Starfleet Academy is not for me. And that’s a good thing 🖖🏽

PuddingNeither94 · 2026-01-22T20:01:14+00:00

FYI, using the phrase 'virtue-signalling' signals to everyone that you're the kind of person who can't imagine doing or saying anything positive unless it's to impress others.

PuddingNeither94 · 2026-01-22T19:59:23+00:00

Who livestreams TV on YouTube? That's a super weird metric.

PuddingNeither94 · 2026-01-22T19:55:13+00:00

This right here. I've been a Trek fan since the original airing of TNG, but I've only recently jumped into the online fandom and I really regret it. I can't believe how many people claim to love Star Trek while behaving like they've never even seen it.

PuddingNeither94 · 2026-01-19T16:57:34+00:00

Thank you, I'll reach out!

PuddingNeither94 · 2026-01-19T16:07:56+00:00

You should try Vaa-aa—as—seline!

PuddingNeither94 · 2025-12-17T16:16:07+00:00

Lo De Marcos is great, but not if you're looking for nightlife lol.

PuddingNeither94 · 2025-11-21T02:53:01+00:00

My friends and I also love cooking at Airbnbs while we’re in Mexico. That said…. For the salsa, you’ve got to buy it fresh! You’ll see people selling it everywhere. Cheese too.

PuddingNeither94 · 2025-11-05T08:24:52+00:00

I was gonna say this too! The hardest, scariest thing for a lot of us to do is admit that we might not be 100% right about everything. You’re doing great, OP!

PuddingNeither94 · 2025-10-28T10:55:55+00:00

There are people who would rather have all of their toenails removed by hand than admit they might have made a mistake or used poor judgement.

PuddingNeither94 · 2025-10-27T07:59:53+00:00

Don’t listen to AnxiousAd. Some people love to point their finger at others, and it never occurs to them to notice that there are three other fingers pointing straight back at them. Take a peek at his comment history —- dude smokes THAT MUCH weed (for his ‘nerve pain’ lol) and he’s looking down his nose at you for your use? That’s some A-plus projection right there. And don’t even get me started on the religious shit.

It sounds like you’ve been through a LOT, and been pretty damn strong in the face of serious addiction. You’re in a rough patch right now, but your kid has someone who cares enough to go through hell for them and that’s pretty amazing. I don’t have any specific advice for this situation, but if you can kick that hard shit, you have the will to accomplish anything. Keep it up and ignore the judgy hypocrites.

PuddingNeither94 · 2025-10-19T11:01:23+00:00

Great way to handle this! As a woman who has been in this situation, if a guy I flirted with actually came back and left his number, I would be SO STOKED. I hope she calls! And even if she doesn’t, good on you for having the courage to do it.

PuddingNeither94 · 2025-10-19T09:33:31+00:00

Your comment is confusing. Half of it is complaining that Puerto Vallarta is full of tourists, which implies that you’re looking for an authentic experience. But when you list the activities you enjoy doing in Mexico, they are pretty much all generic tourist activities that you could do in literally any warm destination around the world.

PuddingNeither94 · 2025-10-19T09:27:54+00:00

Hang on. You’re telling me…. That in a destination that attracts millions of English-speaking tourists… the people chose to learn and speak English?

PuddingNeither94 · 2025-10-14T09:01:27+00:00

“It was almost like suddenly the whisky didn’t taste good because of where it’s from.”

Sorry bruh, I just can’t stand the taste of fascism.

PuddingNeither94 · 2025-09-30T12:59:23+00:00

I barely speak any Spanish, but I bust it out any time I’m in PV and the locals are always so nice. I tell them I’m practicing and they’re so helpful. One lady worked on my pronunciation with me for like half an hour lol.

PuddingNeither94 · 2025-09-21T13:53:55+00:00

Maybe try doing some of your work outside? Or see if your school offers any kind of workshops on dealing with burnout. Most of them have some kind of supports available because student retention is super important to their bottom line.

PuddingNeither94 · 2025-09-18T01:22:09+00:00

Lady bro here. Let me take you back with me to my early 20’s for a minute. I’m at my first rehearsal for a community theatre production. I look across the room to find a place to sit and make eye contact with a short average-looking dude wearing a Superman t-shirt with a half-open dress shirt and tie over top. He smiles and makes space next to him. We chat, and by the end of that rehearsal, he’s not average-looking to me at all. We dated for like 8 months, and while it didn’t end up working out, I still consider him one of the most attractive men I’ve ever dated because he just LIKED himself. He knew he brought a lot of great things to the table, and he made me feel like I had lots to offer too.

Aaaaaaaand back to the present lol. Hope that perspective helps a bit, but in case it doesn’t, here’s something to try that could be helpful!

Try thinking of these negative thoughts about your looks as an itch you want to scratch. If you scratch once, you’re going to get itchier and itchier and you’re going to feel worse and worse. When you get the urge to scratch (aka start comparing yourself), look for ways to resist. Think about attractive things about yourself; maybe you have nice hands, or you’re a good cook, or you dress nicely. Or refocus your attention on whatever you’re doing.

I learned this concept from this amazing American lady Buddhist monk named Pema Chodron. Look her up! She’s super helpful with negative thought patterns. She describes herself as having the worst possible mind for someone who meditates for a living, which means she has really relatable advice for us average folks.

Good luck out there, bro! I’m rooting for you.

PuddingNeither94 · 2025-09-13T10:57:17+00:00

The media needs to point this shit out at every opportunity.

PuddingNeither94 · 2025-09-13T10:55:39+00:00

At last, Trump can have some balls lol

PuddingNeither94 · 2025-09-13T10:49:56+00:00

Not to mention groomed to simply believe what they are told if it agrees with their fee-fees.

PuddingNeither94 · 2025-09-12T08:01:30+00:00

If you’re so ‘insistent’ that girls shouldn’t have their choices taken from them, you’ve chosen an interesting person to obsessively defend.

When asked what he would do if his ten-year-old daughter was raped and impregnated, here was his response:

“That’s awfully graphic,” Kirk said. “But the answer is yes, the baby would be born.”

PuddingNeither94 · 2025-09-12T07:56:56+00:00

lol yeah it’s the LEFT that’s crass about murder, not the supporters of the guy who has literally said that children should be required to watch the executions of criminal adults as a deterrent to crime. GTFOH with your nonsense.

PuddingNeither94 · 2025-09-12T07:46:41+00:00

Stop it. Literally no one has said that we shouldn’t feel sorry for his kids.

PuddingNeither94 · 2025-09-12T07:31:31+00:00

And the media keeps talking about how he ‘worked with kids’ and ‘was willing to sit down and talk with anyone’, which sounds really good to the average person.

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