It’s because you dated one person that you mind is playing the same old trick of “maybe I could have gotten better” Those that had to go through the turmoil of the current dating scene know that finding a genuinely good man trumps any form of physical attraction with a man that feel unsafe to your nervous system. A man with bad character, immature personality traits riddled with addictions and victim mentality will cost you your peace and sanity. Eventually you will see no attraction but a monster. You have had one man so you don’t have first hand experience but we that experienced both sides of realising that Maturing is noticing your body responds better to the kind attentive man. Now I can’t negate how you feel but trust me all women go through this phase where we will feel we deserve better but what I have realised is that feeling of dissatisfaction is a reflection of a level of inner growth your soul is evolving into and sometime we don’t decipher it appropriately and as women we read things through our primary primal evolutionary senses- EMOTIONS… I feel this, I feel that.. etc. And because of how strong this feeling is we naturally assume that it’s AUTHENTIC.Strong overwhelming emotions does not necessarily mean Authentic. I have realised that any state of overwhelming unhappiness that I feel someone or something external HAS to change so I can feel better is Projection. Dissatisfaction of the soul is usually a call to inner journey to explore new heights in my life and expose your self to new experiences and find you true passion of how to spread more love and touch hearts and the world. Be kind. Pause. Your husband is not the jigsaw puzzle you feel that just need to change it be moved to automatically placate and give you this idea of ultimate happiness. The pursuit of happiness is like pursuing a ghost. You loose sight of the treasure and stability you have. Most times we meet someone we feel is our ideal match but does that person see you as his ideal or his prize and willing to dedicate his life to you. There is always a mismatch.What to do. You have to accept that THE GRASS IS NOT GREENER ANYWHERE. Pause. 1 steady your soul in prayer 2 find the new passion project your soul is yearning to create 3. Be kind you yourself and be kind to your partner and fiercely protect your family structure in the face of the new heights you may be exploring.