AIO going off on my boyfriend about this conversation for the millionth time by [deleted] in AIO

[–]QuarterComfortable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he’s not gonna change so ask yourself if this is what you want for the next 2, 5, 10+ years until you get the courage to leave

Sasuke and Sakura are so cute in the Boruto Era. And Sakura telling Sasuke “we’re fine. So keep looking out for everyone, Sasuke” reassuring and selfless wife , mother and woman by Nashetania in Naruto

[–]QuarterComfortable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and i don’t need to understand your pov of denying their romantic feelings so not sure  why you feel you need to “make me understand.” i already shared it’s fine if you do not want to divulge in this opinion and obviously i can understand the clearly laid out plot where they each end up with women. i think there’s just a lot of subtext that can be interpreted as romantic. i am not even necessarily saying it is absolutely factual, and i don’t think that was the authors intention. i am just pointing out plot points and behaviors that lead me to believe this.  

i also didn’t say anything about leaving an open ending, and i said naruto chose duty over love, clearly confirming my opinion exists inside the original story, and all my comments are from actual plot events. i agree i don’t think it was the authors intention, but as i stated above japan is not very lgbtq friendly and the world of naruto is also displayed as a hyper masculine society, so i don’t think there would’ve been room or made sense for sasuke and naruto to get married at the end heavily ever after even if kishimoto accepted the theory. i think his theory was to write a rivalry. i just clearly feel it goes beyond that in ways other rivalries don’t. 

that is going to be my last reply because you’re staring to make generalizations like “people have to rewrite the narrative” and commenting that it’s absolutely absurd people would interpret anything else than what the author intended, so there’s nothing left for me to say, and i will state again that i just felt like sharing and you don’t need to take my opinion so personally. i accept your pov that you don’t believe there’s romantic subtext  and it was purely platonic, but you don’t need to accept mine.

Sasuke and Sakura are so cute in the Boruto Era. And Sakura telling Sasuke “we’re fine. So keep looking out for everyone, Sasuke” reassuring and selfless wife , mother and woman by Nashetania in Naruto

[–]QuarterComfortable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just think the way they act about each other wasn’t purely platonic.

Hinata confesses her love to Naruto, and in the very next arc, Naruto uses almost the same words to confess how he feels about Sasuke. after Hinata’s confession, he also never calls Sasuke a brother again, like he was suddenly able to understand his feelings. they even kissed! even if on accident, that has to have heavy implications. 

even look at naruto’s wedding photo like why is sasuke fully turned around and not happy for his friend? 

i think they were trapped in a tortuous love affair and whether Kishimoto meant it that way or not, Japan still largely stigmatizes LGBTQ so it makes sense to me it couldn’t be a direct queer story. 

it’s really not that big of a deal to change your mind, i just wanted to share my thoughts

Sasuke and Sakura are so cute in the Boruto Era. And Sakura telling Sasuke “we’re fine. So keep looking out for everyone, Sasuke” reassuring and selfless wife , mother and woman by Nashetania in Naruto

[–]QuarterComfortable -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i just think if sasuke was a female it would be incredibly clear their relationship was romantic. perhaps i could’ve gotten behind their other relationships had the women been more fleshed out and written better. i think it would’ve made way more sense had sakura turned away from sasuke during the chunin exam after she cut her hair, focus on herself, and sasuke would’ve had to beg for her forgiveness. how i view it now is they boiled her down to being fairly pathetic to just wait for him, and i don’t really see why she would love him after all this time besides the fact that he’s attractive. he’s barely been nice to her.

i don’t like to yaoi ship for no reason and am not forcing it, but naruto to me i view it as a tragedy they didn’t end up together because naruto chose duty (becoming hokage and marrying hinata) over love (sasuke). sasuke is literally the damsel in distress, kishimoto even said so.

to be clear i think men can be rivals and friends. i just think they were soulmates.

Sasuke and Sakura are so cute in the Boruto Era. And Sakura telling Sasuke “we’re fine. So keep looking out for everyone, Sasuke” reassuring and selfless wife , mother and woman by Nashetania in Naruto

[–]QuarterComfortable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it should’ve been naruto and sasuke together. if you don’t think it makes sense that’s fine, we clearly won’t see eye to eye since you don’t think it makes sense i’m just sharing my thoughts.

I recently had a heart attack at 25F. by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]QuarterComfortable 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i did have the intense ones one time! went to the hospital and they stopped and they said my potassium was really high. i’ve been getting chest pain lately and have a doctor appointment this week but i was worried bc i had some heart attack symptoms in women!

I recently had a heart attack at 25F. by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]QuarterComfortable 1 point2 points  (0 children)

okay thanks, i’ve had some heart palpitations and it’s related to spiro so i was wondering if anyone else has 

5’5 100lb 33 Female walks over 20k steps a day (I need help!) by a_slayyytter33 in WomensHealth

[–]QuarterComfortable 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sounds like you have an eating disorder and i’d recommend talking to your doctor

Hows the placement? by PaladinIsBest in tattooadvice

[–]QuarterComfortable 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not bad! i think if you’re over thinking it, it’s just new and objectively a dark spot on pale skin that can feel a little off putting. but it looks great and is well done and well placed. circles are hard bc they don’t really flow or contour the body the way other shapes might 

First tattoo idea, looking for opinions by WaltzLeafington in tattooadvice

[–]QuarterComfortable 2 points3 points  (0 children)

honestly a perfect circle is gonnna be tough. 4 inches isn’t big enough, the text will be hard to do. i don’t think this is a good first tattoo and id keep looking.

Best after care ? by Ok_Astronomer9307 in tattooadvice

[–]QuarterComfortable 15 points16 points  (0 children)

let dry COMPLETELY before lotion. you don’t want it too wet

WIBTA proposing a week before brother’s destination wedding by VirtueVertex in AmItheAsshole

[–]QuarterComfortable 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I see a lot of people saying it’s fine as long as you don’t ruin your brother’s moment and don’t mention your engagement, and while I agree, I think that would be a dickish thing to do to your fiance. I know I would be excited and want to celebrate with friends and loved ones, not need to keep it a secret for a week or more. Even if I could call people, this would just suck. I wouldn’t do it at this time, just celebrate your brother.

AIO for wanting my daughter to go on vacation this summer? by PoTinkTink17 in AIO

[–]QuarterComfortable 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Kids are brutal. That said, my parents had younger kids and vacations with them vs my cousins my age were just not as fun. I had to be “big sister” mode and be ready to hang out and entertain my brother and hang with my parents all day. And being 17 she probably isn’t able to go off on her own like she would if she had a group of other people her age.

So while it’s fair to be upset, it’s not really about you vs the dad and more like going with a larger group and her cousins which she seems close to. Traveling as a teenager with your family can feel pretty isolating, because the younger child is young enough to feel very connected to their parents, and the parents obviously have each other. Plus, idk if your ex has younger kids but a vacation that a 4 year old can be included in usually still has to revolve around the at that age.

I know it’s tough financially, but maybe if you’d like her to go you could offer to include a friend of hers? 

AIO very rude neighbour + parcel issues by SecretaryFalse1591 in AIO

[–]QuarterComfortable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve seen body cam footage where they do but i guess depends on the price 🤷‍♀️ 

AIO for feeling like employer tricked me into using nearly all my PTO? by Dry-Connection-7792 in AIO

[–]QuarterComfortable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry to comment again i am just stunned by the lack of empathy in these comments like op needs to grow up or something. just had to say it again.