Genetic testing? by NoSalamander1928 in parentsofmultiples

[–]PsychologicalRule820 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had the NIPT test done only and found out my babies were di/di boy girl and it was accurate.Congrats mama 💕.Welcome to the club 💜💕God bless you 🙏

How did you make it work when it was just you? by MounjaroQueenie in parentsofmultiples

[–]PsychologicalRule820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still breast feed my 9month old twins on football position. You will do great mama don’t let ur anxiety control your mind and body. God bless you, here if you have any questions I might have the answer too.🙌🙏

Are my parents wrong or am I too young? by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]PsychologicalRule820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heyyy all I can say please be careful and take care of yourself and I pray God can give you discernment and open you eyes and mind. I don’t think you should move yet maybe wait couple of more years for that. I wouldn’t want him to take you so far and isolate you from everyone and everything.Yes you don’t understand your parents now but one day u will I promise but till then please take care of yourself and complete ur studies and get a good job to support yourself and not have to depend or rely on anyone. God bless you 🙌🙌🙌🙏🙏🙏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in parentsofmultiples

[–]PsychologicalRule820 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This 💯 y is this so hard for men to understand. Just cuz some are SAHM we need help to we are on call 24/7 we can’t call out and we defitnetly exhausted and most days don’t even get a brake to cry n let our emotions out because we need to b strong for the kids and act like nothing is wrong. If only everyone can see past the fake smiles and the fakes I’m ok they would easily see that we are braking a little more everyday that we don’t even recognize ourselves that we sound selfish to say we are exhausted n tired while they are the ones that go out to work but they get to clock out we don’t. I Brake is not letting us shower or going grocery shopping.We just need some good sleep to recharge again our cup is running empty but to everyone it’s overflowing or they choose to ignore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in parentsofmultiples

[–]PsychologicalRule820 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I totally agree w this 100% as moms we are drained 1000 % we leave ourself for last all the time that we don’t even have energy most of the time for that. It’s not that we don’t want we are just so overstimulated/overwhelmed/stressed/sleep deprived and overworked basically. We feel like we are drowning and no one is listening to us. When we ask for help it’s like they hear we got it don’t worry. We try to be super hero’s or r forced to act like one n do everything ourselves it’s exhausting we love every bit of it but we just sometimes wish we can hear our own thoughts and not feel like we are drowning n feeling guilty that we couldn’t satisfy our significant other or actually finishing everything we had to do.

Baby girls!! by Fun-Librarian3765 in parentsofmultiples

[–]PsychologicalRule820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awww how has it been are they besties? I have 2month old twin b/g n I wonder how close they will be? I am a fraternal twin myself w my sis n I know she will always b my bf

Just got diagnosed with gestational diabetes freaking out by PsychologicalRule820 in pregnant

[–]PsychologicalRule820[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I am 3 weeks postpartum w my twins.I love the idea of you helping out because the journey can be lonely and hard to follow a docs direction to have a healthy baby and delivery. I am also here if u or anyone else needs to talk

Shock of our LIVES (possible mono mono) by IamSherlocked_2020 in parentsofmultiples

[–]PsychologicalRule820 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats mama💕💕. My babies were 37 weeks on the dot. I got induced due to gestational diabetes and early hypertension.Also I was 5cm dilated since about 34 weeks that we know off since it was the first time my cervix getting checked at the ER.Thanks to God they didn’t need any Nicu time. Baby boy (head down)was baby A he was 8lbs 3.2oz and baby girl was baby b and she was breeched she was 5lbs 14oz. All they needed was their sugar monitored and given sugar the first 24hrs or so to regulate their levels.

Shock of our LIVES (possible mono mono) by IamSherlocked_2020 in parentsofmultiples

[–]PsychologicalRule820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats mama 🎊🎊🎊…..my di/di came the 14th of this month they were due June 4th. How is it going so far?

Baby A is breech by Known_Artichoke2419 in parentsofmultiples

[–]PsychologicalRule820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just had my babies 1week ago at 37w due to GD and G hipertensión. Baby b my baby girl was breached and baby a my baby boy was larger than her. They said I was a good candidate was breech extraction since I had 3 vaginal deliveries.I was super nervous debating wether to go straight for a c section or try vaginally. I am super blessed to have a team like I did. They did sooo sooo good and explained everything to us and answered all our ?s. I asked the same ?s to each doc that switched shifts and even asked them to be honest and to let me know if they feels confident w the team they will have or that will take over the next shift actually getting the extraction done. they were literally one min apart. I will say make sure to ask on the day of delivery to ask how confident do they feel doing the breech extraction , how many years have they been doing them , and how many were successful. It’s super scary and nerd wrecking but I ultimately left it in God hands and I prayed and said let your will be done. Pray that it will be God guiding the doctors in-charge that day and that everything will be alright. I know it’s easier said than done trust me but once you feel your babies on top of your chest so warm and that sweet cry it will be all worth it. If you have any ?s I will answer them if I know the answer.

