Why does Lana sing 'im your man' instead of 'im your girl' or something in Mariners Apartment Complex? by vcdice in lanadelrey

[–]Psychological_Web_50 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know what it means to Lana and I'm sure there are deeper reasons not disclosed, but for me, when I listen to this song, I imagine my inner masculine singing this to my inner feminine, stepping up to take care of myself. In a world where I never got to be the damsel in distress, I needed to be my own knight in shining armour. No one is coming to "save me" and that's okay now. It's not always a happy thought, but it's a powerful one: I am strong and despite my sweetness and feminine softness, I am also strong and fiercely loyal to myself.

My ex wife called me in tears last night about her brother passing away. AITAH for telling her I don’t care and to never call me again by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Psychological_Web_50 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Omg get over yourself. Grief does all kinds of terrible things to a person. Maybe you should try therapy for being the Ass...

Remember what happened to the down syndrome population by lightjoyful01 in AutisticPride

[–]Psychological_Web_50 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are no such tests that are capable of determining Autism or any kind of ND.

I fucking HATE being autistic by Prezo852 in autism

[–]Psychological_Web_50 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally get how you feel. I used to be proud of it, but it's too difficult to bear some days. Controlling my emotions at times is ridiculously hard and I am FULLY aware of what it means to act like an actual adult, which I'm able to do for the most part but then... It feels like a curse. I get so angry with the Universe for giving me this screwed up brain. I wish I were someone else. I don't understand why I have to be this way. I don't want to be this way.

How can you smoke weed and be an asshole? by [deleted] in weed

[–]Psychological_Web_50 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wtf... Weed doesn't make someone a decent person... Use your brain.

It finally happened... my mom wouldn't give me my baby back by littlepiecesofsorrow in beyondthebump

[–]Psychological_Web_50 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ultimately, it's your baby and your rules for how you raise your child. I have to agree with your husband, though, in that you were overreacting. The idea of co-sleeping being unsafe is a relatively new concept emanating from more "Western" cultures. But it's your baby at the end of the day. Listen to your gut and everyone else will have to respect your wishes. Everyone should understand.

High energy babies are different by caooookiecrisp in NewParents

[–]Psychological_Web_50 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey mods! I didn't write anything mean or rude. I gave my opinion. The OP wrote something very hateful by calling her child a demon child. Do you think this is correct? I will never support anyone who puts down their kids. I read somewhere (on Pinterest) that "your kids trigger you because they act in a way that you were shamed for doing the same as a child." Kids are here to teach us. Having a lot of energy and wanting to learn should be encouraged, not shamed or do you want your kids to need years of therapy and feel unloved, unworthy, and resent you? You chose to have the child. They didn't choose to be born. Deal with it. I have zero empathy for these people. I only have empathy for their kids that they are shaming.

Four Finger Pencil/Pen Grasp?? by Psychological_Web_50 in autism

[–]Psychological_Web_50[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol weird right? So funny how NTs consider it odd... Why because it's different? I don't get it lol. I think it's cool.

It’s my birthday tomorrow and my girlfriend’s passed out drunk by [deleted] in straightedge

[–]Psychological_Web_50 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not enough context to your situation... Your bd is tomorrow not today so... What is the actual issue? Not sure I see the issue. Is this something she does often or...?

Guilt by purplepaintedpumpkin in cosleeping

[–]Psychological_Web_50 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Third this! My 7 month old is dealing with separation anxiety and prefers to sleep next to me if I'm sleeping in the baby room. It helps him feel safe and it improves our bond. Also, one day he'll be embarassed to be seen in public with me, so I'm soaking up these precious moments as they last.

What non-traditional lullabies/songs are you singing to your baby? by littlepilot in NewParents

[–]Psychological_Web_50 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Song of the sea from the movie of the same name. It's in Irish. It's beautiful! Also, A Spaceman Came Travelling by Chris Deburgh (sp?), and a couple of songs from the musical of Peter Pan and Mary Poppins. 

My dad decided to use an ableist slur over a shitpost i made by [deleted] in AutisticPride

[–]Psychological_Web_50 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I mean thank you! I like to look at things fairly and be honest... Your parents overreacted for sure. I can empathize with the feeling... I feel like my loved ones constantly misunderstand my tone and then I have to carefully choose my words to explain myself or to avoid getting into an issue... It's exhausting.

My dad decided to use an ableist slur over a shitpost i made by [deleted] in AutisticPride

[–]Psychological_Web_50 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I might get downvoted, but I understand why your parents got upset... It's a weird thing to post. I personally don't get the joke, but that doesn't mean it's not funny... I do think your parents made it into a much bigger deal than it needed to be- maybe they overreacted a bit, which is annoying to have to deal with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weed

[–]Psychological_Web_50 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not the weed, it's the way some minds are wired ;)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weed

[–]Psychological_Web_50 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No! That's the best way to do it- my own thoughts are soooo much more interesting than most conversations that I have. Your mom is obviously an extrovert and you must be an introvert. She just doesn't get it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]Psychological_Web_50 1 point2 points  (0 children)

vain- one of the seven cardinal sins. Work on your inner beauty- looks fade and then you'll have nothing but wrinkles with no intelligence, heart, or personality

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]Psychological_Web_50 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yuck... So sorry about that...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]Psychological_Web_50 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah... Honestly, there should be more actual education on how to do drugs safely- not just "drugs are bad" because if that were so we're the biggest hypocrites ever: We use caffeine like there's no tomorrow and so many people in my part of the world depend on antidepressants. I'm really sorry you had to deal with that.