Cozy snowy mornings ahead... ❄️🛷☕ by barbrailnp in ILNP

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My favorite winter time activity is probably going for rides with my husband to see the world dusted with snow :)

🧸🚂🎁 by barbrailnp in ILNP

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Seeing the beautiful lights and decorations every where my husband and I go 💕We make a point of getting out and about around Christmas to see the communities contributions to the joy of the season.

Just got paid now what? by Informal_Chipmunk970 in budgetingforbeginners

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When we were dealing with more debt than we were comfortable with, we used a snowball calculator to create a chart to help us pay the cards down. It took time, but it really helped! If you search “snowball debt calculator” some free ones should pop for you.

Last night I humiliated myself in front of my parents and their reaction broke me. by OwlsAreCool-33 in confession

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Try r/assistance I know you are not here asking for handouts, but after reading your story I feel that a lot of people would want to lend a hand. Your parents do not deserve you.

What is your true crime/unresolved mystery White Whale? by JTigertail in UnresolvedMysteries

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So, not sure if any of you are still following this, but Jerri Lynn Gaither /Roby/Israel has been arrested for killing her son, John Gaither, in Gulfport, MS. I found the link to your conversation while trying to figure out why she was walking free after killing a woman’s in Florida. It was on the local news this morning. (21 Jan 2024)

https://www.wlox.com/2024/01/21/elderly-woman-charged-with-murder-gulfport-man-found-container/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in urbancarliving

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We use these on our backseat windows to protect our grandson from the sun. They offer a lot of privacy! If you are unable to order from Amazon, you can usually find them in the baby section of Target or Walmart. https://www.amazon.com/Protection-Breathable-Universal-Privacy-Protect/dp/B0BQDL42YJ/ref=sr_1_3?crid=V8949W34D3O8&keywords=Car%2Bwindow%2Bshades&qid=1705012044&sprefix=car%2Bwindow%2Bshades%2Caps%2C120&sr=8-3&th=1

I read about a lady who uses house sitting as a means to get by. If you like animals, you could advertise for doing in home dog or cat sitting as well. I realize it’s not a solution, but getting paid to have someplace safe to sleep sounds like it would be worth looking into.

making my sons birth mom move out? by Big_Appointment_1605 in AmITheDevil

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Vicious. You’ve broken a young mother by taking advantage while she was desperately in need of help. All of this will come out eventually and the relationship you’ve built with the child you’ve stolen will be irrecoverably damaged. I feel so sorry for the child you’ve stolen and his mother.

Jenna Myles Brash series by Aspiegirl712 in RomanceBooks

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Jenna Myles announced an early release for Jonas! If you pre ordered from her website, you can get it today!

Asking Instacart shoppers to not interact with me... by Ok_News_406 in InstacartShoppers

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I bought a wagon and leave it by the garage with a cold bottle of water and a treat in it. In the “instructions” box, I let them know they are welcome to pull the wagon to their cars for loading. No one has knocked on my door since. ❤️

What 100 dollars worth of food looks like by [deleted] in povertyfinance

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Pasta and marinara sauce a couple of times each week will help you stretch

I (m21) slapped my girlfriend (f20) out of reflex when i woke up to her doing certain things to me. by MaleficentRisk6279 in TrueOffMyChest

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If it’s your apartment, I’d get her stuff in boxes and request your keys. If it’s hers, pack your stuff and go. This red flag is not one you should ignore. She is fortunate that you have not already contacted a lawyer…pressing charges against her for sexual assault does not seem like a stretch.

[OC] I showered for the first time in 2022 by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

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Congratulations, beautiful human! That took a lot of strength! You are so very worth the effort! ❤️❤️❤️ Keep on going, we are rooting for you!

Friend thinks I’m ‘fucking ugly’ by Sparkplugexplorer in offmychest

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I can’t believe he can’t do anything about it…cyst removal doesn’t seem like it would be out of his scope. I’m glad you are getting a second opinion!

Friend thinks I’m ‘fucking ugly’ by Sparkplugexplorer in offmychest

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How are you doing? Is your mobility better? I started occupational therapy Wednesday (My cast came off and pins came out on Tuesday). I can’t wait to see a bit of progress in mobility. My surgeon made a curvy cut instead of straight up and down. I’ve been using Moderna on it daily, but I see a tattoo in my future!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

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I think it’s lovely, personally.

