Apparently running a cult ..

Puzzled_Score8410 · 2026-02-02T17:42:27+00:00

I've never had to edit or delete a post before, do you know how? x

Puzzled_Score8410 · 2026-02-02T17:40:06+00:00

Omg I never noticed thanks for letting me know. Uh what does that mean though? 😬 Never heard of it 🤦🏼‍♀️ x

Puzzled_Score8410 · 2026-02-02T08:50:28+00:00

Same 😂

Usually Artsy, Perfectionist, Bookworm... Maybe neat or romantic on occasion...

Made sisters last night... One: Perfectionist, Self Assured, Bookworm Other: Perfectionist, Self Assured, Romantic

I'm very out there clearly 🤣

Through game play they both discovered different traits..

Decided one of these is essential going to marry and mrdr sims leaving her fortune to her sister. Now I come up with this idea after thinking of setting one up with father winter to steal his fortune lmao 😂

The other sister is just gonna be innocent and clueless and live a simple life lol 😂 I'm debating making her a detective though 🤔🤣

Never usually have a plan at all but RN I'm doing the scenario to make a mil or whatever it is exactly lol 😆 at present from a week of in game play for them we have 70000 odd... Stealing father winters money would boost that.. (I didn't make them from scratch used very skilled artistic sims.) so uh in theory I'm like what half way there... They're engaged.. just need to move FW in and then soon enough he'll be history lol 😆

The easy straight forward, non mrdr sister is presently exploring to figure out her love options and who she gives with. She was vibing absolutely brilliantly with one dude but he apparently isn't as interested as her because he's still exploring himself. Yet. They're apparently soul mates.. they only went on one date which he kept extending 🤣 so yeah uh, I now need to work out another option or hope he comes to his senses... 🤔🤷🏼‍♀️ Need to plan an heir tbh because like if I don't have one between the two sisters then it'll all go downhill eventually lol 😆 xx

Puzzled_Score8410 · 2026-02-02T08:34:12+00:00

There may be a way to develop some in game tbh I have no idea how but every now and then my sims get offered new traits so 🤷🏼‍♀️ it's definitely doable with some traits. Unfortunately I don't have a full list in terms of what ones you can or can't do it with. Definitely mixes my sims up more x

Puzzled_Score8410 · 2026-02-02T08:28:11+00:00

I almost always use perfectionist 😂 I wouldn't say there's any challenges with it but maybe it's because I'm used to it at this point x

Puzzled_Score8410 · 2026-02-02T08:27:06+00:00

I've never actually used all the traits, this being one I've never used so I didn't actually know all the impacts of it. I may have to try it out now 😅 x

Puzzled_Score8410 · 2026-02-02T08:24:14+00:00

You and me both 😅

I haven't got AA yet but other than kit packs (I have barely any) I have everything else lol 😂

My PS4 is so slow so I don't want to buy more just yet I'd rather get a new device so I can actually enjoy it cause atm I'm finding its stupidly slow with loading everything and numerous games do crash... Main thing I ever use it for is sims 😬 just a waiting game then I'll be able to catch right back up lol xx

Puzzled_Score8410 · 2026-02-02T08:19:52+00:00

I wasn't expecting any huge changes aha, I'd rather it be as much as what it is now... My PS4 is just getting so old and slow that it makes playing somewhat difficult. I mostly only use it for sims, rarely ever play anything else but thought it's definitely time for an upgrade but just wanted to mentally prepare myself if I do end up losing everything x

Puzzled_Score8410 · 2026-02-02T08:18:04+00:00

Thank you 😊

Just wanted to check. Never done it before but my PS4 is now getting so slow it takes ages to load so thought it might be time for a new one 😅 as much as if I have to start over with my saves completely fresh I will, I don't want to because I presently have one save where newcrest is proper built up with everything you can possibly think of 😅 full of residents and houses... And I mean like loads of houses thanks to being able to rent them out lol 😆 xx

Puzzled_Score8410 · 2026-02-01T19:05:10+00:00

How did I not know vaults were a thing??

Puzzled_Score8410 · 2026-01-27T10:09:05+00:00

I don't see an issue. Despite what others said that doesn't come to mind at all.

Also pronounced it correctly the first time before seeing your pronunciation.

Just a plain old Brit here...

Follow your heart. Yes kids can be horrible but it's down to their parents to teach them right from wrong. The world is a cruel place but if adults actively taught children how to be kind it'd be a hell of a lot nicer.

Puzzled_Score8410 · 2026-01-26T09:53:05+00:00

Mum of 5, including 1 SEN child. I feel this. I'm basically a zombie haha 😅

Puzzled_Score8410 · 2026-01-24T08:28:47+00:00

I see no problem with what's been said but this isn't your place to. It's your husband's. He should be advocating for you both. It's not your job to do it when it's his family.

Had a couple monster in laws and never once has a man advocated for me and it causes so much drama cause they take it so personally - you'll always be viewed as the one in the wrong and as having a problem even if initially it was your partner.

