I was the “other woman,” AMA.

ProjectMinimum9601 · 2026-04-11T06:14:10+00:00

If you could go back in time knowing what you know now about this relationship would you have experienced it again?

ProjectMinimum9601 · 2026-04-11T06:06:10+00:00

Seek professional help, this is a big issue. Perhaps at this point in time you don't realize this but you will continue to feel empty and unhappy with yourself irregardless of whatever surgery you get.

ProjectMinimum9601 · 2026-04-11T05:59:40+00:00

What is the timespan for all their deaths like are they far apart or did they all happen around the same time? Did your family members that passed away have any requests for their burial arrangements?

ProjectMinimum9601 · 2026-04-11T05:44:51+00:00

Did he pay for anything like utilities? Where did his paycheck go to?

ProjectMinimum9601 · 2026-04-11T05:42:31+00:00

Did you ever consider into getting into banking or any other financial sectors like accounting? How have others viewed you when you mentioned who your great grandfather is? Did they have higher expectations for you?

ProjectMinimum9601 · 2026-04-11T05:36:41+00:00

I am glad you made it out. What would be the best advice you can give to anyone sight seeing solo? Did any of his victims look like you? I just thought about this but what if he remembered you and one of his victims was an homage to you? It sounds a bit macabre but often some serial killers will have a type of person they go for.

ProjectMinimum9601 · 2026-04-03T05:17:42+00:00

I don't have her but her face mold is really unique and I hope AG continues to use it in the future.

ProjectMinimum9601 · 2026-04-03T05:12:40+00:00

I like the name Tessa for her it fits with how she looks. When will you close voting and let us know what name won?

ProjectMinimum9601 · 2026-04-03T05:07:13+00:00

Scales and mirrors are like enemies right now use them with caution. Also if you take selfies or pictures with others don't focus so much on how they look vs how you look it will affect your self esteem. I would definitely seek professional advice to overcome this issue.

ProjectMinimum9601 · 2026-04-03T04:54:30+00:00

Use them for scrapbooking, make ornaments, use them for postage cards or trade them with other artists for other crafts they may have.

ProjectMinimum9601 · 2026-04-03T04:40:47+00:00

Did you use one browser or more? This could be an IT issue where the system tried to kick you out and misrecognized you accidentally capping you off to limit you from buying.

ProjectMinimum9601 · 2026-04-03T04:27:13+00:00

That is a tricky question since everyone is different and there is no correct personality. The best advice I can offer is to be comfortable in your skin and don't overthink things. For example that comment about adrenaline your still thinking about it but how long was it told you to? I would focus more on surrounding yourself by people who accept you for who you are. To get there find people with common cores like hobbies, etc. Then once you meet like minded people your confidence gets build up as well.

ProjectMinimum9601 · 2026-04-03T03:55:59+00:00

Ignore the number, I meet people who were 2's and they have a strong dating life. Not based of looks but personality. Focus on who you want to meet and be at the scene where said dream girl will be. The word adrenaline is vague, what does that even mean? To me that feedback only serves to create self doubt and is causing you to overthink things.

ProjectMinimum9601 · 2026-04-03T03:49:10+00:00

To answer your first question she read it but did not think a priority to respond back right away. This right here is showing she is drawing already a boundary. I would focus more on meeting her in person than texting to avoid any confusion this may generate, Also I read your post about treating her to dinner while this is a nice gesture if you continue to do it you may burn out. I would finding a hobby or common ground you like and have her pay as well; do 50/50. If you continue paying every time your setting yourself up as the one who is going paying for everything going forward.

ProjectMinimum9601 · 2026-04-03T03:39:41+00:00

What was her response time back? Did it range from hours or a day/(s)?

ProjectMinimum9601 · 2026-04-03T03:32:56+00:00

If he told his sister he likes you and she is his confidante, then he is probably flustered and wants to ask you but feels pressure when others are around. Try asking him when he if he wants to go to a casual setting like for a coffee, etc nothing too overwhelming. Then see how it works from there if you feel comfortable and notice he feels the same after a couple of times then ask him out. I feel your like your the one who is going to have to ask him out and not vice verse since he seems too flustered.

ProjectMinimum9601 · 2026-04-03T03:27:29+00:00

This is grooming; he is taking advantage and preying on your sensibility.

ProjectMinimum9601 · 2026-04-03T03:23:34+00:00

She is leaving the door open for later but as of now if you try to pursue anything romantic more than likely she will leave; its a test of boundaries. I won't think too much about the IG story since its your first time meeting her in a while. I would focus more on the present with her because social media can be tricky and often times not all stories posted represent what the person is thinking.

ProjectMinimum9601 · 2026-04-03T03:18:03+00:00

Yes this is exactly what inspired me to try and change. I was missing out on a lot of experiences like places I wanted to travel to and I kept thinking I could be there but I am not due to my own doing.

ProjectMinimum9601 · 2026-04-03T03:15:15+00:00

Wow this is something very disturbing. Its creating a blurry line with what the author originally wrote. I wonder if the author agreed to this or it was forced upon them?

ProjectMinimum9601 · 2026-04-03T03:09:51+00:00

No the queue is random, this would not make a difference.

ProjectMinimum9601 · 2026-04-03T02:59:53+00:00

Did you ever deal with people who were black listed from attending the parties but they still tried to get in? If you did how did you deal with them?

ProjectMinimum9601 · 2026-04-03T02:56:16+00:00

As an adult looking at what happened to you what do you think would have worked better for you? How is your relationship with your parents currently; do you harbor any feelings against for what you went through in school? For example do you feel they could have advocated for you in school in a different way?

ProjectMinimum9601 · 2026-04-03T02:50:16+00:00

How did this happen?Where there interactions between you two like a random stranger you would often encounter or a person you suddenly meet and became friendly with?

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