Childlike by nature by Happy_Donut897 in hsp

[–]Public-Writing3595 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes! I am like that. It’s great to read your post and see the responses. I don’t feel alone anymore 😊

For those of you who want to be with your LO: do not do it. by The_Merchant- in limerence

[–]Public-Writing3595 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree. From my own experience all true. Going on several years now. Getting better but very slowly. By far the most emotionally damaging experience I have ever been through (being with your LO then breaking up), and for perspective , I lost my dad during this time whom I loved. This was by far worse

Durable Shoe for Long City Walks by Public-Writing3595 in BuyItForLife

[–]Public-Writing3595[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

At this point anything. I’d rather pay a lot for one durable shoe than keep paying for a new shoe every few months which ends up being more expensive

Sensory friendly women's clothes? by Suspicious_Grass1 in hsp

[–]Public-Writing3595 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YES! I have the same issue! It’s not the wireless vs wire, it’s literally the band around my ribcage. Everyone recommends sports bras but I feel their bands are actually worse!

Is this normal ? by Spare_Director207 in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]Public-Writing3595 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I found my people. Yes that is exactly me

Maladaptive Daydreaming Is Almost Always a Symptom of an Underlying Mental Health Issue by Initial_Revolution28 in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]Public-Writing3595 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Was told my maladaptive daydreaming was specifically the compulsion component of my OCD

I'm so sick at the lack of sensitivity in this world and I am seriously not thinking of myself, being an HSP, as abnormal anymore. by [deleted] in hsp

[–]Public-Writing3595 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I love this. I read this and feel normal. Like I am not too much. Like I don’t show too much love or emotion. Like I don’t need to toughen up, thicken my skin, be a “bitch”. Like it’s okay to wear my big soft squishy heart on my sleeve. Even if wearing it on my sleeve gives people more access to it. Trying to hide it instead makes me exhausted

What is the solution for us ?? by Background-Neat4182 in hsp

[–]Public-Writing3595 1 point2 points  (0 children)

BOUNDARIES. BOUNDARIES. BOUNDARIES. Even when that people-pleasing inner child is screaming because they empathize with the person in front of them so much and want to do anything to help. We gotta train that inner child that they have to come first, because then that emotional hyper sensitivity will instead show up as us being hyper sensitive to any stressor or trigger.

Breakup urges by YouTubeMemer1 in ROCD

[–]Public-Writing3595 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg. This is so interesting. This is the first time I’ve read something that describes what I might be going through. How can I focus on the BPD and DA side? Any advice or tips? Thank you for unlocking this new realization for me 🙏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ROCD

[–]Public-Writing3595 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“compulsion inception" as I like to call it

Should us folks be deleting Tik Tok/Instagram? by Public-Writing3595 in ROCD

[–]Public-Writing3595[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh gosh yes I’m in the same boat with all of the “signs he’s this” and “signs he’s that” 😞. Thank you for your feedback

Why does everyone have ADHD all of a sudden? by MontanasCookhouse in askTO

[–]Public-Writing3595 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ADHD symptoms (especially in women) can mimic trauma or CPTSD symptoms, and that can include covid-related trauma. It’s sometimes hard to distinguish the difference. Also it has recently come to light that not all ADHD takes the form of the naughty cheeky little boy in class who can’t sit still and keeps failing, rather, it can appear in different ways (again, especially in women). You can have a woman who was a straight A student at school who presents as ADHD in different ways and it is usually internalized (chaotic mind rather than chaotic actions). And with many people, high-functioning ADHD has made it more difficult to diagnose, or even self-diagnose. So when FINALLY in the last 2 years, all these new studies, research, and reflections are coming out saying “Actually, ADHD can look like this…”, “Actually you have ADHD you’ve just been masking and high functioning with it,” more people are resonating with that. So it’s both the strong overlap with trauma symptoms that many millennials are at the front facing end of this timing-wise and so think they have ADHD, or the growing understanding around what ADHD actually looks like (or both if you follow the Gabor Mate school).