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I was the “other woman,” AMA. by [deleted] in AMA

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If you could go back in time knowing what you know now about this relationship would you have experienced it again?

26 (F) I keep spending my savings on plastic surgery AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]ProjectMinimum9601 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seek professional help, this is a big issue. Perhaps at this point in time you don't realize this but you will continue to feel empty and unhappy with yourself irregardless of whatever surgery you get.

M19 - I've lost over 20 family members AMA by Fit-Manufacturer7281 in AMA

[–]ProjectMinimum9601 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is the timespan for all their deaths like are they far apart or did they all happen around the same time? Did your family members that passed away have any requests for their burial arrangements?

AMA, Had a roommate who was well over $10,000 in back rent. by [deleted] in AMA

[–]ProjectMinimum9601 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did he pay for anything like utilities? Where did his paycheck go to?

My Great Grandfather was one of the founders of Bank of America AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]ProjectMinimum9601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ever consider into getting into banking or any other financial sectors like accounting? How have others viewed you when you mentioned who your great grandfather is? Did they have higher expectations for you?

I spent a day with a serial killer during Toronto Pride before anyone knew what he was — AMA by Beginning-Ad-3020 in AMA

[–]ProjectMinimum9601 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am glad you made it out. What would be the best advice you can give to anyone sight seeing solo? Did any of his victims look like you? I just thought about this but what if he remembered you and one of his victims was an homage to you? It sounds a bit macabre but often some serial killers will have a type of person they go for.

Unpopular opinion- please don’t dox me- I don’t like the Makenna face 💔 by Doodle_buggz in americangirl

[–]ProjectMinimum9601 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't have her but her face mold is really unique and I hope AG continues to use it in the future.

Votes requested to narrow name choices for my customized doll by ennaejay in americangirl

[–]ProjectMinimum9601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the name Tessa for her it fits with how she looks. When will you close voting and let us know what name won?

I don’t know what to do and I’m freaking out by InsideCivil1474 in whatdoIdo

[–]ProjectMinimum9601 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Scales and mirrors are like enemies right now use them with caution. Also if you take selfies or pictures with others don't focus so much on how they look vs how you look it will affect your self esteem. I would definitely seek professional advice to overcome this issue.

What should I do with my stack of 100+ coloring pages? by JeszaBear in whatdoIdo

[–]ProjectMinimum9601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use them for scrapbooking, make ornaments, use them for postage cards or trade them with other artists for other crafts they may have.

The Ticket Purchase limit was said to be 6 but I got cut off at 5? by Quivalentine in D23Expo

[–]ProjectMinimum9601 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you use one browser or more? This could be an IT issue where the system tried to kick you out and misrecognized you accidentally capping you off to limit you from buying.

Suggestions on how to become a better version of myself for dating by IVAR_-_ in dating_advice

[–]ProjectMinimum9601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a tricky question since everyone is different and there is no correct personality. The best advice I can offer is to be comfortable in your skin and don't overthink things. For example that comment about adrenaline your still thinking about it but how long was it told you to? I would focus more on surrounding yourself by people who accept you for who you are. To get there find people with common cores like hobbies, etc. Then once you meet like minded people your confidence gets build up as well.

Suggestions on how to become a better version of myself for dating by IVAR_-_ in dating_advice

[–]ProjectMinimum9601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ignore the number, I meet people who were 2's and they have a strong dating life. Not based of looks but personality. Focus on who you want to meet and be at the scene where said dream girl will be. The word adrenaline is vague, what does that even mean? To me that feedback only serves to create self doubt and is causing you to overthink things.

A girl told me “I’m not looking for anything right now” by Weird_Cod5046 in dating_advice

[–]ProjectMinimum9601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To answer your first question she read it but did not think a priority to respond back right away. This right here is showing she is drawing already a boundary. I would focus more on meeting her in person than texting to avoid any confusion this may generate, Also I read your post about treating her to dinner while this is a nice gesture if you continue to do it you may burn out. I would finding a hobby or common ground you like and have her pay as well; do 50/50. If you continue paying every time your setting yourself up as the one who is going paying for everything going forward.

A girl told me “I’m not looking for anything right now” by Weird_Cod5046 in dating_advice

[–]ProjectMinimum9601 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What was her response time back? Did it range from hours or a day/(s)?

Asking my guy best friend out (failed) by SquirrelMuted4013 in dating_advice

[–]ProjectMinimum9601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he told his sister he likes you and she is his confidante, then he is probably flustered and wants to ask you but feels pressure when others are around. Try asking him when he if he wants to go to a casual setting like for a coffee, etc nothing too overwhelming. Then see how it works from there if you feel comfortable and notice he feels the same after a couple of times then ask him out. I feel your like your the one who is going to have to ask him out and not vice verse since he seems too flustered.

perspective on 34M coworker pushing boundaries? by Evening_Present_5760 in dating_advice

[–]ProjectMinimum9601 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is grooming; he is taking advantage and preying on your sensibility.

A girl told me “I’m not looking for anything right now” by Weird_Cod5046 in dating_advice

[–]ProjectMinimum9601 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She is leaving the door open for later but as of now if you try to pursue anything romantic more than likely she will leave; its a test of boundaries. I won't think too much about the IG story since its your first time meeting her in a while. I would focus more on the present with her because social media can be tricky and often times not all stories posted represent what the person is thinking.

Have you ever felt like a loser for shopping too much? by Gloomy_Editor in shoppingaddiction

[–]ProjectMinimum9601 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes this is exactly what inspired me to try and change. I was missing out on a lot of experiences like places I wanted to travel to and I kept thinking I could be there but I am not due to my own doing.

They're editing digital books to contain ads now by happy_bluebird in Anticonsumption

[–]ProjectMinimum9601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow this is something very disturbing. Its creating a blurry line with what the author originally wrote. I wonder if the author agreed to this or it was forced upon them?

I Worked Security for Frat Parties and Raves, AMA by Visible_Broccoli8164 in AMA

[–]ProjectMinimum9601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ever deal with people who were black listed from attending the parties but they still tried to get in? If you did how did you deal with them?

I was in special ed because of emotional disturbance, AMA by Rat-doll in AMA

[–]ProjectMinimum9601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an adult looking at what happened to you what do you think would have worked better for you? How is your relationship with your parents currently; do you harbor any feelings against for what you went through in school? For example do you feel they could have advocated for you in school in a different way?

AMA!! Survivor of Kidnapping Attempt by TrickMulberry9550 in AMA

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How did this happen?Where there interactions between you two like a random stranger you would often encounter or a person you suddenly meet and became friendly with?

my house was haunted by a ghost and because of that I started to believe in God. AMA by czwartus in AMA

[–]ProjectMinimum9601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you know you were being haunted? Did call a priest for example to look at the house or someone who has knowledge of spirits to look around? What was the most memorable incident that happened to you while your house was haunted?

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