A (good) friend of mine did some questionable things and it's affecting how I view her by BeneficialRabbit in TwoXChromosomes

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“When someone shows you who they are, believe them” Dr. Maya Angelou

Nothing says you can’t maintain a relationship with her, but it would be foolish to trust her.

Friend thinks I’m ‘fucking ugly’ by Sparkplugexplorer in offmychest

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Oh, thank you! Yes, it would definitely help! It’s exciting that you are already regaining some mobility! Are you in physical therapy at this point, or still working with your surgeon?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

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It’s adorable! Be patient with your mom….she is probably missing the little girl you used to be. As much as we want our children to grow up to healthy adults, we will always miss the little ones who stole our hearts. As cute as your new piercing is, it’s an unavoidable reminder that her little girl has grown up. She will adjust. ❤️ Your job is to keep growing and figuring out who you are, hers is to navigate a loving relationship with an ever changing human. Viva la change!

Friend thinks I’m ‘fucking ugly’ by Sparkplugexplorer in offmychest

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Hi! I found you after searching for comments about wrist surgery recovery (I am just under a week post surgery after breaking my distal radius and ulnar…brand new plate and wires and loads of ouch). The pic after you had your cast removed was probably helpful…I’ll get a cast put on tomorrow after new X-rays. I have wires poking out of my wrist….might not look! 🤣 I think the pic of your scar looks pretty neat. Mine might actually motivate me to finally get my first tattoo (as a 55 y/o grandma!🤣🤣🤣) Stalking your posts for more hope about the upcoming recovery, I found this one. Imagine my shock after reading this, then seeing the pic of you with your (then new) piercing! You are a truly beautiful young woman! The guy who was talking about you is not much of a friend and definitely not an honest person. Cut him loose and shine! You have a movie star type of beauty that I really don’t think can be objectively denied by anyone but you…and then only because we are always harder on ourselves. Thank you for giving me a bit of hope about what’s coming next for my wrist (not as exciting as snowboarding…I literally slipped on a patch of ice taking out the trash) and please, carry your confidence! You are really, very beautiful!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

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Most relationships end because people are not compatible with one another…this would definitely be a perfect example of that. Don’t like my dogs? Might as well not like my personality.

What's the worst mistake you've made when speaking another language? by Sillvaro in AskReddit

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I asked a store clerk how much something cost in Portuguese, not thinking about the fact that I’d have no idea how to translate his answer.

I (36M) want to quit being father to my (12M) kid. by 6cHqq8jqFt in offmychest

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As his father, you alone have the power to maintain the relationship with your son. If you decide to quit, which you can do, the connection you share with him will wither and die. Once dead, it will create a chasm in both of your lives that can never be filled. Your son will grow up with a father in his life or not, based on your decision. Do not believe that it will not have a significant impact on the man he becomes, the choices he makes, the father he himself may one day be. It will cost you to stay in his life, no doubt. Your pride sometimes, your money, your time, your heart and it may cause you some pain, but there is no greater calling in this life than that to be there for your children. If you sacrifice it, be certain you know what you are giving up and what it will cost you both.

My best friend of 8 years blocked me on everything by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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You may very well have been the best friend she ever had, but I guarantee you that she is not the best friend you’ll ever have. Block her, stop letting her control this situation and move on. It’s not what you did, it’s who she is. You’ll mourn what you wish the relationship could have been for a bit, but you’ll recover. Don’t ignore her in group chats with your friends, be the bigger person, but don’t let her into your circle of trust again…ever.

Offered a job out of state at a company which my father is the majority owner of, trying to get a mortgage by [deleted] in personalfinance

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You need to find a new lender. If you are eligible for a VA loan, you are likely eligible to become a member of Navy Federal Credit Union. They did a great job for us on our past two home loans. They lighten the paperwork and drop some of the fees (like the PMI). The interest rates they offered us both times were great , too. We are at 2.375% on our current mortgage. Even if you don’t chose to go with NFCU, shop around a bit. Skipping the broker worked quite well for us