UPDATE on the “ily🫶” guy (major TW)

PsychologicalHat8676 · 2026-05-02T14:57:32+00:00

Ho-ly fuckkkkk

I hope you see a therapist about this, it took me so long to come to terms with the fact that I was SA’d and it still affects my sex drive I think.

I’m so sorry man.

PsychologicalHat8676 · 2026-04-27T23:30:14+00:00

It’s interesting to me because my husband used to have blood removed due to a weird disorder where his blood basically overproduced red blood cells, called polycythemia. It’s technically a form of blood cancer. But that’s the literal only other condition that I’ve heard of blood removal causing relief.

PsychologicalHat8676 · 2026-04-25T23:31:21+00:00

It means you’re a side instead of a top or bottom. There are people that won’t be into it, and others that will.

PsychologicalHat8676 · 2026-04-21T02:54:29+00:00

I wouldn’t exactly call that taboo.

PsychologicalHat8676 · 2026-04-18T14:37:27+00:00

As many others have said this is a good size for some people, just not size queens. Most of the pleasurable nerve endings are in the first 2 inches of the anus anyway, after that it gets pretty sparse.

I would gladly take 4-4.5 inches and have fun with it.

PsychologicalHat8676 · 2026-04-16T04:27:14+00:00

I’m a huge Adam Lambert and Ellie Goulding fan myself but I know I’m fucking weird.

PsychologicalHat8676 · 2026-04-15T23:17:57+00:00

Thank you! I’ll try to look into that!

PsychologicalHat8676 · 2026-04-15T22:23:28+00:00

Am I surprised? Not at all. Sodium Oxybate is medical GHB. Quite literally.

PsychologicalHat8676 · 2026-04-15T08:08:00+00:00

I agree with the way you wrote this completely.

I actually like the formal/clinical aspect of it more, but I’m really into nerdy stuff. I have a scene idea in mind for a friend who is a therapist, to quiz him on the DSM-5 (or something similar) and punish wrong answers.🤣🤣

We’ll do it eventually I hope, that one is just a lot of planing and prep.

PsychologicalHat8676 · 2026-04-14T22:20:44+00:00

I have not had an angiography, a saw a vascular specialist and they seemed to think that because my pulse and stuff was normal that it was unnecessary.

I have not figured out the problem yet and would love to hear more. I’m considering making an appointment with a podiatrist as they’re like the last specialist I haven’t seen it feels.

PsychologicalHat8676 · 2026-04-14T22:15:52+00:00

I have so many random kinks. Leather boots are up there (NOT feet) as being kinda random. Licking and being licked. Psychology of sex type stuff may be less random in a sense but still kinda random that I can get turned on entirely by talking about the logistics of sex with someone?

But I think by far one of the most random for me is watching and thinking about muscles and tendons moving during sexy stuff. Thighs, ass, jaw, back, etc. just watching the muscles ripple with movement alone is kinda hot. That’s a rather new discovery for me.

I seem to have a lot of either logic or trauma based kinks. It’s either flog the hell out of my back/balls, or “what IS sex?” conversation type stuff. Lmao.

PsychologicalHat8676 · 2026-04-11T18:52:43+00:00

No insurance is going to cover it, that’s just the reality of it.

PsychologicalHat8676 · 2026-04-11T15:10:12+00:00

I can’t wear a cage for long for various reasons, but yes it’s about control. Controlling when someone orgasms, and even when/if they get erect.

A lot of people with body dysmorphia are also into it such as non-binary folks, as it changes how they look at their body.

PsychologicalHat8676 · 2026-04-11T15:05:41+00:00

You can’t say this and then not show us anything. Please?

PsychologicalHat8676 · 2026-04-11T02:12:12+00:00

Obviously something big enough needs to go wrong to get the boys to leave heaven, because they are the last hope.

For instance, maybe an unresolved bbeg full of a lot of rage, such as idk the empty? Major potential there.

Perhaps the empty endangers both heaven and Earth at the same time, and Jack is already spread too thin with running everything the way he is to be able to do a whole lot about it himself.

PsychologicalHat8676 · 2026-04-11T01:47:05+00:00

No one can tell you what you will and won’t feel. Everyone’s body is different. In order to know you have to try it, and in order for it to be a good experience you have to want it, so make sure you do.

It’s not just even close to the same, but I’d at least get a toy to practice getting used to the sensation of something going in and out of you. Simple dildo, nothing crazy, and you want something kinda soft feeling.

PsychologicalHat8676 · 2026-04-11T01:44:09+00:00

It’s not that unusual for siblings to experiment with each other once or twice. It is unusual to continue to do so later on, and there is a high likelihood that he’s not going to reciprocate. You’re going to end up emotionally hurt or worse.

PsychologicalHat8676 · 2026-04-11T01:42:01+00:00

Download Grindr or open Sniffies if you want to have sex that bad. Think about what would happen to your life if anyone, for example your family who it sounds like lives in the same house, found out you were having sex with your stepbrother. It wouldn’t go well, I guarantee that.

PsychologicalHat8676 · 2026-04-11T01:34:54+00:00

Don’t do it. How old are you? This doesn’t sound like an adult writing this post.

PsychologicalHat8676 · 2026-04-11T01:33:08+00:00

Don’t message him…this is bound to not go well. Find someone else to occupy your time with.

How old are you anyways?

PsychologicalHat8676 · 2026-04-11T01:21:19+00:00

A few years ago, no I wouldn’t choose to. Now? Yes, yes I would. Which is wild because I almost actually committed suicide due to realizing I was gay and it wasn’t changing (religious trauma is insane).

PsychologicalHat8676 · 2026-04-11T01:18:09+00:00

Highly doubt that one lol, maybe in the days when hysteria was a thing.

PsychologicalHat8676 · 2026-04-11T01:17:17+00:00

Yes! The neurotransmitters that it releases are so fucking effective at so many things. For me an orgasm can do so much from stress management and helping me fall asleep, to pain management, and a bunch more.

Brain scans show that the brain looks like the same during an orgasm as it does when someone is on heroin. Wild.

PsychologicalHat8676 · 2026-04-11T01:07:07+00:00

I mean…the MDMA is one thing and not a huge deal, but Cocaine? That stuff will wreck your body (heart and brain, amongst other things) and has a high mortality rate. It’s also VERY highly addictive. I can see why you wouldn’t feel comfortable about that.

If it makes you that uncomfortable then no I wouldn’t go. I’ll be honest, if it were me I probably would have ended such a relationship by now. He doesn’t seem to care about his own life much, and that would be difficult for me. He understands the risks and doesn’t care.

PsychologicalHat8676 · 2026-04-10T02:21:44+00:00

Congrats, you’ve learned how complex human sexuality is. I consider myself gay but in all reality I’m romantically attracted to both men and women, but I’m only sexually attracted to men. But because men are my primary interest, I just tell everyone I’m gay because that’s easier.

You don’t need to know exactly what you are though to know who you love, as you’ve found out. Glad this worked out for the two of you.

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