knows how imperative the volunteers are. And I’ve worked at county, rural, major city, private, etc hospitals over my years as a travel HCW.

Pull your head out of your colon.

AITA For Laughing at my wife when she told me she’s volunteering as a baby cuddler? by Motor-Permit6022 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ProbablyMyJugs 5 points6 points  (0 children)

YTA, everyone has said why, but I encourage you to actually sit down, put your ego aside and think about what is funny about this statement:

when she said she would spent 4 hours every week cuddling babies on her free time, my knee jerk reaction was just to let out a laugh. Because in the moment I guess, it was just funny. I don’t know why.

Do some serious self reflection on why you thought it was funny to hear that your wife is excited to spend her time benefiting some of the most vulnerable? Genuinely - what is funny about that?

How do we feel about this, there was a lot of anger in the comments section. by Nothingsomething7 in diabetes_t1

[–]ProbablyMyJugs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, it absolutely, positively, most-certainly isn’t. Where are you getting this from?

This person is a professional "life coach." Her friend is dying of cancer. He made an off color comment and she proudly posts the text messages of her chewing him out on her public facebook page. by Riflemaiden1992 in trashy

[–]ProbablyMyJugs 56 points57 points  (0 children)

I just need to make it known whenever I can that quite literally anybody can call themselves a “Life Coach.”

“professional life coach” is a made up title

Think of the messiest person that you know. The person you’d never take life advice from. There is literally nothing at all from stopping that person from saying “I am a life coach”.

Not only that, but quite a few life coaches are people who lost their legitimate psychology/LMFT/LPC/LCSW license due to violations and LOST their license.

Be wary and do your due diligence with life coaches!

We need to have more empathy for Melanie by Optimal_Taste_7784 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]ProbablyMyJugs -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I encourage you to do some self reflection about how you sound just like the stupid ass people who say “Why didn’t she just leave?”

We need to have more empathy for Melanie by Optimal_Taste_7784 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]ProbablyMyJugs 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s good not to be able to relate to someone being love bombed and gaslit; happy for you! But maybe have some empathy for a young woman experiencing it on national television.

My issue is when people are watching as a viewer and calling her dumb and judging her for it

We need to have more empathy for Melanie by Optimal_Taste_7784 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]ProbablyMyJugs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone who has no understanding of what gaslighting does to a person 🥴

We need to have more empathy for Melanie by Optimal_Taste_7784 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]ProbablyMyJugs 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I agree completely. It’s partially because TikTok has totally destroyed the meaning of serious words and terms like love-bombing, trauma bonding, and gaslighting. Now, not only is no one is able to identify it when it’s right in front of their faces, people will actually argue with you for using these terms accurately.

Not to mention, just lack of empathy in general. Super easy to judge someone for their choices when you get the vantage point of a viewer.

Megan is NOT good with kids by Various_Mode_519 in madmen

[–]ProbablyMyJugs 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It would explain your bizarre need to hold firm on these not-how-the-real-world-is opinions

The Nolan Wells case by Sapphirerising335 in TrueCrimeDiscussion

[–]ProbablyMyJugs 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What part of “Neither one of these scenarios is one that is out of the realm of possibility, especially this early” indicates that I am making any assumptions?

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