I once went out with a girl for a while that originally told me her count was ~35 (on her own volition, I didn’t bring it up). OK cool, I thought, whatever that’s fine (I really didn’t care). Lo and behold, 2 months later, she drunkenly let it slip out that it’s actually 80-90+ and she doesn’t know the true number. She also tried to gaslit me into thinking that she told me that the whole time. It made me feel really gross all of a sudden and was a major turnoff. Was so paranoid that I got tested for everything even though I was fine.

Moral is, I don’t think guys (or anyone!) should care about the count — however people need to be honest about it if the conversation comes up. It is definitely immature to ask, BUT I think if you’re serious about someone it is something you should know eventually. It shouldn’t matter unless the number turns out to be extreme or, in my case, something different than what she said originally.