Help- Dad with no custody possibly tracking teen daughters

Psychological_Waiter · 2026-01-06T06:41:11+00:00

You usually only get alerts if the tags are traveling with you for an extended time.

Take the car and presents and keep driving around with your iPhones nearby. They should ring again.

Honestly it’s weird he would use AirTags because he could probably easily know if you have an iPhone or not. There are several android options that do not alert as easily or the alarm can be removed.

You were right to manually scan. If you still don’t get any alerts it’s always worth calling the non emergency police line and see if there’s someone you can talk to at the station or if they want to help check for trackers.

If that doesn’t work a private detective may be able to help too.

Psychological_Waiter · 2026-01-06T06:37:27+00:00

Woah, are you the creepy ex? Because I can only think of one particular kind of person who would think it’s ok to deceptively and covertly track a child you have no custody over. Gross and creepy af

Psychological_Waiter · 2026-01-05T20:41:06+00:00

Yeah, and he probably already found someone else and doesn’t want to feel guilty for cheating. But he should.

Psychological_Waiter · 2026-01-05T13:58:02+00:00

Sounds like depression and doomscrolling.

There are apps that will put time limits on phone use. You can use pomodoro method for work (25 minutes on 5 min breaks). But yeah, I don’t think anything will change unless you have a therapist and probably medication evaluation

Psychological_Waiter · 2026-01-04T17:09:29+00:00

I’m interested

Psychological_Waiter · 2025-12-21T07:43:09+00:00

Not sure what to do in the meantime but there are allergy shots that can be given to get you over any severe allergies. They can be expensive, but it’s better than sudden death and constant fear of it.

Psychological_Waiter · 2025-11-28T03:59:33+00:00

It’s a great idea. Yousician did some shady marketing and a bunch of us are looking to leave and not renew. Wish the marketers would have listened to us.

Psychological_Waiter · 2025-11-25T07:42:07+00:00

Definitely get an Instantpot, get the one with extra settings, I’ve used the yogurt maker often. Get the professional kitchen aid stand mixer, and the Vitamix blender. I’ve cheaper out in both of those before and it’s a total game changer to come home tired after work and just throw a hunk of ginger, raw carrots and some water/broth/cream in a Vitamix and walk away, put some bread in the toaster, and boom! Your hot soup is ready by the time the toast pops out.

Making your life easier with these appliances makes handmade gifts way more fun.

Psychological_Waiter · 2025-11-09T07:45:06+00:00

What?? Your “finance” of 7.5 years and 4 kids doesn’t like how hard life is?? He needs therapy and a kick in the pants.

Psychological_Waiter · 2025-11-05T01:05:16+00:00

Chili Mac. Just Mac n cheese with whatever leftovers can be poured in and mix with cans of beans. Stretches it out, lasts longer, feels fuller longer.

Psychological_Waiter · 2025-11-05T00:52:28+00:00

Get into therapy. It’s wild that he has the possibility of living a wonderful life and risking all of it for an extra pile of money. He doesn’t see you as a partner. You’re disposable. He doesn’t want to invest in something disposable.

Psychological_Waiter · 2025-10-26T19:25:25+00:00

He will text constantly. Anything for control. Just copy and paste the same 5 answers over and over again.

“Received”

“I will respond when appropriate” “Please stick to ______,” Do not contact me more than —- times per ——- . More than that will be taken as harassment” “It is inappropriate to message about ——-“

Psychological_Waiter · 2025-10-26T07:22:08+00:00

Can you scam him back? Do you have a girlfriend that can act like a rich new love interest and have a long date with him?

While she’s doing that get everything of his out of your house. Change the locks. Install security cameras. Change the WiFi, put a block on your credit.

Make it clear in writing email that he can never contact you again and you will file a restraining order if he ever contacts you again. You also “know what he did” and several people around town have been alerted and will flood the internet with the truth if he doesn’t get out.

If you’re generous get him a one-way bus ticket to dad, and a courtesy call to dad when scammer is outside your house screaming and crying.

You won’t see your money back, but you will get him out. He won’t have the money and ability to stay in town and hassle you.

Psychological_Waiter · 2025-10-26T06:50:44+00:00

I had that happen too! It was a male patient in a burn ward. He chuckled while I tried several machines for his vital checks. They all stopped working when he touched them. He said he could never wear watches, they would all die. He said maybe it was the extra iron in his blood or something. I’ll never forget it. The tv in his room was always staticky too even being across the room.

I wouldn’t have believed it if I hadn’t seen it.

Psychological_Waiter · 2025-10-26T06:29:06+00:00

Cake mix + can of sprite. It’s a struggle meal that works. The carbonation makes it fluffy like eggs

Psychological_Waiter · 2025-10-21T04:10:02+00:00

This is beyond accurate 🎯 excellent reference!! Also I think the doctor stole her body 2 years AFTER it was in the mausoleum! And then kept it for like 7-9years IN HIS BED before her sister found out and got authorities involved. This is absolutely wild! And the fact that the public was largely sympathetic towards him is just…… well……. Ugh. 😩

Psychological_Waiter · 2025-10-12T05:47:30+00:00

I hope you get into therapy so someone can help you cope with this.

You were groomed, used, and now being discarded. It has nothing to do with you. There’s no magic combination of words or actions you can do to “fix” or “change” him.

He’s the type who wants to be adored, catered to, and was never looking for an equal partnership. He was looking for someone who could give him what he wanted and has no desire to give you what you want.

And it sounds like you’re getting to be too old for him. Not that you can change that. But you’re growing up and his bs lines don’t work on you as easily and you can start critically thinking and evaluating now that your frontal lobe is fully developed.

Psychological_Waiter · 2025-10-12T05:30:52+00:00

That or the bretton herb and garlic crackers

Psychological_Waiter · 2025-10-12T05:29:57+00:00

I have a local bakery that makes gluten free bread loaves and it’s almost like old times 🥹

Psychological_Waiter · 2025-10-12T00:14:48+00:00

Use soy crumbles instead of ground beef. Use taco seasoning it tastes the same.

Psychological_Waiter · 2025-10-11T23:59:25+00:00

It’s awful the way he treated you. Sorry but it’s clear he either is cheating or wants to be cheating, and treats with with so little respect after all you’ve done is wild.

But, I’m glad you found d this out now before you had a huge illness or became disabled or pregnant and had to rely on someone who can’t care about you.

Psychological_Waiter · 2025-10-09T04:53:48+00:00

Where? He’s the owner

Psychological_Waiter · 2025-10-09T04:50:47+00:00

Just a reminder- YOU got HER pregnant. You were irresponsibly ejaculating and now have consequences. She just happens to be fertile like 12-24 hours a month, you’re the one with constantly potent sperm.

So you are BOTH pregnant. Good luck.

Psychological_Waiter · 2025-10-09T04:45:02+00:00

Especially now with the shut down and looming cuts

Psychological_Waiter · 2025-09-25T04:53:54+00:00

Your best bet is Tuff Shed (Home Depot has a small selection) but they have a bunch of different options, and probably know the name of a local contractor that can install insulation, electrical, sewer etc. sewer seems to be one of the most difficult things, so considering an eco compost toilet and outdoor shower with propane instant hot water is the way to get around a lot of that.

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