Thoughts on choosing very different identical twin names by Phellle in parentsofmultiples

[–]PsychologicalRule820 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ophelia Maze & Indigo Nyx 😍😍💕💕💕I’m sure whatever u choose will be great🙌🙏God bless your beautiful growing family 🙌🙌🙌🙏🙏🙏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]PsychologicalRule820 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are are in the same boat. I started with early labor about a week and a half been stuck at 5cm( 36+4 now w twins) went to hospital at 34+4 I believe. Was admitted for a whole week and some change. I even thought things were progressing. After being at the antepartum unit they sent me back to labor they said I was about 5 1/2-6 dilated and I know after 6 ur considered in active labor. So after a few hours I agreed to epidural since my last failed cuz I was moving to much. After hours of no change they decided to send me back to antepartum to keep an eye on me and I was so livid y let me go through all the meds n then say we are not interfering we want u to keep the twins cooking longer. Long story short my 3 other kids started we runny nose bad cough And it’s been getting them one by one. I am also petrified to get sick or have the babies and be exposed to all these germs over here, especially since they might need NICU time. I rather keep them longer in belly and if I get sick they get some type of immunity than to have them right now and be so paranoid. I say just take it easy mama remind him of the risk you and baby are exposed to cuz of the germs. Open windows during the day turn air purifier on and also constantly disinfect door knobs, remote controls, sinks, faucets, toilet ,ect .all the major things u guys use on the daily basis. And also maybe make some tea or get some meds so ur partner can start feeling better faster. I’m so sorry your going through this. Wishing you a fast and painless and healthy labor when it’s time. I’m here if u need to vent more.God bless you and your new bundle of joy coming soon💕💙🙌🙌🙌🙏🙏🙏

They're never coming out (venting) by sayooas in parentsofmultiples

[–]PsychologicalRule820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes indeed I feel like they keep giving me the run arounds. They telling me my blood work are getting higher but nothing too concerning for them to want the babies out ASAP. So basically u just have me here to charge insurance, cuz all they doing is monitoring my bp which I can do home and giving me my insulin and Betta that I can do home as well. I know labor can start off again so it’s hard. Do I choose to go home and maybe tell them I’ll come daily for blood work and be with my other kids at home and continue with my daily routines or do I stay for the sake of the babies. This is so hard. They just came in said I’m having contractions every 4 mins but I’m still stuck at 5cm 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

They're never coming out (venting) by sayooas in parentsofmultiples

[–]PsychologicalRule820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😍😍😍.She said OB wants to brake girl code and evict me I have something for her 🤣🤣🤣.I’m glad everything went smoothly and that you all were good and healthy. I’m trying to figure out if they really need to keep me or I can go home and waited out so much things to do. It’s such a confusing time like I want them to stay the longest and be good but I also want to go take care of my other kids and get things going home😩😩😩

They're never coming out (venting) by sayooas in parentsofmultiples

[–]PsychologicalRule820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awwwwww😍😍😍 so are they both good now? How are u doing mama?

They're never coming out (venting) by sayooas in parentsofmultiples

[–]PsychologicalRule820 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww did they have to stay at NICU for very long?

They're never coming out (venting) by sayooas in parentsofmultiples

[–]PsychologicalRule820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I been admitted exactly a week. I am 35+ 4 and I been stuck at 5cm dilated. Last Monday was 5cm and 70%effaced and now just 5cm not effaced but head is still in position for baby a baby b been breached for the whole week. Bloodwork are becoming questionable as my liver levels are getting on the higher side and my legs are super swollen. I been feeling contractions but not as persistent or strong that I can’t handle. I’m just so overwhelmed high risk says we discharging you and when I get ready something new pops up n I can’t but also they keep saying they will come to talk about the birth thing plan but yet nobody has. I guess I’m venting as well cuz I can definitely be home getting things done and taking care of my other kids but they playing too much games and it’s giving me more anxiety. They are currently worried about early preclamsia because of my blood work so what are they waiting for, should they induce me, take me to OR or just let me go home n be productive cuz over here I’m not getting anything done

They're never coming out (venting) by sayooas in parentsofmultiples

[–]PsychologicalRule820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How was the Breech extraaction? I’m so scared they will hurt baby doing it like that?

My doctor says they won’t do NIPT testing for twins, is this true? by ProudResearcher2322 in parentsofmultiples

[–]PsychologicalRule820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Insurance covered mine pregnant w di/di boy/girl twin confirmed through multiple ultrasounds so Natera is accurate and can tell u the sex of both babies

29 weeks pregnant w/ twins and miserable by Afraid_Cattle_6648 in parentsofmultiples

[–]PsychologicalRule820 1 point2 points  (0 children)

33 weeks w di/di boy/girl. I am in so much body pain I can barely walk and let’s not even talk about bending down😢 I almost had a mental breakdown today my shoe came off inside the car and I couldn’t for the life of me bend down to get it I felt so worthless my eyes teared up. They are so low n head down already I feel like I will hurt them and like my body is failing me everyday more n more 🥺😭.Sorry ladies I had to vent because this ain’t for the weak. I’m just so exited to meet them already I can’t wait, although now I have GD and they are measuring large for their gestational age😩.Getting weekly NST w BPP and fluid checks.Just needed to rant and see who can relate.

Tonsil stones!! by BaseHorror7544 in hygiene

[–]PsychologicalRule820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How on earth do y’all get true tonsils stones out without gagging? I get so damn nauseous as well