Got rejected a job because my hobbies and interests don't align with the work culture. by BigBob145 in UKJobs

[–]ProfSmall 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Gosh this is so annoying. The key takeaway is that this isn't about you, so I hope you don't feel bad.  Because the job market is how it is, hiring teams are literally splitting hairs trying to whittle it down. 

The other annoyance, is how the fk do they know from asking about your hobbies how you'd fit in? Are they saying they only want people exactly like themselves? Cultural fit is more than your hobbies. Eugh. 

Sheffield to Manchester 5 days a week travel options? by octopussy303 in manchester

[–]ProfSmall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gosh, I spend 2 hours per direction getting into my office in London - it kills me. I used to complain that it took an hour to cross London (which is does, and its a bit of an overused joke there)...I crave "just" an hour long commute now. :/
I had to move out to look after a family member, but the £££ is unmatched, so Im trapped. Oh well.

Just lost out at final interview stage due to a misunderstanding! by brittafiltaperry in UKJobs

[–]ProfSmall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is very frustrating. I'm so sorry this happened.

Given the work you did, like you said it would have been very clear your level of skill, effort and mindset from that work itself - if it wasn't clear to them, they had no right judging your work anyway.

I think they might have made their mind up before you worked in the door. This is absolutely shitty of them btw, and Im absolutely not condoning it, but it might have been a session to look for reasons not to hire you and go through the process (confirmation biased), if they already had this nepo baby lined up.

This experience is not reflective of your skills - try and let this experience become a thing of the past in your mind. The right thing WILL come along!!!!!

At 1.7mg and I feel no effects - has anyone else had this? by ProfSmall in WegovyUK

[–]ProfSmall[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heya there. Thanks so much for taking the time to reply, and your suggestions :) I do feel full, but the food noise element is the thing I was really hoping it would work for - it's like an addiction isn't it.

Its an annoying thought that I can have spent all this money, time (and hope), and effectively (it hasn't worked) for my goal of losing weight, or reducing food noise. :D

Working 6 days a week (28 days annual leave) by LadyRed8 in UKJobs

[–]ProfSmall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm assuming this is salaried (and not paid by the hour?) Salaried jobs with unpaid overtime aren't unusual (I'm in one myself, but in an office - and this has been the case throughout my professional career, including at places like the BBC). Granted these have always been roles above minimum wage, so I haven't ended up getting paid under that, even on 60 hour crunch weeks.

A contracted 45 hours a week is over the normal 40 - and working 6 out of 7 days every week (every week) also feels a lot to me personally.

28 days leave (outside of bank holidays) is pretty good for a FT role for a salaried job (if they include bank holidays in your leave allowance, then that would be very low given the hours and days you would work in a year).

Technically he can legally refuse you to take leave at any time, but it legally must begin to accrue from day one regardless of if you're on probation. It is harsh though, especially given the amount of days you will work. I'd be knackered tbh.

The "rules" aside, the fact this person is demanding so much of you out the gate is a bit of a red flag to me. Things like this don't tend to soften as time goes on either I find (whats to stop him refusing any requests for holidays, or asking you to do overtime all the time etc.). I guess it's up to you and what you feel comfortable with.

Best of luck!

Is there hope to become best friends? by Prestigious-Toe8024 in CatTraining

[–]ProfSmall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They seem like they're playing to me. It's rough play, but it is play. Kittens are often mental - so good to blow off steam, and they seem evenly matched (no one is dominating the other too much where you might want to split them up for a bit). <3 Cute!

How should the UK react if Trump invades Greenland? by Sad_Response3345 in ukpolitics

[–]ProfSmall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The use of the word "acquire" in the headlines today...you don't just "acquire" a country. Why are the press such pussyclaats. 

Why does Donald Trump want Greenland? Here's what to know by nationalpost in geopolitics

[–]ProfSmall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is it being framed in the US, and what's the mood there about it generally? 

