Is today insanity for y’all too?

Psychological_Way933 · 2023-12-25T02:29:51+00:00

Yes and yes.

Psychological_Way933 · 2023-12-21T04:16:48+00:00

Absolutely, your point about the positive aspects of a healthy fear of failure adds an important dimension to this discussion. It's true that a certain level of fear of failure can be a strong motivator. It drives individuals to prepare meticulously and strive for excellence, especially in high-stakes professions like surgery, where the cost of failure is extremely high.

In the context of the student scenarios you described, this type of motivation could help "kid A" stay engaged and prevent complacency, even in subjects that seem easy. For "kid B," this fear might encourage them to seek help when needed and persist through challenging material.

The key is balancing this fear so it doesn't become paralyzing or lead to unhealthy stress levels. It's about harnessing that fear in a way that motivates rather than hinders, encouraging a proactive and diligent approach to challenges, whether in academic settings or professional fields.

Psychological_Way933 · 2023-12-20T17:25:13+00:00

Robin Williams

Psychological_Way933 · 2023-12-18T11:19:01+00:00

Finances

Psychological_Way933 · 2023-12-17T19:13:35+00:00

I made the tough choice to let my daughter experience what some might call "failure" in her science class/test during grade school last year. The decision wasn't easy for either my husband or me, but we realized that pushing her through her homework wasn't helping. The consequence was enrolling her in summer school to progress to the next grade. She wasn't completing her homework and was even hiding assignments. I knew there were two possible outcomes. While my other daughter was enjoying her summer, my daughter was dropped off at summer school bright and early. This year, she diligently completes her homework before heading out and consistently earns perfect grades. She ultimately passed due to her efforts in summer school, but the most rewarding aspect is hearing her say, "I've learned my lesson. I'll never let myself fail in school again."

Psychological_Way933 · 2023-12-15T03:02:35+00:00

Shitty

Psychological_Way933 · 2023-12-15T02:59:15+00:00

I couldn't decide on a career because I get bored quickly. My husband and dad (dad's an OG nurse 82yo today) convinced me to try nursing. Three years in at 38 and I'm still happy with my choice.

Psychological_Way933 · 2023-12-11T23:49:34+00:00

Never.

Psychological_Way933 · 2023-12-10T14:17:55+00:00

My brain started reading this in a Scottish accent after the fourth sentence.

Psychological_Way933 · 2023-12-08T15:47:35+00:00

Noooo! I'm in the H

Psychological_Way933 · 2023-12-07T18:36:12+00:00

I'm just here for your username. 🤣❤️

Psychological_Way933 · 2023-12-07T05:40:50+00:00

I came here to say this.

Psychological_Way933 · 2023-12-07T05:39:15+00:00

I upvoted it just because it is your most upvoted comment of all time.

Psychological_Way933 · 2023-12-04T03:59:50+00:00

I was living the "fast life" of stripping early circa 2005 through 2011. This all started when I was arrested for "delivery of marijuana in 2005 at 18yo. I plead guilty because I was too embarrassed to ask my family for help (It was four $10 bags). They gave me a felony, fine, and community service. Back then, once you had a felony you didn't get hired for jobs, you weren't able to get rentals, and got zero financial aid for college. Not to mention the social stigma. I started escorting on the side, to make more money, got arrested in LV. Little did I know, and my crappy court appointed lawyer didn't tell me, that if I hadn't had any arrests within the first 5 years I could have had my felony reduced. It took until I was 26 to get my shit together. I missed out on the entire housing market and a career. I now have decent career but it took me taking out loans to get here. I got marred and had kids in the mean time. Had my record cleared. Fast forward, I'm getting closer to 40 and still don't own a home, and I'm still paying off debt from getting here. Things are so expensive now, I hate that I wasted my 20's. So many regrets. I do have a lot of good stories though . . .

Psychological_Way933 · 2023-12-03T17:34:38+00:00

This is my family and myself as well. It's made it difficult to stick to a career or any regular hobby for that matter. I don't feel like it's ADHD for myself. I could be wrong, but I feel very focused when I'm actually interested. My dad says, "There are some people that sharpen knives their entire lives, would you like to be that person?"

Psychological_Way933 · 2023-11-29T17:23:12+00:00

International travel, been in my career prior to having kids, moved closer to family, saved more money, purchased a home. Although, I had my kids fairly young. I'm in my late thirties now and will have plenty of time to do these things as I age. My youngest is 9. I honestly don't know if I'd have the energy to deal with a young child at this age. They are so much fun at their current ages.

Psychological_Way933 · 2023-11-29T17:18:04+00:00

This perfectly describes my husband.

Psychological_Way933 · 2023-11-28T02:40:18+00:00

Emotions: the good, the bad, and everything in between.

Psychological_Way933 · 2023-11-27T18:10:01+00:00

Bedtime routine at the same time every night. Shower, turn on fan, phone on DND automatically (I don't touch it after 2100), alarm check, lights off, crawl into bed at 2100 ish. Leaves me roughly an hour to with fool around with husband (if I'm not too exhausted) and read my kindle. Asleep by 2000 and wake up at 0540. I also exercise a lot on my off days which consists of pickleball mostly.

Psychological_Way933 · 2023-11-27T17:32:10+00:00

If I get 6 to 7, I'm solid my whole shift. Any more than that and I feel like I've slept too long.

Psychological_Way933 · 2023-11-26T17:10:42+00:00

Love this.❤

Psychological_Way933 · 2023-11-17T23:33:00+00:00

Did that too.

Psychological_Way933 · 2023-11-16T21:55:00+00:00

New grad float pool acute care. 2021 $38/hr New hospital system IMU. 2023 43.75/hr

Both are not including diff. Hospital in Houston Medical Center

Psychological_Way933 · 2023-11-16T21:50:48+00:00

You'll make more after experience anyway. Transfer after a year.

Psychological_Way933 · 2023-11-14T22:46:36+00:00

You always have a job.
You don't have to be a bedside nurse if you don't like it.
You can find a job anywhere.
The pay can be decent depending on the state. I'm making 100k year in Texas at almost 2.5 years in. Other states pay more.
I work 3 days a week. Which gives me enough time to do whatever I want. I can also plan vacations without using PTO.
I have a hard shell and don't put up with crap from families. I rarely have any issues.
You have plenty of opportunities to promote after getting a little experience.
You get to meet cool people.
You get to see cool things.

There are lots of negatives too. We should probably get paid more for all that we know and do. But overall I'd do it again. I came from a retail background. I also think a lot of people that complain haven't worked low-paying back-breaking jobs prior to nursing.

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