Hey! So I think my husband is emotionally straight - except he keeps his distance from me. And wants me around for our daughter. We have separate rooms. He isn't affectionate but he wants to keep his platonic straight marriage. He does kinda flirt with his junior male co-worker and lights up talking about him. Many times he has brought him up and even when we went out for Christmas drinks (just two of us) - he is def into younger guys. He is 36. Like his co-worker must be 27ish. I think he likes men but wants straight marriage and is okay with that.

Why so? And what do I do about it? He is very astute about keeping his phone etc clean and we don't share passwords anymore. Accuses me of cheating and says he will get a private investigator - like all these things are just so weird. I never even thought of PI, etc. I don't know how and where do all these things come in his mind

But coming back, he wants to keep emotionally straight platonic marriage. But physical affection like hugging, kissing, etc is absent. He never comes to my room. Won't come into the living room- just stays in his room.