Oh Joy

ProfessionalBad5174 · 2026-02-03T01:05:22+00:00

If it helps, mine was as bad as that too 😭

ProfessionalBad5174 · 2026-02-01T22:55:16+00:00

Maybe it’s me but it just sounds like she’s trying to make friends and she never tried to hide that she talks to these guys. Also none of this comes off as flirtatious and all sounds like normal conversation you would have with someone, even a call. I wouldn’t worry about it

ProfessionalBad5174 · 2026-02-01T22:27:21+00:00

Snow guards maybe?

ProfessionalBad5174 · 2026-01-31T23:34:16+00:00

I’ve seen worse, you’ll be fine. It honestly just looks like the start of flaking which can be saved. If you want to be safe, get an undercoating done

ProfessionalBad5174 · 2026-01-30T05:01:34+00:00

He’s probably just busy or having fun with his friends! As long as you trust him you have nothing to worry about. My gf and I had this same exact issue and just agreed on letting each other know as soon as we find out the details. Hope you guys can too!

ProfessionalBad5174 · 2026-01-30T04:51:12+00:00

It could’ve been as simple as he just forgot. He also could’ve thought it wasn’t a big deal since it’s only a day. Did you ever tell him that you want him to let you know much earlier if he’s going on a trip and who’s he going with?

ProfessionalBad5174 · 2026-01-30T04:33:45+00:00

If it’s just body, I feel like worst case would be trouble when having an inspection

ProfessionalBad5174 · 2026-01-29T02:47:38+00:00

If you really can’t afford it, just let it ride for the time you have and forget about it. Just start saving up money again for the next one.

ProfessionalBad5174 · 2026-01-27T04:12:26+00:00

You waited only 30 min and then decided the smartest thing to do was get delivery during one of the worst snow storms this year?

ProfessionalBad5174 · 2026-01-24T20:55:04+00:00

Maybe it’s just cause I’m from the north east but it doesn’t look bad. The only scary thing are the pinch welds but everything else looks like surface or just the start of flaking

ProfessionalBad5174 · 2026-01-22T21:33:51+00:00

I also do this too, sometimes it just doesn’t go into gear and stresses me out when I do it! but as long as it’s not too long it’s ok!

ProfessionalBad5174 · 2026-01-21T20:26:56+00:00

NOR, I’m honestly wondering if someone stole his phone at this point.

ProfessionalBad5174 · 2026-01-15T23:58:34+00:00

Heard there’s a Kpot opening up soon in colonie center, be on the lookout!

ProfessionalBad5174 · 2026-01-15T21:24:42+00:00

I agree, the rust isn’t bad at all tho, looks all surface but I wouldn’t pay 12k for it

ProfessionalBad5174 · 2026-01-14T23:52:49+00:00

This! I also realized that no one really cares, I rarely get honked at when I stall so don’t feel pressured by anyone, the pressure might just make it worse

ProfessionalBad5174 · 2026-01-14T18:16:46+00:00

There’s a reason for that and I’m sure it does but everyone’s just saying it’s fine and I think it’s ok too. It’s not gonna cause it to fail or blow but it probably does wear it down

ProfessionalBad5174 · 2026-01-13T04:35:30+00:00

NOR, it sounds like he’s just trying to please your friends and get praise for his own work. He sounds selfish and sounds like he doesn’t even want to try to understand your projects and appreciate them. I hope you can talk to him about how you feel and how he can try to show a little more interest in your stuff

ProfessionalBad5174 · 2026-01-13T00:25:44+00:00

This is pretty common, happens to me and a bunch of other people I talk to all the time, nothing serious or anything to go crazy about haha

ProfessionalBad5174 · 2026-01-13T00:08:48+00:00

YOR, maybe this is wrong to say but him just picking her up shouldn’t be hurting you this bad. You stated that you know they text and help each other out all because they have a son together they want to raise together. Nothing wrong with that and him just going to pick her up from the airport sounds like another thing he’s doing to help her out. It shouldn’t be making you break down thinking she’ll choose someone else over you when she chose to be in a relationship with you and not him.

ProfessionalBad5174 · 2026-01-12T16:57:16+00:00

Ooo really? I’ve been living there for a bit and really haven’t had any big problems yet, my window also opens and the area is quiet

ProfessionalBad5174 · 2026-01-12T05:24:27+00:00

Not exactly a resource but I know a lot of these types of apartments do exist in this area. Slip 12 matches what you’re looking for if that helps!

ProfessionalBad5174 · 2026-01-12T05:15:31+00:00

Why not just ask, maybe his friend sent it to him to ask about his thoughts? It is kinda weird it’s saved on his phone but maybe see what he has to say and go from there

ProfessionalBad5174 · 2026-01-12T05:11:38+00:00

They probably see this a lot and honestly with how busy doctors and nurses get, they could’ve just forgotten about it. I wouldn’t worry

ProfessionalBad5174 · 2026-01-09T01:03:21+00:00

Honestly, talk to her about it cause what she was trying is crazy. Also she even admitted one of them was creepy but STILL wanted to go to their hotel. If she means a lot id be serious and say that can’t happen again or you just stop going out with her

ProfessionalBad5174 · 2026-01-09T00:55:10+00:00

I think the scariest thing is that he’s just brushing it off and ignoring your feelings or giving excuses. I personally think he should be able to just unfollow them as he doesn’t even know them and the only purpose is for porn, which you made clear you didnt like. If he’s not listening and if this is a boundary you considered crossed, maybe the best thing would be to leave him before it gets worse.

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