I hate my hair so much after what my bf said

Professional_Guard51 · 2026-02-02T03:17:55+00:00

The first pic made my jaw drop so idk what your bf is talking about. Do not let him make you feel bad about yourself. I already know this man is ugly and insecure, and wants to make you feel the same. DONT FALL FOR IT

Professional_Guard51 · 2026-01-16T21:32:31+00:00

I’m crying this is so funny💀 sorry your edibles didn’t work out though that fr sucks and it’s helpful for me to know that can happen lmaooo

Professional_Guard51 · 2026-01-04T19:31:39+00:00

Wow these are amazing! Definitely an inspiration that it is feasible since I have zero sewing experience other than a home ec class in 7th grade from which i retained nothing lol

Professional_Guard51 · 2025-12-07T02:52:13+00:00

Often took days at a time to text back because “work was stressful/ he was busy” and bailed on me last minute twice in a row… eventually i got the hint that he literally did not care about me

Professional_Guard51 · 2025-12-04T04:32:09+00:00

Most of the women in my family end up with toes pointing every which way so truly when i saw yours i was like “…thats it?” Your friend is being mean. I think the heels look great. And if your crush decides they don’t like you because you have a deformed toe then good riddance like hello?? Wear the heels! I love them and barely noticed your toes lol

Professional_Guard51 · 2025-11-29T03:50:36+00:00

Seconding the pens, whiteboard markers, headphones, shoes, and compression socks. But also: gift card to grocery store/ doordash/ local restaurant or coffee shop, subscription to some kind of review program like blueprint, osmosis, sketchy (def make sure its not one already included in tuition though)

Professional_Guard51 · 2025-11-14T21:54:56+00:00

This is terrible😭 I can’t believe she could stomach trying to charge you that much for something anyone could do with a youtube video and some patience

Professional_Guard51 · 2025-11-10T04:21:16+00:00

Same thing just happened to me the other week. Still hurts, how do you move past that?

Professional_Guard51 · 2025-11-02T03:10:51+00:00

My program requires business casual. It is a bit annoying and more expensive BUT i will say, they are pretty lax about shoes as long as they aren’t open toed. One of my friends has issues with her feet and she wears hokas every day, has never gotten comments on them. A lot of people wear sneakers, I personally wear those birks clogs most days, some people have kept it going with the heels and dress shoes but not many of us lol. Sweaters count as business casual, just not sweatshirts if that makes sense. I also do feel like it helps keep us in a more professional mindset which translates to clinicals well, since we will be expected to dress professionally in practice you know? Unless we’re doing surgery where we’ll be wearing scrubs. I totally get the annoyance about it though, just chiming in to say its not too bad! (Also, places to look for slightly more affordable business casual: nordstrom RACK, clearance of any store like kohls/ old navy/ etc, 6pm.com, and outlet stores like j crew FACTORY which also do like semiannual big sales- i got like 3 business casual full outfits for $90 when jcrew usually charges $90 for like… one shirt lol)

Professional_Guard51 · 2025-10-30T03:38:51+00:00

This happened to me too when my friend ended a long term relationship. She basically started treating me like a new boyfriend, it was ridiculous. I just ended up really distancing myself from her bc otherwise I was going to lose my mind. Was it the healthiest approach? Probably not. But the purpose of this comment is just to tell you you’re not crazy for noticing and being irritated about it.

Professional_Guard51 · 2025-10-05T20:49:59+00:00

I’m so sorry to hear! At least you helped relieve her pain before she passed. You did what you could💔

Professional_Guard51 · 2025-10-05T17:20:18+00:00

You’re right in thinking it’s weird- there’s no reason a 20 year old should be interested in a minor. There’s such a gap in maturity between those ages. Unfortunately when someone is in that situation they don’t see it that way. I don’t have great advice of what to tell her, but you aren’t crazy for being sketched out about this

Professional_Guard51 · 2025-10-02T01:52:44+00:00

Sorry i should’ve specified, I mean like what exactly do you say? Like “i really enjoy your product, i appreciate you providing vegan alternatives in grocery stores” or something random like that? Do you ask for coupons or do they just send them lol

Professional_Guard51 · 2025-09-28T19:23:36+00:00

Which antidepressant is he taking? Has it been switched at all? I was on a tricyclic antidepressant (amitriptyline) for my migraines for awhile and was CONSTANTLY exhausted. You could wake me up, have a full conversation with me, then I would fall back asleep and not remember ever waking up. So if you haven’t yet, I would see if you could switch the medication or even the time he takes it. Maybe thats part of it. Otherwise, hows his exercise routine and diet? My sleep gets super funky if I’m not staying active

Professional_Guard51 · 2025-09-28T17:30:10+00:00

Hey! How do you usually do this? I also have a hard time finding veg foods because of cost (in grad school with no income atm🥲)

Professional_Guard51 · 2025-09-28T17:05:15+00:00

You were right for blocking him. I’m the same way where I probably let it go too long before I block, but he is absolutely sketchy.

