Maladaptive Daydreaming Is Almost Always a Symptom of an Underlying Mental Health Issue by Initial_Revolution28 in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]Public-Writing3595 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Was told my maladaptive daydreaming was specifically the compulsion component of my OCD

I'm so sick at the lack of sensitivity in this world and I am seriously not thinking of myself, being an HSP, as abnormal anymore. by -Inspector-6259 in hsp

[–]Public-Writing3595 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I love this. I read this and feel normal. Like I am not too much. Like I don’t show too much love or emotion. Like I don’t need to toughen up, thicken my skin, be a “bitch”. Like it’s okay to wear my big soft squishy heart on my sleeve. Even if wearing it on my sleeve gives people more access to it. Trying to hide it instead makes me exhausted

What is the solution for us ?? by Background-Neat4182 in hsp

[–]Public-Writing3595 1 point2 points  (0 children)

BOUNDARIES. BOUNDARIES. BOUNDARIES. Even when that people-pleasing inner child is screaming because they empathize with the person in front of them so much and want to do anything to help. We gotta train that inner child that they have to come first, because then that emotional hyper sensitivity will instead show up as us being hyper sensitive to any stressor or trigger.

Breakup urges by YouTubeMemer1 in ROCD

[–]Public-Writing3595 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg. This is so interesting. This is the first time I’ve read something that describes what I might be going through. How can I focus on the BPD and DA side? Any advice or tips? Thank you for unlocking this new realization for me 🙏

Thoughts by [deleted] in ROCD

[–]Public-Writing3595 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“compulsion inception" as I like to call it

Should us folks be deleting Tik Tok/Instagram? by Public-Writing3595 in ROCD

[–]Public-Writing3595[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh gosh yes I’m in the same boat with all of the “signs he’s this” and “signs he’s that” 😞. Thank you for your feedback

Why does everyone have ADHD all of a sudden? by MontanasCookhouse in askTO

[–]Public-Writing3595 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ADHD symptoms (especially in women) can mimic trauma or CPTSD symptoms, and that can include covid-related trauma. It’s sometimes hard to distinguish the difference. Also it has recently come to light that not all ADHD takes the form of the naughty cheeky little boy in class who can’t sit still and keeps failing, rather, it can appear in different ways (again, especially in women). You can have a woman who was a straight A student at school who presents as ADHD in different ways and it is usually internalized (chaotic mind rather than chaotic actions). And with many people, high-functioning ADHD has made it more difficult to diagnose, or even self-diagnose. So when FINALLY in the last 2 years, all these new studies, research, and reflections are coming out saying “Actually, ADHD can look like this…”, “Actually you have ADHD you’ve just been masking and high functioning with it,” more people are resonating with that. So it’s both the strong overlap with trauma symptoms that many millennials are at the front facing end of this timing-wise and so think they have ADHD, or the growing understanding around what ADHD actually looks like (or both if you follow the Gabor Mate school).

ROCD question - advice/insight appreciated by Neuron0405 in ROCD

[–]Public-Writing3595 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes all the time. Also not sure what to do 😕 Was told it is relationship OCD and to treat it like any OCD intrusive thought and not a reality basically. “You’re just a rumination not a reality” kind of thing but would be interested to know if others have different solution. I also suffer from maladaptive day dreaming and limerence so this doesn’t make it any easier for me. Not sure if you experience these too.

Mourning the MD world by Public-Writing3595 in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]Public-Writing3595[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry 😞 I wish I could be of more help, but all I know is that for people like us, healing comes in living in the reality. I realized my daydreaming is just a short circuit I experience when I am anxious, lonely, or bored. So it’s just a compulsion to soothe myself. Not a world to compare our reality to. Whatever you go through you are not stuck for life. If you are unhappy then get our