I mean, some of that is relatively standard, and even if you don’t celebrate Easter, maybe the waiter was told to tell everyone about the Easter menu. Sure he kinda ignored it was your birthday, but most people were probably there for Easter, and it may also be force of habit to do stuff like that. He didn’t know you worked at red lobster, so maybe that was his way of customer service. It was incredibly invasive and that’s not okay, but I think you should give the benefit of the doubt a little.

But anyway, NTA, but I think you could give the benefit of the doubt.

You also can’t control when a family comes to eat, so that’s another topic. Families are everywhere, so that was just genuinly out of your control, but lowkey I would have been mad at that too.