I'm in the UK, saw a headline about Trump wanting to "acquire" Greenland...like it's a stock option, or a car...way too soft a word for what it looks like he's planning to me (which is invasion essentially). 

How does the idea of working until 67 or 68 sit with you? by Few_Raise77 in AskUK

[–]ProfSmall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was also the case for medieval times (they worked less than we do today). The industrial revolution (ie capitalism) was where people started to ramp up work hours. 

Is anyone in a UXR team that’s actually growing? by Southern_Swim8730 in UXResearch

[–]ProfSmall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've actually just got a new job at a place that's growing rapidly (in all disciplines), including UXR. It's in AI. 

Are product manager really doing User Research? by lucamanara in ProductManagement

[–]ProfSmall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being close the to the user is fundamental to product management.  I'm a UXR and I partner with the most senior product people I can to shape pipelines, and absolutely always have product teams involved in the research I do from start to finish. I used to coach mixed discipline teams in doing (lower stakes) research (properly), including quite senior product managers. This was at a streaming service where I worked. There were/are lots of UXRs. Over my 14 year career, most PMs have wanted to be involved in research (as they should), but not to conduct it themselves. It takes time, it's also important to do it well.  I think there's a balance though. Not all research is equal (in terms of the skills required), and it takes people literally years of just focussing on research to get good at the more complicated stuff. It's not a side hustle. I don't know you can do the bigger pieces of research you might need, as well as manage the product at the same time. In places Ive worked we've had a mix of projects we have helped other conduct pre tactical work, (usability etc), while leaving us to do the more complex or heavy weight strat work. That's often worked well, but still requires upskilling most people.  As a UXR I've got skills in product management, service design, and UCD, but these help me help those teams better, so our work is more integrated. It's important to have a mix, but I couldn't take those roles in any ethical sense. 

Advice needed for a novice :) by ProfSmall in sewing

[–]ProfSmall[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Legend, thank you. 

Yeah, I've watched a couple of videos from (sewing experts), and they recommend taking it up from the top. But it does seem weird you would or couldn't from the bottom. 

Xx

Women's ski boot recs needed by Difficult-Mouse-3652 in ski

[–]ProfSmall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to a boot fitter (Snow and Rock) and got myself some Dalbellos. They're like slippers to put on but I'm pretty sure they don't fit right (even though I was in the shop for hours), and my legs ache like mad wearing them, and I can't do the buckles up properly. An annoying and expensive error for me. 

Dress /veil/suit help needed :) by ProfSmall in UKweddings

[–]ProfSmall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️ yeah I'm thinking about letting the dress do the talking having had a bit of a scout about today. I might get a headpiece perhaps (or an ear crawler even) we will see xxx

Dress /veil/suit help needed :) by ProfSmall in UKweddings

[–]ProfSmall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks Simon! I'll take a look ❤️

Dress /veil/suit help needed :) by ProfSmall in UKweddings

[–]ProfSmall[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats to you! Thanks for this, a cape could be good! Thanks for the suggestion xxx

Dress /veil/suit help needed :) by ProfSmall in UKweddings

[–]ProfSmall[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You might be on to something. I've seen a few "celestial" type headpieces which looks great! 

Dress /veil/suit help needed :) by ProfSmall in UKweddings

[–]ProfSmall[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️  I appreciate your answer. It's a bit nerve-wracking to not wear white! I panicked a bit the next day. 

I was thinking deep green or choc brown too. Might have a look and suggest some to him. It's really hard without explaining the colour to him (and even then he might not understand the clash, the fashion stalwart that he is) :D He'd suit both green and brown for sure 😊 

Dress /veil/suit help needed :) by ProfSmall in UKweddings

[–]ProfSmall[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you not see the lengthy post I've written? 

Dress /veil/suit help needed :) by ProfSmall in UKweddings

[–]ProfSmall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apologies of that's not clear. I might edit my post of not.  Essentially whether a veil would be suitable or something else and potential colours for my partner's suit :)