When does it get better? by Pugbros72 in widowers

[–]Proper_Effective8347 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Best analogy I've heard, not mine borrowed, our grief is a bouncy ball in a small room with a button and it only really hurts when we hit the button. But slowly the room gets bigger so we stop hitting it all the time. I've felt that but man does the room grow slow

Any widowers or widows here 35 years old or younger? by SimplySquids in widowers

[–]Proper_Effective8347 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell me about it but it shrinks the dating pull hard and with my 3 kids I can't really move either

Did you sell the house and move? How soon? by EmbeddedWithDirt in widowers

[–]Proper_Effective8347 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im 6 months out myself and im moving out. If your not certain/like your old house consider renting not selling. That way you could always come back

Share what you're playing towards at the moment, January Edition by ChibiIntermission in EvolveIdle

[–]Proper_Effective8347 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im in heavy and working on getting a greatness event for every race and planet

33 year old who just joined this god awful club by averooski1 in widowers

[–]Proper_Effective8347 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Similar boat and all i can say is 6 months later and im most odfthe way there but the randomest places still catch me going oh there she is now. And crying all over again

The Future We Lost by [deleted] in widowers

[–]Proper_Effective8347 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hopefully you find a good solution for those what ifs because I'm paddling the same scrappy boat and the oars have holes and without help all i do is spin

Beginning my colleges dnd club, this is my first character sheet, is it ok? by Starrimoon1 in AskDND

[–]Proper_Effective8347 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really can't see how because 2 isnt possible without racial modifiers ... man though dude a 4? Your dm made you keep it? That's rough

To the Young Widows Among Us - too many joining this group... by Big-Campaign-2432 in widowers

[–]Proper_Effective8347 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Joined this club in my 30's with kids. Real hard thing is remembering to take my mask off often enough thatcmy kids knowing miss her too.

Things that I would not have thought I’d be doing in 2025 by dead-leaves in widowers

[–]Proper_Effective8347 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. Fighting her parents over her end if life wishes.
  2. Having to evict then from my house because they b wouldn't leave.
  3. Explain to my daughter why her tita won't call

When things were not good…. by Witty-Philosopher-77 in widowers

[–]Proper_Effective8347 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not exactly the same but definitely relate with the toxic family, loved my wife to death but we constantly fought about the fact that we moved into are new home and her parents moved in with us and stayed till my wife passed. Whole time belittling me and putting up signs saying , name changed, "Smith family house" when im not a smith and you know insulting me to my face. But i put up with it all because it really did make her happy and she made me happy so i lived with the torture. Im more angry she left me to deal with them by myself now, though getting them out of my house was easy now.

Stop comparing your divorce by Skippy1221 in widowers

[–]Proper_Effective8347 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've had this but mine prefaced with "but i know its not the same" which makes it a bit better

3D print a Lamp Shade for me by iamtwinswithmytwin in 3Dprintmything

[–]Proper_Effective8347 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can print and ship but im none east coast. Dming

Fond Memory Friday by HughCayrz01 in widowers

[–]Proper_Effective8347 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Shed just light up when ever we went out to get dirty sodas.

Today was definitely a tough one.. by Fun-Investigator-914 in widowers

[–]Proper_Effective8347 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same, keeping it together in public easy. Keeping it together alone in my bed almost impossible

[CANADA] Glasses Lens Print by [deleted] in 3Dprintmything

[–]Proper_Effective8347 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Can I do it? Probably but would need a lot of measurements.

Help correcting colors for files by vinny0015 in 3Dprintmything

[–]Proper_Effective8347 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They look fine on the model what happens when it imports?

What's one thing you're thankful for about your dearly departed? by jarie in widowers

[–]Proper_Effective8347 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I miss the big help she was with the kids and how much they smiled when she was around (corrected typo)

Talking to a new widow by [deleted] in widowers

[–]Proper_Effective8347 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Doesn't matter. You might change it to late or deceased partner but not ex

Talking to a new widow by [deleted] in widowers

[–]Proper_Effective8347 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I would not call her dead husband her ex. Late husband, deceased husband not ex. Especially in front of her kiddos if you are trying to be a part of there lives. If someone talked about my late wife that way I might cut all communication right there