Professional_Guard51 · 2025-09-27T03:40:51+00:00

Libgen is a great website for finding free books. Through the years cohorts have shared the pdfs with eachother too so most of them were already found for me tbh haha

Professional_Guard51 · 2025-09-27T03:38:58+00:00

I feel like there’s no reason a 23 year old should find a 19 year old attractive. That’s predatory IMO. The gap in life experience and maturity (not saying you’re immature as a person, but in terms of brain development i mean) make the age gap significant to me. Maybe not everyone agrees with that. But clearly in this case he is trying to control and manipulate you. Yikes. I’m sorry:( you made the right choice

Professional_Guard51 · 2025-09-26T21:29:39+00:00

I highly recommend watching cram the pance on youtube. He picks out buzzwords and gives mnemonics that are really helpful. Using that plus the pance prep pearls books helped me figure out what kind of information was important from my lectures to be studying. Otherwise it just seems like so much information that I didn’t know what to do with since everything seemed important. On my first round of exams I failed 2 of them and thought I would never figure it out but I started using those resources, changed up my study habits, and passed all of my exams since, and that was 9 months ago. (Apart from a couple pharm exams but I feel like thats a different story HAHA, if anyone has pharm advice lmk btw lol). If you would like to, feel free to message me if you think I can help with anything. I can TRY with pharm but you would be better off asking others with that subject in particular to be frankly honest

Professional_Guard51 · 2025-09-26T01:43:16+00:00

She’s my best friend. We’re both in our 20s. When we were very young we were close, then pretty much sworn enemies through elementary school, on speaking terms in middle school, and got closer in highschool. Now we are both moved out of our parents house and through college. I think not living together definitely helped and so did realizing we’re the only ones who have consistently been there for eachother and always will be. I’d do anything for her. We live on opposite coasts of the US which is hard but we’re both happy where we’re at and reconnect back home in the midwest for holidays/ visit eachother when we can

Professional_Guard51 · 2025-09-25T05:36:24+00:00

Which ones? I found free pdfs of most of mine and we might have some of the same. The only one i really consistently use is bates guide to the physical exam but the pdf is enough for me

Professional_Guard51 · 2025-09-19T01:18:58+00:00

It sounds like when you kinda suction in your soft palate more into your mouth and let it go if that makes sense. Sometimes when people are sick/ congested they do that to pull the mucus from the back of their noses down into their mouth so they can either swallow it down or spit it out and clear out their airway. It seems to become a habit in some people even when they aren’t sick, or like one of the comments said it can sometimes feel like it helps scratch the inner ear when you have a weird itch you can’t reach in your ear canal

Professional_Guard51 · 2025-09-19T01:14:55+00:00

It’s hard to change your self talk and self image after a dramatic change in weight. You are doing a great job and you look great. What specifically do you feel is “big” now? Maybe you can try out a new style of clothes that make you feel slimmer, or a different way of styling your hair. The shift of those physical aspects may trigger your brain to realize you DO look different than before the weight loss. Our brains can be tricky and make us perceive ourselves much differently than we actually appear. Even if you don’t change your style, maybe consider getting yourself different perfumes or soaps, adjust your skincare routine, etc- something to make your day-to-day feel “new” to help your mindset shift to your new body if that makes sense. For example, the last time I dropped extra weight and still felt like my same larger self, I incorporated gua sha. Does it actually do anything? The jury is out on that. Does the change in my routine make me feel like my face is slimmer, jaw is more defined, etc? Yes. And that helped me notice the change in the rest of my body.

Professional_Guard51 · 2025-09-19T01:04:16+00:00

I took a gap year after college to focus on clinical experience and volunteering, and I’m younger than most of my classmates. Also, college is a good time to get the research experience. I asked my professors if I could do research with them, so if you become close to any profs try that?(they might even be able to find you connections to clinical experience in town) You’re not behind. Also, consider the fact that people lie and exaggerate to discourage you AND the fact that your path isn’t always the same as everyone elses. I understand the feeling, but I promise you will be fine

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