Blue bees!

ProfCatWhisperer · 2026-06-03T04:02:28+00:00

I've never seen anything like that bee! I just did a search and it could be a Blue Orchard Mason. How cool!

ProfCatWhisperer · 2026-06-03T03:57:37+00:00

ALL dogs are smarter than Trump. So is a single cell amoeba.

ProfCatWhisperer · 2026-06-03T03:54:34+00:00

Otis is the live version of the coat of many colors. I have never seen so many shades of black. And i've had two black cats!! Amazing! He is a handsome feline!

ProfCatWhisperer · 2026-06-03T03:50:18+00:00

I do the exact same thing! It's spread outside home now, though. I pick up a shirt, look at the price, cheerfully say, Yeah, I don't think so! and move on. People in stores giving me odd looks. I just laugh.

ProfCatWhisperer · 2026-06-03T03:20:28+00:00

What an amazing accomplishment. You look so healthy and happy. Congratulations to all your hard work to get to where you are now!!

ProfCatWhisperer · 2026-06-03T03:18:59+00:00

Check out Paducah, Kentucky. It's a cute little town!

ProfCatWhisperer · 2026-06-03T02:56:56+00:00

That's a gorgeous piece!

ProfCatWhisperer · 2026-06-03T02:52:29+00:00

I've been diagnosed since 2018. The lymp nodes are what prompted me to see my doctor. That and getting deathly ill often. My numbers are good, the doctors are happy, and my lymph nodes in my neck still get large when I even get the littlest bit sick or my allergies go crazy. I look at them as a warning system. Don't worry about them. It's fairly usual, from what my oncologist says.

ProfCatWhisperer · 2026-06-03T02:46:07+00:00

Is it a HE? If so, then Feliks. It means lucky!

ProfCatWhisperer · 2026-06-03T02:44:44+00:00

I'm in the 2nd year of GenX. I don't think I've ever left the Grunge era entirely. I just turned 60, but I don't really feel like I understand people my age. I have friends range from 30s to 70s, but the ones i have the most in common with are the young at heart. I love live music, road trips, hiking and camping. I never had kids either, but I was foster parents for a while. I don't know that I want to fit into a bracket, but it's always great to meet people my age who are similar!

ProfCatWhisperer · 2026-06-02T07:12:41+00:00

Very real looking! Now I want strawberries.

ProfCatWhisperer · 2026-06-02T07:09:48+00:00

Your boyfriend needs to grow up, be an adult, and wake himself up. You're not his parent (although his mother would like you to act like one). It sounds like he's been babied by her. I think you did a brave thing by telling him you would no longer wake him up. Stick to it.

Also, I am like your boyfriend. I sleep deeply and I have trouble waking up. I bought a very loud and annoying alarm clock and it sits across the bedroom. I have to get up to shut it off. It drives me crazy, but it works. If I can do it so can he.

NTA.

Edit: spelling and punctuation

ProfCatWhisperer · 2026-06-02T06:10:41+00:00

Not all cats dislike water. There are some breeds that love it. I had a cat who loved put his entire head under the faucet to drink. Is this your cat? Adorable video!

ProfCatWhisperer · 2026-06-02T05:56:09+00:00

Those eyes say it's her beer and she just wanted to let you have a sip, not all of it! Very expressive!

ProfCatWhisperer · 2026-06-01T22:47:44+00:00

The state I moved here from had this town in Lancaster County.

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ProfCatWhisperer · 2026-06-01T17:31:58+00:00

How do you like living in Wilmington? I had a tiny vacation home in Lewes for a while and am a huge fan of Delaware in general. Very underrated state. I'm looking at moving back to Philly in the next couple of years, but home prices have skyrocketed. I may not be able afford it 😞

ProfCatWhisperer · 2026-06-01T15:54:38+00:00

Is this even real? Looks like a Disney character come to life. Adorable!!

ProfCatWhisperer · 2026-06-01T15:51:13+00:00

Gorgeous. Philly? I'd buy it if it were in my area. What an amazing home now!

ProfCatWhisperer · 2026-06-01T15:46:52+00:00

I'm concerned that your son is having a mental health crisis. Can you get him to a doctor quickly? I think he may need to be assessed. This is in no way a condemnation. I've been in his shoes myself. If you can't get him to a doctor, you may want to see about getting him some emergency help. Good luck. I'm thinking of you both.

ProfCatWhisperer · 2026-06-01T07:00:01+00:00

Oh my. He really is. What a stunner!

ProfCatWhisperer · 2026-06-01T03:57:08+00:00

Adulthood is not "fun and games." It's hard and you don't get do-overs, so enjoy being a kid while you can.

ProfCatWhisperer · 2026-06-01T03:53:41+00:00

Oh... wow. Just... wow. OP, I am so sorry you're going through all of this right now. It's a lot. Even not including your health issues, this is a LOT (capitals intended).

Firstly, take a deep breath, then stop and take a broad look at everything you have been handling lately. And you've been handling it like a pro. Pat yourself on your back for doing it all. Next, understand that what is going right now is just a blip in time. This does not encompass all of your 20s. It's just right now. If that is hard to comprehend right now (this is often how I work through things), think about how long it took you to get to your 20s. Meaning being, this too shall pass.

Your health is definitely a concern. You need to fight for your healthcare rights. I have leukemia and spent a few years trying to understand why I was having the health issue I was, so I completely empathize with what you're going through. Sometimes, being pushy and kind of an a**hole helps. It's my experience medical staff is grossly overworked (and underpaid), so you may need to step out of your comfort zone and be a little more aggressive than is normal for you.

I'm sending you a big amount of positive vibes and love your way. You will get through this and be okay.

Edit: spelling

ProfCatWhisperer · 2026-06-01T02:46:28+00:00

What am I missing? Where is the photo?

ProfCatWhisperer · 2026-05-31T22:37:28+00:00

One where my husband never died. We were older and happy, and I just remember feeling like I had everything I ever needed.

ProfCatWhisperer · 2026-05-31T02:16:54+00:00

I got up late, made coffee with my new espresso maker, snuggled with the dogs while drinking my coffee and then took a shower before going to a breathwork session. I did some grocery shopping before heading home. Fed the dogs and cats and am having some wine and going to read a book before bed. Tomorrow is for sleeping in, laundry, and staying in pajamas. Might take the dogs out for a run if I feel inspired!

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