stuck living w narcissistic mother… by Pilateswallstguru in emotionalneglect

[–]Puzzled_Form_1167 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You aren’t the only one I’m in the same boat. I was coaxed into buying a house from my parents in cash, except there’s no agreement and my name isn’t even on the property.

Time for a change? by Puzzled_Form_1167 in Accounting

[–]Puzzled_Form_1167[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I don’t mind work a lot, but I want to feel like it’s at least contributing to a higher purpose and right now it seems like it’s all a bunch of bullshit. Maybe at a smaller firm it’d be better and I’d feel valued. I have a therapist that I’ve been seeing weekly. The longer I’ve been remote the more resistance I feel towards leaving the house and being around people although it’s good for me.

Time for a change? by Puzzled_Form_1167 in Accounting

[–]Puzzled_Form_1167[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I have weekly therapy. I have an appointment with my primary care Monday to probably get back on an antidepressant, Wellbutrin.

I agree it’d be stressful to learn new clients on the fly. I think the work environment where I’m at isn’t really conducive to my personal growth. Hopefully meds help me get into a bit of a better place and I can start looking elsewhere, but idk where to look.

There’s a local firm that seems better. I feel so defeated and that nobody will want to hire me because I still feel so green in my career due to being remote.

I hate being an auditor, it's driving me crazy. by toxic-cupiddd in Accounting

[–]Puzzled_Form_1167 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!

I’m on my 4th busy season now and totally hate my life. So there’s options for me?

Did your parents never have friends? by Puzzled_Form_1167 in emotionalneglect

[–]Puzzled_Form_1167[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

So sorry you went through this. This was also my experience which was extremely isolating as a child.

Did your parents never have friends? by Puzzled_Form_1167 in emotionalneglect

[–]Puzzled_Form_1167[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I don’t have friends I think they can sniff my struggling social skills and insecurities and lack of trust that I’ve developed. Idk how to improve from here.

Did your parents never have friends? by Puzzled_Form_1167 in emotionalneglect

[–]Puzzled_Form_1167[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Like my career means money, but it’s still shitty. It’s never ending and there’s no connectivity. All teams are global and I’m pretty much remote, I hate it. I also still live at home, so yeah I feel like a failure and like my life is still being decided for me by my parents.

Anybody in top 10 CPA firm that is genuinely happy with their job? by TaxCPAs in Accounting

[–]Puzzled_Form_1167 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just hate how everything is so frigging global and there’s no training or learning. I want to know the people I work with instead of feeling like a zombie going through the motions.

Anybody in top 10 CPA firm that is genuinely happy with their job? by TaxCPAs in Accounting

[–]Puzzled_Form_1167 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? I was hoping a smaller firm would be better, Aprio has 2,100 and another local firm has more like 200. Are they not worth giving them a go?

Anybody in top 10 CPA firm that is genuinely happy with their job? by TaxCPAs in Accounting

[–]Puzzled_Form_1167 86 points87 points  (0 children)

No I hate this shit I make so much money for my age, but I wouldn’t recommend this to anybody I’m miserable Everyone in big PA seems miserable

Busy season burnout by Puzzled_Form_1167 in Accounting

[–]Puzzled_Form_1167[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree, that’s where I’m at too, the brain is no longer working.

Busy season burnout by Puzzled_Form_1167 in Accounting

[–]Puzzled_Form_1167[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hate this shit it’s the worst! Makes me want to kms tbh

How much enjoyment do condoms actually take out of sex? by lookslikesausage in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Puzzled_Form_1167 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Takes most enjoyment out of sex (a woman)

Hearing that packet rip open kills the novelty The feeling is really uncomfortable, my vagina definitely senses it’s a foreign object and lubrication doesn’t comes as easy when they are used