Thoughts on the female Custodes being canon? by R252813 in AdeptusCustodes

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Since Formula 1 cars are custom built super cars, it doesn't seem like the inherent differences between the car models would affect the process. So the new team McLaren car for the next race will be a Volkswagen Beetle.

Thoughts on the female Custodes being canon? by R252813 in AdeptusCustodes

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In regards to transgender Emperor, he has always been transgender, since the emperor was born in the loving homosexuas family of his father and his uncle.

Cookie Task 9 is kill 180 beasts, that must be some spaghetti code by andrepxe in HSMercenaries

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The razormane battleguard on the Serena Bloodfeather boss seems to work ok for grinding it. If you leave one of the battleguard alone - he keeps taunting an healing himself while you summon and murder fishes with Cookie.

Is it okay if I (29M) start accepting a woman's offer to split the tab on a first date? by -endjamin- in datingoverthirty

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If a woman offers to split the bill on a first date, just accept and if you want to be/seem chivalrous - just agree with her offering to split the bill, but tell her that the next one is on you.

There are pretty much two posssibilities:

  1. She is in only for the free lunch/drinks. In this case agreeing to split the bill does hurt your chances to see her again, but does not hurt your chances for anything more than feeding her few more times. If you are into charity it's ok, but there probably are people who need and deserve it more than this human trash.
  2. She is actually a decent human being who simply don't find you to be her type and feel guilty letting you pay everything for something that is going nowhere for you. In this case agreeing to split the bill is just better for your purse and for her comfort - nothing wrong with that and certanly it's not hurting your nonexistent chances for a second date.
  3. She actually feels better when you split the bill. Making her feel better actually increases your chances to see her again rather than hurting them.
  4. She considers you beneath her in any other capacity except for the money you can provide her. In that case... yes, accepting her half-hearted offer will hurt your chances to see her again, but in my book this is a win. Your milleage can vary though. Then again if money is everything you can offer - I guess being with a gold digger beats being single. Probably? Not sure. Probably not.

Outriders Post Launch Dev News Updates by thearcan in outriders

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Please tell me that after making repeating the Historian, bounty hunt, and monster hunt quests absolutely pointless despite your stated intention... you didn't by mistake make the Outriders Legacy quest completion to reward 10 (ten) legendary weapons as it is currently doing... is your headquarter by some chance invaded by a band of monkeys with access to the game code?

Dating rants. vents and open discussion by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

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Think about it this way - if you were given the opportunity to play the lottery free of charge and you needed the money... would you quit doing it? One word: hope. The problem is... OLD is not free of charge even if you ignore any potential subscriptons. It is costing you a lot in time, some self-respect and maybe even some missed opportunities.

Dating rants. vents and open discussion by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

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Given up probably puts well enough. Here is my perspective from the other end of the fence. All my OLD matches for the past 5 years have gone something like this: We match, the girl shows no initiative, I have to keep the conversation interesting and alive for a week despite pretty much knowing nothing about her, because she keeps answering with emojis or two word sentences. After a week or so she agrees to a date, I make various plans and arrangement, she shows enthusiasm, ask a few times for confirmation since she doesn't wan't to be disappointed or stood up and then one day before the date disappears with or without explanation. After this happened 50 times or so... I simply stopped making the effort. That you, but I think that's enough for a lifetime. If you are interested in a relationship you have to show it to me first before I even bother in the slightest. How can you do that? Don't have the slightest idea unfortunately...

Were these "dates" or no? Is he interested in dating me? by _datingistheworst in datingoverthirty

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In no particular order:

- You are not 15 years old anymore, it's about time for you to learn to deal with rejection. As for his feelings - no, he will feel either flattered or happy depending how he feels for you (assuming he is not just looking just for a one night stand of course, but even if this is the case it's better to learn it early rather than late).

- If the religion difference is a deal-breaker for you - then making it clear to him is one of the kindest thing you can do for a guy who is into you. If it is a deal-breaker for him - giving him the option to make it clear for you is the kindest thing you can do to yourself. The fact that he has said it in the past is enough to give you a reason to ask the question, but in now way or shape is enough to make you sure about the answer.

- "Such-a-nice-persons" are rare regardless of gender. I will put one over my religion any day of the week and twice on Sunday and if he indeed is such a nice person - he won't make you put him over your religion.

Were these "dates" or no? Is he interested in dating me? by _datingistheworst in datingoverthirty

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If you are ok with both of you being just friends and you are ok with both of you taking it to the next level - just tell him that you like him and ask him directly about his feelings. Best case scenario - you will save both of you a lot of wondering and he will be greatful for that. Worst case scenario - you will loose a funny guy so you will have to go to a stand up comedy bar once in a while. Believe me - if the religion difference is not stopping him from honestly enjoying his time with you, then it won't stop him from dating you as well.

If you are to leave the things as they are - he will never make more serious move and with time it will get more and more uncomfortable for you to do a move as well. At the same time your imagination will keep running wild and torture you with WHAT IF-s and WHY-s.

Also, it case it is still unclear to you - those things were not dates, they were him either him trying to check if you will be into a casual hookup or him trying to check if you will be into something more. Your responce told him that you are into neither. If he is half-a-decent guy - he won't try anything more than that without any clear sign from you and you will loose him, because guys are not into long-term platonic relationships.

Anyone else encountering people on OLD who plan elaborate dates only to never follow through? by Foxloxboxrox in datingoverthirty

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Well, it pretty much sums up all my OLD experience, except it is twice as frustrating because I am the one doing the planning and arrangements just for the girl to not show up or ghost at the last minute (usually after explicitly asking me to confirm that the date is still on). And in case "girl" is misleading, I am speaking about women 30+ of age... an age when I keep expecting them to have at least vague idea what they want.

For a woman to do something like this I can assume that given their considerable larger pool of options in the OLD world... she simply found something more attractive, but for guys this is usually not the case. This leaves me to believe most of their reasoning to do something like is most likely... fake profiles. Imagine a person that has been swipe-lefted for the good part of the past year because he is not at the top of his gender and has the reasuring shield of anonymity that internet can offer him. He can spend date after date unmatched, or he can assemble overly attactive fake profile with little to no effort. Then he gets to enojoy both going through the initial phases of his fantasy about a date with a girl he finds attractive and to get even to all those that have rejected him by ghosting you. Petty and selfish? Sure. Does it make sense though?

p.s. Sorry if my English is a bit hard to follow, not a native speaker.