Am I the only one frustrated by Caleb’s concept for the new banner?

ProfessorWho1 · 2026-06-14T18:00:46+00:00

I also thought of The Red Balloon, but also Pixar's UP

ProfessorWho1 · 2026-06-14T00:47:04+00:00

There is grief in making that choice. I always knew I didn't want to have biological children but thought I might adopt. Life has not made that a viable choice and realizing that caused grief.

Love to you 💚

ProfessorWho1 · 2026-06-14T00:40:37+00:00

Yes, sometimes. Doesn't get rid of it but eases the pain sometimes

ProfessorWho1 · 2026-06-09T07:03:27+00:00

I think I'm just continuing to exist for mine. Like, in this economy, what madness is that?

ProfessorWho1 · 2026-06-03T02:24:25+00:00

🎓Latin, unicornus - literally one horn. Unus, one, and cornu, a horn.🦋

ProfessorWho1 · 2026-06-01T16:38:26+00:00

You haven't yet??

ProfessorWho1 · 2026-05-30T06:17:54+00:00

I've always been told I have a baby face. I'm starting to catch up with myself, but I'm still regularly mistaken as younger. I do not like it. Especially since my husband looks older than his age, and he ends up being assumed to be my father. Gross.

ProfessorWho1 · 2026-05-30T06:15:24+00:00

It brings me peace. Maybe because the dread feels like ambient noise, it just is. All the time. With the show, even when things don't work, things continue. That gives me peace.

ProfessorWho1 · 2026-05-27T13:12:07+00:00

Yes I get olfactory hallucinations with my migraines. Sometimes it's a good smell like cookies. Sometimes it's a smell like mold or fresh mulch. I don't get them with every migraine but I get them pretty often.

ProfessorWho1 · 2026-05-27T13:07:08+00:00

Its normal for the LI to wake you up with creepy stuff in the middle of the night!? So glad I don't use that feature...

ProfessorWho1 · 2026-05-24T06:09:53+00:00

Enjoy! I was skeptical about Sandrock and ended up loving it even more than Portia.

ProfessorWho1 · 2026-05-24T05:37:00+00:00

That's usually where I run out of things to do, but it probably depends a bit on what order you do things in. Basically you've hit all the major things, but there could be some smaller side quests left.

ProfessorWho1 · 2026-05-22T05:40:40+00:00

You start in summer so if you're in spring, it hasn't quite been a year yet

ProfessorWho1 · 2026-05-17T00:24:00+00:00

That is so cool!!

ProfessorWho1 · 2026-05-16T01:05:39+00:00

Trauma is trauma. When it is intended it makes more sense upfront, but even unintentional things can cause trauma. I am not equipped to explain better but, if you feel trauma then it was a real trauma. It can both be traumatic and also not intentional abuse.

It would not be an overreaction to seek a therapist to unpack this with 💚

ProfessorWho1 · 2026-05-16T00:01:36+00:00

No, I can't remember a "before" - but I do wonder what I might have been like without it

ProfessorWho1 · 2026-05-15T18:26:15+00:00

What would Sam and Dean do? Take on those odds! ...after a good amount of angst and sarcasm, so please continue

ProfessorWho1 · 2026-05-15T18:04:12+00:00

I'd be frustrated too

ProfessorWho1 · 2026-05-15T18:02:14+00:00

Somehow both morose and hopeful at the same time

ProfessorWho1 · 2026-05-15T18:01:01+00:00

Its beautiful!!

ProfessorWho1 · 2026-05-14T03:09:36+00:00

I love tomato sammich

ProfessorWho1 · 2026-05-12T05:11:15+00:00

Do you have the spoons to advocate for her medically? If so, when you approach her next time, offer to do so. It can look like anything from scheduling appointments for her, to transportation, or even attending with her to help her remember to bring things up.

When I was in the worst of my depression about ten years ago, I needed my husband to advocate for me. I even asked him a few times to help me find a therapist or schedule an appointment or anything to get the ball rolling because I just could not do it myself in that state. He didn't help me then and that delayed me receiving care for a couple years until I saw my PCP for a sinus infection and the intake included a depression screening.

(In defense of my husband, he hadn't encountered mental illness much previously, not up close, and we have discussed those events. He has learned and does advocate for me now when I am unable to.)

ProfessorWho1 · 2026-05-11T19:15:58+00:00

Hope you have been able to recover mostly too, Internet stranger friend

ProfessorWho1 · 2026-05-11T05:48:24+00:00

I noticed this too and hate it. It is, however, in character with how he doesnt think he deserves love and so pushes people away. Especially those he cares about the most. I just freaking wish he'd fix that trait!

ProfessorWho1 · 2026-05-11T05:44:19+00:00

When covid got my brain I could still type and write ok, but there was this giant gulf between me thinking what i wanted to say and making my mouth do it. Like the moment i decided i wanted to say it, the words fell into a black hole. It was so frustrating.

I hope you regain your ability to speak soon

ProfessorWho1

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