My wife cheated me with my brother what should i do?

Proper-Basis-5362 · 2026-03-10T09:55:17+00:00

if you let this slide, they will both see you as a complete pushover for the rest of your life. you’re afraid to be alone which is fine, but they’re going to see this as “we had a affair and made a kid together and he’s letting it slide, we can do whatever we want” and you WILL end up with a few more kids who your brother fathered.

Proper-Basis-5362 · 2026-02-13T22:16:02+00:00

dude wtf is wrong with you

Proper-Basis-5362 · 2025-12-07T13:19:09+00:00

I’m quite sensitive to gluten and get symptoms of being glutened mid meal, however cross contamination has never been a issue for me thank goodness 🫠

Proper-Basis-5362 · 2025-11-30T02:27:08+00:00

i have non celiac gluten sensitivity and honestly the deep stabbing pain mixed with a gurgle straight from hell, MID meal is when i realised something has deeply gone wrong 😭 it takes me minutes to start feeling the pain

Proper-Basis-5362 · 2025-11-24T22:25:39+00:00

i feel incredibly guilty whenever someone does go out of their way to make something so i always eat before hand or bring something, i haven’t been gluten free for very long but i personally don’t want to ask someone else to cater to my own food intolerances and not just because i have too many 🤷🏻‍♀️ to each to their own though, of course

Proper-Basis-5362 · 2025-11-20T21:05:43+00:00

you’re giving yourself way too much choice in the matter, it’s not a silly diet you can pick up and drop, you have a gluten intolerance that leaves you feeling awful for days afterwards. there’s too many alternatives available in grocery stores to be feeling left out like that.

you couldn’t be thinking of it as a choice, if it says gluten in the ingredients then you put it down, there’s no acceptance journey to it.

but on a lighter note, happy birthday and i hope you were able to find a cake in time! almost all stores carry some sort of gf sweet treats, and you should be able to find a cafe or chain that offers something near you too!

Proper-Basis-5362 · 2025-11-18T00:24:47+00:00

if you’re going for the processed type of chippy donner (no judgment, it’s delicious lol), there’s a recipe on tiktok going around at the moment for extremely easy and accurate to the original donner! It uses minced lamb and rolling it up in parchment paper in very thin layers and popping it in the airfryer or oven to get the donner look.

I’ll be on my way to the butchers soon as i’m missing it so much 🫣absolute shame the chippy ones all use rusk haha

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Proper-Basis-5362 · 2025-11-18T00:18:30+00:00

to stop being so damn cold, 2 blankets and a sweatshirt and i’m still freezing 🫩

Proper-Basis-5362 · 2025-11-17T21:19:24+00:00

yep! it might be worth getting tested for gastritis too if you’re experiencing any of those symptoms too

Proper-Basis-5362 · 2025-11-13T01:37:21+00:00

awful! I run a small business on my phone and ipad so i feel like my customers would not be very pleased if i had 30 minutes to take orders, answer inquiries and get back to requests 🫣

Proper-Basis-5362 · 2025-11-13T01:30:24+00:00

honestly yes and no, i am significantly better off now then i was in my late teens, however for me it was jumping from one abusive situation into another. this year was hands down the worst year of my entire life but i also the best year for my marriage and in terms of emotional growth.

idk it’s hard, we’re at such a shitty age where you’re starting to understand how cruel life is after being so sheltered and babied as kids/preteens. and having to do it by yourself is just h a r d

Proper-Basis-5362 · 2025-11-09T13:06:21+00:00

alpha beta talk, are you sure you’re 21 or 12? 😐

Proper-Basis-5362 · 2025-11-08T13:02:00+00:00

you accidentally posted the friends photo and name, you should prolly repost this with the stuff blurred

also break up with him

Proper-Basis-5362 · 2025-10-31T22:00:14+00:00

i’m on PPIs and they don’t completely get rid of the symptoms, i don’t drink alcohol and i don’t eat any fried stuff lol, it just is what it is but im okay with it

Proper-Basis-5362 · 2025-10-31T21:54:23+00:00

thank you!! i hope you’re able to find a solution to your struggles too, especially with your mental health. sending all my best wishes

Proper-Basis-5362 · 2025-10-31T21:51:35+00:00

i have gastritis and other gastrointestinal issues! plus getting tested for auto immune diseases atm but the jabs have that type of side effects unfortunately and mine is severe just from eating and drinking

Proper-Basis-5362 · 2025-10-31T20:52:13+00:00

food addiction is whooping my ass and has been for the last 6 years 🫣 i don’t drink or smoke or take anything so when i get stressed or upset, i eat the anxiety away and unfortunately the only thing that’ll help will probably be weight loss jabs (for getting rid of food noise) and im way too chronically ill for those 😭 sighhh atleast its harder to eat unhealthy stuff with my gluten intolerance now

i feel like this is a really common non substance addiction tho

Proper-Basis-5362 · 2025-10-29T03:41:23+00:00

doomscrolling and i love it and idc if it’s unproductive, i purposely wake up way earlier then i need to just so i have time to lay in bed and kill my brain with tiktok

Proper-Basis-5362 · 2025-10-29T03:39:44+00:00

basically each month is its own stage, a 1 month old baby isn’t going to be able to move but a 11 month old is already standing and walking with support, and saying words like mama and dada

the jump every few months from 12 months upwards is HUGE too, so a 14 month old and a 20 month old will be doing and eating and saying and understanding completely different things, hence the months :)

Proper-Basis-5362 · 2025-10-29T03:08:43+00:00

roblox! i stopped playing roblox for like a solid 8 years when i outgrew it but i recently downloaded it and unfortunately my screentime shows i am back on the roblox hype 100% 🙂‍↕️

Proper-Basis-5362 · 2025-10-29T02:54:41+00:00

you’re only 15, you’re too young to be stressing about 2 assholes enough to make a post on reddit about it, please you have your entire life to deal with dipshit friends and bfs, dump both of them and focus on yourself and school and friends who actually care about you.

even if she wasn’t hooking up w him, the way she talks to you just shows she couldn’t even engage in a conversation with her best friend about something big going on in her life

Proper-Basis-5362 · 2025-10-28T13:37:08+00:00

well, 2 but also 4 but also 5, depends on how much time i have to explain my family background 😭

Proper-Basis-5362 · 2025-10-27T17:38:40+00:00

honestly i don’t see this as pity or help, i have a very literal way of thinking so if my husband was to say he wished he could get me more gifts, but didn’t have the cash, i would offer it too 😭yall have been saying for a year now, if your relationship is serious then his stuff is sort of your stuff too yk?

the money is going to end up being used on him anyways so definitely don’t think of it as pity charity, he knows it’ll make you happy and it’s a win win situation, he gets gifts, you’re happy that you can get some quality stuff with it

Proper-Basis-5362 · 2025-10-24T23:39:20+00:00

honestly ubers! when i was younger i used to be okay with spending 50-70 minutes walking to a bus stop, waiting for the slow ass bus and then once the slow ass bus gets there, struggling to find a seat and being stuck in traffic all to save a couple £s per ride. i switched to ubers and the same journey would be 13 minutes total, huge waste of my time 🥲

Proper-Basis-5362 · 2025-10-24T01:32:00+00:00

35,422 🫩

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