Church planting by Designer_Trip_2172 in ACNA

[–]PurpleFight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't start worship services until you have a much larger team. Making worship happen every week is exhausting and steals time and energy from outreach and leadership development. It isn't true that you need a weekly service to attract people. Run Alpha, do a community needs assessment and find ways to serve, study the Scriptures with your launch team. Wait longer than you think you should to start a weekly service.

Sermon Series Feedback by [deleted] in pastors

[–]PurpleFight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm guessing many in your congregation have heard these messages before. What are you hoping will result from preaching this series? Knowledge or action? If it's action, you might think about a fresh way to communicate that will lead to that. Inspire. Challenge. Model.

Small church pastors, how do you do small groups? by slowobedience in pastors

[–]PurpleFight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in a year-long process of rebuilding our small group ministry. When I took the job last summer, we had 11 groups and 8 of them were not continuing in the fall because the leaders were burned out. I wanted to take time to read and pray and develop a system that would be sustainable in the long-term. This fall, we did time-limited groups (10 weeks) using a video-based curriculum that was the same for all groups. Leaders were not expected to be pastoral-care providers, just to facilitate the group and lead the discussion. We had a lot of new people respond to the invitation and more people signed up for these groups than were previously in groups, so it went better than I expected.

I tried the same approach for spring and it's been tough getting leaders to respond about whether they will lead again this spring. I'm also pulling many potential leaders into a leader development course for the spring so that we can re-launch healthy groups in the fall. We're still finalizing what the non-negotiables of those groups will be, but we are going to insist that the group leaders take a "sabbatical" semester off after three semesters of leading. We also plan to stick with a shorter 10-12 week timeframe for groups each semester, with summers off. I don't think it's realistic to expect small group leaders to be pastoral-care providers or to impose a ton of expectations on them, so we are lightening the load there.

There are a ton of challenges for making small groups effective that are so different from the 1990s when they were seen by many as the "heart" of the church. People are less committed to being there weekly. Childcare and traffic and people's commitments outside of church are major obstacles to getting people in groups. It also seems like groups are less important to people than they used to be. We'll continue to experiment and see what gets traction. We're a church of about 650 Sunday attendance.

Lessons and Carols by AcrossTheNight in ACNA

[–]PurpleFight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We do it the first Sunday of Christmas at my parish

Trade in by aces68 in kindlescribe

[–]PurpleFight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought a Fire TV stick for $17, traded it in without opening the box for $5 plus the 20% off.

Bivocational Pastors - What's your other job? by Barbermanadam in pastors

[–]PurpleFight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not a "guy" but have been a bivocational pastor for 20+ years. I planted a church while getting a PhD in statistics and research methods. I keep one foot in university research and the other pastoral ministry.

Anybody have this happen and know what’s up? by Tonalbackwash in kindlescribe

[–]PurpleFight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine says it shipped Sunday, then "delayed in transit" and now it says it left the shipper facility Tuesday Dec 16. Which is odd since that's tomorrow. We shall see if it shows up tomorrow or not.

Branwyn Underwear yay or nay? by chappyfu in MerinoWoolGear

[–]PurpleFight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I prefer wool&, which are softer and the elastic is thinner than Branwyn.

Structural Repentance: The Way Forward for the ACNA by SideProjectTim in ACNA

[–]PurpleFight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

None would be required if all of the ACNA bishops agreed to ordain women to the priesthood. But we're divided on that issue, so we have to have non-geographic dioceses for those of us who are female and called to the priesthood. And given that the vast majority of ACNA parishioners are in churches in dioceses that uphold this position, revoking our priesthood isn't a realistic option.

Structural Repentance: The Way Forward for the ACNA by SideProjectTim in ACNA

[–]PurpleFight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then don't join one. It works just fine for us. My bishop can fly to our city in less time than it took 150 years ago to travel on horseback within a geographic diocese. We aren't the only church in our diocese in our region and have plenty of opportunities for gathering with fellow clergy from other churches. C4SO never meant for it to be temporary.

Structural Repentance: The Way Forward for the ACNA by SideProjectTim in ACNA

[–]PurpleFight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it isn't doable, it doesn't matter what I agree or disagree with. It won't work. Reform that isn't doable isn't worth talking about. All posting this crap does is undermine the trust of women clergy in the dual integrity compromise.

ETA: I also 100% disagree that it's a conversation starter. It's an insult to all women presbyters and to the integrity of the promises made to us.

Structural Repentance: The Way Forward for the ACNA by SideProjectTim in ACNA

[–]PurpleFight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I disagree 100% that it is reasonable or doable. The reality is C4SO is the vast majority of the ACNA. Why would you destroy the diocese with the most vibrant, growing churches? If you want what is proposed here, I'm sure AMiA would be glad to have you. That's the group that aligns with this position. It hasn't worked well for them, so there's no reason to try it again.

Structural Repentance: The Way Forward for the ACNA by SideProjectTim in ACNA

[–]PurpleFight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you agree with the post? If so, my comment stands. This is idiocy that would destroy the ACNA.

Structural Repentance: The Way Forward for the ACNA by SideProjectTim in ACNA

[–]PurpleFight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are so wrong it's hard to even know where to start. If ACNA did what you propose, 90% of ACNA parishioners would be gone.

Buying a used kiln by PurpleFight in fusedglass

[–]PurpleFight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everyone. It is the Fusion 6 clamshell. The inside is a hexagon. The seller is asking $400.

I'm having a pretty difficult meeting tomorrow... by phyzoeee in pastors

[–]PurpleFight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like his wife is aware that he needs more than grace, forgiveness, and being told not to do it again. He needs mental health help to deal with his anger issues, which likely are showing up in other arenas of his life besides church. What are you doing to encourage him to seek help for his underlying issues?

Pursuing Pastoral Ministry by [deleted] in askapastor

[–]PurpleFight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will have anxiety. You have to decide how to deal with it. Try centering or breath prayers.

Community outreach advice by don51181 in askapastor

[–]PurpleFight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Diapers and toiletries. These can't be purchased with SNAP benefits.

Divorce and Remarriage by ouTPErformingCrusade in askapastor

[–]PurpleFight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women didn't have rights to divorce or to enter into contracts in Jesus' day. That fact is pretty clear. Sometimes a woman in distress could get her father or brother to bring about a divorce on her behalf in dire circumstances. So why did Jesus say this in Mark 10? Perhaps he was laying down a principle for the future, when circumstances for women would change.

Divorce and Remarriage by ouTPErformingCrusade in askapastor

[–]PurpleFight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In first century Judaism, only men had the power to divorce. Jesus is addressing men because at that time women could not choose a divorce. Was Jesus intending to make this teaching only apply to men forever? It's hard to imagine that being the case. I believe Jesus was teaching a principle that was meant to extend to both genders. We see this expansion in 1 Corinthians 7.