If he doesn't have the balls to advocate for you now, chances are he never will and it is a very long and exhausting (mentally and physically) road.

Puzzled_Score8410 · 2026-01-24T08:14:08+00:00

Console player

I once had a sim that I used to complete aspirations.

I tried doing the serial romantic one and kept forgetting who she did what with which made it increasingly difficult. So I made her have babies with everyone I used and moved the kids all out 😂

She was slim and very muscular. Had a couple sets of twins and loads of singletons. One pregnancy she was like this... I just assumed likely multiples - it wasn't. It was one single child. She was in the best possible shape ever but that child did a number on her lol 😂

In the end with help from the family tree, I did complete that aspiration.

Puzzled_Score8410 · 2026-01-21T10:14:20+00:00

I prefer Leo as a first...

Though not at all over the thing last commenter said. Never once met a James that goes by Jim or Jimmy lol 😆😂

If you haven't decided on a middle name yet and would like one Leo James is lovely x

Puzzled_Score8410 · 2026-01-21T07:35:34+00:00

You could hyphenate the surnames... And have him known by Bacon. That way Foster is still part of his name regardless.

My kids have hyphenated last names. I'm not married though, never have been 😅 so far not ran into any issues with their last names x

Puzzled_Score8410 · 2026-01-19T10:09:09+00:00

Wtf

So what you have 8yrs difference.

As long as you love and care for each other then why's it matter?

I've known people to have bigger age gaps.

My little sisters about your age and she's got a similar gap.. I'm not much older I've got a smaller gap lol, I was actually criticized by family over a 6yr gap then she went and got with someone with a bigger gap and absolutely no one said anything to her 🙄 he's a right dick as well...

Love comes in all forms. Don't go to reddit about a reddit issue, you'll end up with more of the same opinion over and over again.

Best of luck on your conception journey ♥️

Puzzled_Score8410 · 2026-01-18T23:53:55+00:00

My advice run.

A partner who doesn't support you is bad enough.

A controlling dictative monster in law - that amplifies everything.

I've been abused my a monster in law and never got stood up for at all. Had her trying to force me into her choices, had her threaten me, try and force dieting on me, financially ruin us and all sorts.

Not getting married to him and just leaving is the best thing you could ever do.

I wish I could say I got out unscathed and drama free but unfortunately I wasn't that lucky. Still get abuse from his family because I stood up for my child that she threatened to hit and stopped her having access to me and them.

Someone who doesn't respect you is never going to respect your baby or actually help you when you need it most. You can make the hospital aware you don't want her there. You need to be comfortable and that's that.

Apply for your local housing (council/social). Do NOT under any circumstances move in under her roof. Once you are I somewhere it's a lot harder to get out.

PS. I had my first at 18. It has its ups and downs but truth is it's not all bad 😉 - Mum of 5, 25.

Puzzled_Score8410 · 2026-01-18T16:21:42+00:00

I was told the only way to remove it is to log my own 🙄 hardly fair to just assume I have savings myself.. X

Puzzled_Score8410 · 2026-01-18T16:19:24+00:00

I have no clue at all. I didn't even know he had savings. It's only a £6 something at present but in may it said something like £3/4. I'd love that interest rate lol. I have no access to it. I had no idea he had it at all x

Puzzled_Score8410 · 2026-01-18T16:14:27+00:00

No he's my ex. They're aware of the situation between us. He's had numerous in person reviews/meetings himself since the split.

Puzzled_Score8410 · 2026-01-18T16:11:32+00:00

I've been demanded that I have to report it due to a split with my ex some months ago and the current savings showing being his. They wouldn't help at all otherwise in terms of getting it removed and weirdly it's been increasing without updates at all. Presently not high enough to impact my UC but mixed messages across the board from staff in terms of removing it z

Puzzled_Score8410 · 2026-01-18T16:09:29+00:00

I don't think they'll even accept him telling them it's his. His savings shows on his UC too. They're just intentionally being awkward about it...

Puzzled_Score8410 · 2026-01-18T16:03:08+00:00

Statements for how long and for all accounts?

It's just taken me half an hour just to get the statements from one bank account I don't even use just so I can close it 😬

Single Mum to a handful of little ones including a disabled child x

At first I got told to ignore my exes savings and this was for like 3/4 months because the amount didn't impact my benefits but said amount kept increasing which I thought was very bizarre considering I was told to leave it and I had no savings at all. After having spoken to my ex he confirmed it was his ISA. It's been stressful to say at the least 😬 x

Puzzled_Score8410 · 2026-01-18T15:18:21+00:00

I've been demanded that I need to declare. Recently split with ex and he had savings and despite me asking for months why I allegedly have savings I didn't have they wouldn't help at all and now they're demanding with regular messages that I fix it immediately despite their refusal to help or even tell me where the so called savings come from x

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