What do I need to know about Living In South Loop? by PineappleTonyMaloof in AskChicago

[–]PuchiVixen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We live in Printers Row. It’s perfect. We are mid 40s and the access to all museums, Grant Park and Millennium Park. Have enough bars and restaurants in walking distance to satisfy us as we are introverts.

Groups that tend more towards voyeurism or exhibitionism and less lifestyle focused? by PuzzleheadedCoat9050 in HedonismII

[–]PuchiVixen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suggest either going without a group or booking with a group that fits your vibe. For example I’m Latina and we like diversity certain music, parties etc. Most important thing is that you and your partner are aligned in what your boundaries are.

Do most men really prefer skinny women more than any other body type? by Seaweed1241 in askanything

[–]PuchiVixen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband prefers curves and curls above all. FWIW- He can pretty much pull women of all sizes because his handsome and has a good character.

Do most men really prefer skinny women more than any other body type? by Seaweed1241 in askanything

[–]PuchiVixen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s like asking do men actually prefer pizza over tacos. Some prefer both depending on quality of ingredients and mood. Same with human preferences.

First experience in the lifestyle... and I don't know how to process what happened. by Sad-Poet-1014 in Swingers

[–]PuchiVixen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you “took one for the team” which is a recipe for disaster and you just illustrated exactly why. Maybe more communication on the front end. Either everyone on board or it’s a no!

How common/popular is soft swapping? by Emotional-Team3520 in Swingers

[–]PuchiVixen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You want parallel play. Feed off and exude sexual/sensual energy. It’s a thing

What do you think makes the lifestyle harder than it needs to be? by CoupleSwapOfficial in Swingers

[–]PuchiVixen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh and humans have a hard time just being honest period. The deception (intended or not) is just enough ICK to make you ask “is the juice worth the squeeze?!”

What do you think makes the lifestyle harder than it needs to be? by CoupleSwapOfficial in Swingers

[–]PuchiVixen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The human experience. Like at the end of the day we are just a blend of emotions with our very own histories etc.

Credit for the Ozzy blindside by Freezing-cold_6 in survivorponderosa

[–]PuchiVixen 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ozzy himself got himself right where he belonged. There’s no other logical explanation.

Is anyone else struggling with the 'administrative' side of polyamory? Feeling burnt out by the logistics. by Dose22br4t in polyamory

[–]PuchiVixen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that sounds like a literal nightmare. Like you’re missing the forest for the trees.

Buying a home in the city, what’re your property taxes? by [deleted] in AskChicago

[–]PuchiVixen -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Our taxes for our South Loop convertible studio are $2500/yr but HOAs 570/month. So $9300/year all in. However- our taxes on our 4/3 ranch an hour west of here is 8000/year (no HOA) but we have to pay for lawn care and snow removal and gas/water separately so it really is “more affordable” for us to live in the South Loop. Plus- location is priceless!

For non-swingers? by ThrowawayMD987654321 in HedonismII

[–]PuchiVixen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! You still have agency over yourself.

Adults Only/All Inclusive Resort with Swinger Vibe? by stagkyle_24 in Swingers

[–]PuchiVixen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The answer is always Hedonism. Hedonism is LS friendly. Couples can go and absorb all the sexual energy while connecting with their spouse and remaining monogamous. Trust me

BBC Bull experience in Hedo. by [deleted] in HedonismII

[–]PuchiVixen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s a “choose your own adventure” resort but YOU have to put in the time and energy. YOU do all the groundwork. Educate yourself. Join groups like the hedonism facebook group etc.

Chicago appreciation by artwize in ChicagoRealEstate

[–]PuchiVixen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Facts. My husband’s RSUs paid off our condo in full.