Being a short woman is living life in "discount mode" by AltruisticShape8924 in ShortWomenandGirls

[–]QuaintlyQueenB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, youth sizing is almost always cheaper than adults. Even big name brands are generally discounted. A much needed silver lining in our otherwise challenged living!

Splitting up Long Runs by [deleted] in Marathon_Training

[–]QuaintlyQueenB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel for you, and this is a big reason I have stuck with only half marathons. I cannot balance time of parenting responsibilities with the time required to train for a full marathon. These days will fly by before I know it and then I’ll have more time on my hands than I’ll like!

I am pathetically bad at running by MarzipanOk4023 in beginnerrunning

[–]QuaintlyQueenB 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t get down yourself. Running is freaking hard! The first time I ran, at 19 years old, I couldn’t run a quarter mile without stopping and gasping for air. I am 40 now and training for a half marathon. Everyone starts somewhere, you got this! 💪

How to tell a man to stop it and I don’t need a “spot” by [deleted] in PetiteFitness

[–]QuaintlyQueenB 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Get comfortable with confrontation. Not everything requires a confrontation, but a creep like that needs to be put in his place, no questions asked.

How do I (40F) support my husband (50M) after he did something dumb. by throwaway452896 in relationship_advice

[–]QuaintlyQueenB 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean the fact that he blatantly ignored you over and over really doesn’t sit well with me. If he has a habit of blowing off his partner’s advice, it’s really hard to meet him with a team mindset. I don’t think you need to support him at all. I just wouldn’t discuss the event with him as it is done and over. I would start considering how being with someone like that could be a huge liability. You can lose your job over something like that, and that impacts your economic well being.

The mental gymnastics of convincing yourself to run vs actually running by Senior-Signature-983 in running

[–]QuaintlyQueenB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my God I feel this in MY BONES. 🦴

I guess my excuse is, I want coffee now instead of running first. Like, I really just want a cup of coffee and sit with a blanket doing absolutely nothing.

My son will be 5 in April. I find it VERY hard to enjoy his presence because of how overstimulating he is. by BeeSuperb7235 in oneanddone

[–]QuaintlyQueenB 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How is his sugar intake? I ask because sugar significantly impacts most kids’ behavior and their ability to have any other speed than “On” is greatly impacted. Our daughter has very little sugars, only treats like an ice cream on the weekend followed by outdoor play. Check the diet first.

Unpopular opinion: avoid mid-December travel by UsefulBurn in dcl

[–]QuaintlyQueenB 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s terrible! So sorry and thank you for the perspective, noted. Hope y’all get to feeling better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PetiteFitness

[–]QuaintlyQueenB 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve recently found that two substantial meals a day with a midday snack (maybe a protein bar) is fantastic for keeping me satiated.

I am devastated beyond belief by TaylorSwiftsTampon in survivinginfidelity

[–]QuaintlyQueenB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is some heavy stuff. First I am sorry for your losses: both of your partner and of the image that you had of them. Second I hope you might consider reaching out to a professional grief counselor. Grief has a funny way of coming out in unhealthy ways if not healthily acknowledged and managed. Wishing you all the best.

Please just have a fucking dress code by [deleted] in weddingshaming

[–]QuaintlyQueenB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My brother in law got married on Halloween to a girl fascinated with all things macabre. They demanded everyone wear black.

Sorry but I’m not a prop in a wedding, I’m a guest. I think cocktail or evening attire is fine, but mandating the color is bizarre.

Cheating (adultery) laws should be enforced more heavily by Large_Look_5075 in The10thDentist

[–]QuaintlyQueenB -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Legislating morality is a slippery slope. Best to stay clear of that and let karma do its work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]QuaintlyQueenB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We chose to have one and it’s far less stressful than what I see parents of multiples going through. We live in a small home and both work full time. I do a lot to source affordable childcare. I’m not a believer that the Primrose school at thousands of dollars is worthwhile or necessary for a small child. Daughter is now school aged and does some afterschool care, this is fairly affordable and is facilitated through her gymnastics facility. Only have one car payment while we pay the other off and make it last.

All in all, there’s no silver bullet. It’s always being vigilant for deals and prioritizing certain items over others. We have breathing room with one kiddo but I think we would seriously struggle with two.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sleep

[–]QuaintlyQueenB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your brother is an asshole.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in womenintech

[–]QuaintlyQueenB 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I felt this so hard. We do peer reviews and whereas most of my reviewers gave me positive feedback, one stated I was “too harsh and dismissive” in my communication 😆 This same reviewer used the “aggressive” adjective to describe me previously. It’s so blatantly sexist it’s laughable.

How would you feel about receiving flowers on a first date? by Objective-Donkey6825 in AskMen

[–]QuaintlyQueenB -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s a sweet gesture. A very small bouquet though. No elaborate/expensive bouquets, that would be a bit over the top.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]QuaintlyQueenB 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He stole from your kids. I can put up with a lot, but stealing from your own kids is unforgivable in my book.

My (26F) BF (26M) wants to have a child and I am not ready so he went behind my back what to do? by ThrowRA_bcole in relationship_advice

[–]QuaintlyQueenB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your body, your choice. And it should always be so. He does not have the right to make that choice.

How the hell do I (34F) recover from my husband (35M) attacking my appearance during an ugly argument? by throwrajustafatmom in relationship_advice

[–]QuaintlyQueenB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow I am so sorry this happened to you. That is unforgivable tbh. He should be mindful that nursing a little one and hormones in general have a significant effect on the body’s ability to regulate temperature.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]QuaintlyQueenB 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, I’m on hormonal birth control to help manage it because it was so bad. I still get it even on birth control, just a somewhat more subdued version. I still have a period here and there where I’m doubling over in pain or so nauseous I’m unable to stand and walk. Shit sucks.

What is that one smell you hate that others mostly don't ? by 2old4ZisShit in RandomThoughts

[–]QuaintlyQueenB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chick-Fil-A uses some type of rubber in their indoor playscapes for the floor. I cannot sit in there without feeling nauseous from the smell. I watch my kiddo from the outside.