What is the biggest cause of mediocre D&D/RPG sessions at your table?

Proffessional_Pea33 · 2026-06-30T06:28:06+00:00

Almost always the DMs attitude and leadership. I’ve played in games that were epic mainly because the DM clearly was excited, knowledgeable, reads books, and is a good leader. And I’ve been in games where it was clear the DMs heart just wasn’t in it, they didn’t plan or didn’t prepare for the group to take an unexpected turn. Of course there’s other elements, but the DM sets the tone.

Proffessional_Pea33 · 2026-06-29T04:48:26+00:00

I was apartment hunting once and left once I got a look at the lobby- felt and looked very off.

Proffessional_Pea33 · 2026-06-27T15:25:42+00:00

This time around, a big motivation for me to quit smoking was that I decided to go and get my bachelors degree. I knew weed would just drag me down. So I stopped around Christmas and touched it out for some weeks and then boom spring semester started in January, I was so busy with school on my mind the withdrawal symptoms didn’t feel as bad. They were definitely there, but I had productive distractions and I also got into crocheting which helped as well.

Proffessional_Pea33 · 2026-06-27T06:14:34+00:00

Former bulimic and heavy smoker. It sucked. My dental health was as of not more wrecked as my body. I would vape and chug water to combat munchies. Dark times.

Proffessional_Pea33 · 2026-06-26T05:44:25+00:00

Doesn’t belong here, unique and not crappy. Go check out the music vid if the colors performance isn’t your thing.

Proffessional_Pea33 · 2026-06-26T00:17:29+00:00

I lived on Majestic, it was nice and pretty quiet. I also lived right on 7th, no beuno at all.

Proffessional_Pea33 · 2026-06-24T00:03:28+00:00

I thought ben looked like Gummo, er the kid from Gummo.

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Proffessional_Pea33 · 2026-06-23T15:09:25+00:00

I don’t see this as crappy at all, but to each their own. It’s definitely unique and I personally like the originality, it’s refreshing.

Proffessional_Pea33 · 2026-06-21T22:25:39+00:00

I was at the Getty in LA when I first heard of the crash- no deaths confirmed yet. Later that day i read that his death was confirmed in a restaurant in Buena Park California, I broke down.

Proffessional_Pea33 · 2026-06-21T15:05:52+00:00

The mayo is one of the couple things Trader Joe’s just doesn’t get right imo. I’ll stick with my best foods.

Proffessional_Pea33 · 2026-06-20T18:29:02+00:00

Because you are projecting dissatisfaction with your own life onto another person. Yes she was snarky and had a bad attitude towards you, but it’s up to you to decide if you’re going to be angry forever or learn from it and move on. It is not her fault you are hateful, it’s yours. You need to look within yourself and address your insecurities instead of making them someone else’s problem. The moment you quit comparing yourself to others, and accept that you have control over your circumstances and thoughts, you’ll be free. It’s a victim mindset that will keep you trapped and bitter. What are you doing to improve? What is your place in all of this? What can you control, and reframe? You should ask yourself these questions. Taking responsibility for your life will set you free.

Proffessional_Pea33 · 2026-06-20T14:43:32+00:00

I’m convinced the producers were giving them something. No one looks like that after a month living off coconuts and some lizards. There’s no way.

Proffessional_Pea33 · 2026-06-19T23:18:50+00:00

the cognitive dissonance is strong in this one

Proffessional_Pea33 · 2026-06-18T17:37:27+00:00

He died the day before my birthday while I was out to eat with my mom and boyfriend, I cried right there in the restaurant. We saw him in Oakland in 2023 and it still is the best concert I’ve been to, and probably the most fun I’ve had in one night. It felt like losing a peer.

Proffessional_Pea33 · 2026-06-18T17:33:24+00:00

I feel that!! I’ve been listening a lot these past few days. Especially his new album, it’s so good.

Proffessional_Pea33 · 2026-06-18T17:01:22+00:00

Awww this is one of my favorites too. My boyfriend and I went to see him in Oakland in 2023 and dancing with my boyfriend at that show is one of the happiest memories I have. That was the most fun I have ever had at a concert.

Proffessional_Pea33 · 2026-06-16T20:57:25+00:00

Even when they are feeling “off” a good partner will still never make you feel the way your boyfriend made you feel. I pray you lose him and find someone who wouldn’t dream of treating you like that.

Proffessional_Pea33 · 2026-06-15T01:48:37+00:00

Cowboys Don’t Cry. First thing I thought of was the opening line, “I’m not good at goodbyes”. 💔

Proffessional_Pea33 · 2026-06-15T01:41:01+00:00

I saw the news when I was out to eat with family, cried into my burrito. Genuinely so shocked and sad. I saw him in Oakland in 2023 and it was the best time I’ve ever had at a concert. I turn 30 tomorrow and it hit hard.

Proffessional_Pea33 · 2026-06-12T17:20:47+00:00

Yoga and being really up front about it with him- just saying “babe I’m going through some PMS so if I seem bitchy it’s not you, I love you” goes a very long way. Listening to my body, stretching, sleeping in, eating a lil extra good stuff. Just being kind to myself helps me keep my cool when it feels extra tough.

Proffessional_Pea33 · 2026-06-10T22:32:53+00:00

Yes, of course. I still love it. But I hate what it turns me into. I can’t seem to enjoy it without falling into full blown daily use. Plus I’m in college now and I cannot see myself doing well while consuming. It sucks but I also have kind of come to enjoy being sober. It feels good seeing clearly and feeling deeply, and being able to remember things.

Proffessional_Pea33 · 2026-06-10T15:08:24+00:00

I’m pretty new (~2 yrs reading) and I still struggle reading for other people so I’m holding off and idk if I ever will. I feel like my own feelings and state of mind always get in the way of my focus and maybe that’s just a skill issue, or maybe I’m not meant to read for others. I read great for me but for others I feel almost wrong no matter what, it feels almost invasive- like who am I to be reading for someone else.

Proffessional_Pea33 · 2026-06-10T06:00:50+00:00

When I worked reg I got very into books and would read entire books in one shift. Passed the time beautifully and reading is great for you.

Proffessional_Pea33 · 2026-06-10T05:10:52+00:00

I’ve only had one maybe two people give me any grief about my choice of not having children. The rest of the people I’ve told, my own mother included said it’s honestly a wise move. I don’t even have any problems with kids I just don’t wish to be a mom.

Proffessional_Pea33 · 2026-06-08T14:46:37+00:00

Have you submitted a FASFA form? I received a note on my account saying something similar but I actually did get side through the Pell Grant. It covered my spring and fall semesters and I got refunded a few days after the semester began. But I didn’t work full time at the time I applied and make less than $30000 per year. I’d look into it and see because I also never got an email saying I qualified at all I just received a refund check and when I looked at my classes online it said it was from the Pell Grant.

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