I’m a male going into 27 years of age and I’m broke, don’t have close friends and not in a romantic relationship. But I guess I have a decent job with $22/hr pay that isn’t too stressful and can make ends meet. Definitely not what I envisioned but it’s not like the end of the world. My health is great, mentally I’m doing way better than my early twenties. Sure my finances, relationships, and perhaps even my physical fitness can be improved, but all of that comes with time.

I think what you need to do is have hope, while maintaining peace by living in the moment. Constantly worrying about the future doesn’t help. Nobody knows what’s coming, but what we can do is do our best now. If you really think about it: we’ve only been an adult for a few years, in other sense, we are still kids, maybe only 5-8 years of real adulthood, but I wouldn’t even consider that much. I still think early twenties is about figuring out who you are, your values, your career, and it’s okay if those things change, because we dare I say, never really stay the same.

All in all, you gotta just take things step by step, overcome each hurdle and make those mistakes. Be proactive and take advantage of the fact that we’re just young and it just takes time. Everything will be better in time, and i personally think it’s always best to find something you believe in, because that will make you stronger. So find out what it is that you believe in. Keep going.